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Dealing with jerks in here
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Dealing with jerks in here Hey there, Anyone else get rude comments from people after declining to meet them or telling them your not interested or giving them your honest opinion when they ask? I get it rejection sucks but why be rude? How do you respond if at all?      |
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1/14/2019 4:25 pm |
I look forward to everyone’s feedback
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i just quit replying...sorry...but if i am really interested, then they will hear from me...just like the annoying robocall or junk mail..just ignore....i ain't got time for that, just replying and they come back harassing me...ya, sure, if i don't answer, they will continue to harass me but then, i just block them and move on...that easy...
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I gnore the ignorant .To answer at all continues the abuse they have to heap on you due to anger inside of them being directed ouward to any conveniant target .Ignoring them angers them more but offers no target to continue the irrational abuse . rise above ,you owe them no explanation .They would not accept any you give anyway . peace
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Your best bet is to just ignore anyone who doesn't pique your interest. I get bitchy emails from women just the same, I just hit delete and go to the next. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women  Things i miss most about relationships
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1/14/2019 4:51 pm |
You don’t answer it period . This is a free speech and opinion country .
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1/14/2019 4:56 pm |
Yes but look at the audience...
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1/14/2019 5:24 pm |
Best thing to do is ignore and delete messages. Don't get drawn into any conflict, it's just not worth the time. Stay safe!
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I get rude comments from women all the time. I just ignore them. I wrote a blog about the topic... I have a link on my signature... 🔗 Yep... Just ignore them... 😊👍😘 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I just ignore, sorry people are so rude and selfish
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Ignore. Responding just encourages them. I know sometimes it is difficult to do nothing. But, to carry on a dialog is senseless.
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1/14/2019 6:39 pm |
I would rather get rejcted than ignored. Annoying when people wont even say hello.
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1/14/2019 10:06 pm |
I have gotten so accustomed to the non answer that it has become the norm, of course getting less that one response in attempts to reach out to someone I would actually hope to meet over the course of the 3 years that I have been back has lead me to believe that it is not doing anything to try to contact any women at all. I still do and I like to think that I am polite, but my expectations are very low Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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1/15/2019 12:40 am |
Enough with the ignore and blocking mentality by default!!! It's because of this habit we've gotten into that nobody even talks to one another or is even capable of working out issues through communicating anymore! Society is breaking apart here because of this. Here's a site designed entirely for human to human interaction, yet almost nobody can or does. Ugh! Communicate people! If someone writes, know it's a human on the other end. Respect that! Open it. Interact like an adult. If someone is persistent or talks on a different level, simply communicate that you're not interested and that you'll be disengaging from conversation politely. Simple! As for the rudeness, yes! I find that negative social behavior is through the roof anymore!!! Any time I politely decline an offer, turn someone down or input my opinion when asked, immediately I'm either retorted on, retaliated or disposed of with the silent treatment as the norm. It's almost robotic anymore. Men will formulate: "Ok, I have been chatting to this woman for an entire five minutes now [ and I think maybe she digs me ]...am I making the cut?"..."I'm one question away from a make or break scenario [ drum roll ]... Her answer is "sorry, not interested". His programmed robotic reactions...: a . ) Retort by suddenly calling names, making a mockery, fat / ugly jokes. b . ) Retaliate by leaving rude or false comments on a picture section. c .) Ignore by default and close out of IM. d .) Block by default via profile or email sources. Folks, this is what we're left with anymore. 20+ years of this site's existence and this is what it generally boils down to 99% of the time. I applaud those who actually blog or expose ill behaviors publicly for this sort of behavior. Blocking and ignoring does nobody any good here and solves nothing to the issue of the root problem, but exposure is effective!
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1/15/2019 12:48 am |
2Saltie2 - "I used ti politely say no. Some wouldn't like that. Why the no answer is a answer. It's rude imo to write KNOWING you (who write me ) are not who she might be interested in. If didn't read my profile first then they shouldn't be such sore loosers when I don't answer or it's one they don't like." Exactly! I always feel like I'm getting accused and blamed for things due entirely to the ignorance of others who simply don't bother reading my profile BEFORE they contact me. I've been accused of leading men on simply because I chose to be kind and opened up incoming IM's or emails. What? Wait a second...read my damn profile BEFORE you contact me!! Don't write to me first and then have me coach you to read my profile once you've already written to me, then get mad at me, block me, ignore me or get all rude and childish when you read that what you seek isn't a match for why I'm here. Ugh!! I'm so sick of this BS!!
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1/15/2019 12:58 am |
Well1then - "I would rather get rejected than ignored. Annoying when people wont even say hello." Exactly right! This is mainly a personals site. A big part in finding proper matches is in the scouting process. Read a profile first, if you meet basic criteria, write and see how it goes. This is the simple protocol. I find it REALLY RUDE to ignore people who write to me...or to be ignored by others. What ever happened to decency and basic adult communication? If the vibes, feelings, personality or physical attraction isn't there, politely relay that you're not a match and form closure with each other so that the two parties can move forward without argument, hard feelings or a need to blog about rudeness in society. Much better to be politely turned down and have dignity for each other as human beings than to be rudely ignored and disposed of like meaningless trash.
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