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A place to OUT the no show men for meets in Alberta  

YYCchick 60F
15 posts
11/26/2018 1:53 pm
A place to OUT the no show men for meets in Alberta

hey there, after chatting a lot with many members and making plans to meet, even multiple plans, totally fed up with the men that first meet come up with an excuse an hour before a meet why they cant meet, some are ok, understandable, and i give leeway, but make a 2nd meet, and 15 min before the meet time they say great will be there and when im at the spot and waiting, a NO SHOW,
then find out im blocked from replying to emails to explain why.
one fellow i even saw his truck with him sitting down the street, i know im not ugly lol so im here to OUT the ones that dont show

anyone else feel free do do this as i feel its probably a pattern with some men.

XXXXXXXXXX0462 , (name removed as to not cause him embarassment or discomfort lol) was today, , he even messaged me 15 min prior to the meet when i said i would be there at 2:30 and he messaged back at 2:15 saying U bet, when i got home he had blocked me.
thankfully theres other amazing ppl around that i know and ended up hanging out with so not wasted trip

twood1600 59M
Ask me for a photo

11/26/2018 2:32 pm

 totally not cool I don't get it if you dont want to meet dont but don't jerk people around ...Sorry you are getting jerked around.....


YYCchick 60F

11/26/2018 3:01 pm

 thing that really gets me is the ppl, men or women that want so many details before meeting, pics, name, what i do for a living, do i live alone, i will go on cam for a brief moment before meeting so the person can see me in real time, but sheesh, im not putting myself at risk cause small towns ppl know everyone and i dont want to be in harms way


mufdiver69er2 63M  
1953 posts
11/26/2018 3:16 pm

 unfortunately,2 salty is correct..you cant out people here..its against the tou..terms of use..cause anyone can falsely(or rightly) accuse without proof.im hopin you slip through the cracks on this one,having been there,done that before..been wild goose chased too a few times..driven 45 miles to an address that was vacant for 6 months..best just block back and let it go...much as ya hate to sometimes..
woop woop


YYCchick replies on 11/26/2018 3:33 pm:
thanks for your response , i just dont think its right, that men do that, and not just once , but more than once, and not just to me, but to others as us women sometimes do talk. lol note i didnt say he was a bad person, and he could have just as easily sent a quick note as to why he backed out 15 min before, especially knowing full well i set my schedule around meeting him, could and should have been doing otehr things,
stuff like this is why good women make it so hard to meet cause they are tired of being jerked around

YYCchick 60F

11/26/2018 3:24 pm

 welll mufdiver i have the email from him that is 15 min before the meet time, and when i was there at 2:29 there was a black avalanch sitting there with fellow inside, but i dont just walk up to strangers trucks, i was the only one with pink hair, the truck pulled away, i walked home, 1 min away, checked the email to ask why , and i was blocked from respoding, i can screen shot
but women should be warned, i would never say something like that if it wasnt true, i dont have a mean bone in my body


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
11/26/2018 4:33 pm

 It is absolutely mind boggling how some folks can be so unabashedly disrespectful & deceitful all at the same time. One would think that so called Adults would act accordingly, really isn't that hard to treat others with the same respect you would expect them to treat you. Just no excuse whatsoever & yet I read the same thing happening here over & over again.Best to move on & hope for the best despite all of that nonsense is the only thing I can recommend.


DrivenGrace 54M

11/26/2018 5:26 pm

 Atta girl!


123gvw 63M
Ask me for a photo

11/26/2018 8:48 pm

 I hear you on your concerns YYCchick. Lots of talkers here that arena blue to follow thru for one reason oor another..........not right or respectful tho for sure


Mr_plzr69 42M

11/27/2018 12:51 pm

 Sorry about your luck with no shows, unfortunately it happens to all of us on here. I have met some great people here and had amazing times with them, am sure you will too. Dont let a couple bad experiences ruin all the fun to be had here for you.


FresnoWoman 53F
Ask me for a photo
883 posts
11/28/2018 5:06 pm

 It's happened to me a few times too, so you've got my sympathies. It's a waste of time and gas. Guess all you can do is try to get them to meet close by so you don't have to go far.


YYCchick 60F

12/3/2018 8:28 am

 seems to be an ongoing pattern on here, after talking to some gf's and comparing names when we talked some of the same guys line up meets then cancel that day (least they cancel) but never to be heard from again then dude goes on to next woman asking to meet lol. seems some of them just also want to collect pics lord only knows if the pics they send out are real cause well they dont ever meet lol


looking4u69ca 63M  
4322 posts
12/19/2018 3:44 pm

 It sounds downright rude. Male or female. Especially if you have been texting or phoning. At least endure a coffee or meal and politely say this will not work for me/us. It's supposed to be an adult site.


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