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The matter of honesty ...  

starstorm1959 65F
23 posts
2/8/2019 3:02 pm
The matter of honesty ...


Three times. THREE. That's how many times in one month I've found out that an Local Adult Companion friend is either A) married, when he said he was divorced or B ) supposedly in an open marriage when his wife is actually oblivious to his playing around. I had been sleeping with one of these guys for quite a while. I felt pretty betrayed because he was a friend – I thought. But, what REALLY makes me feel bad are the women – I can't imagine being lied to like that.

Here's what I want to tell these guys: I GET that there are a lot of horrible wives and I GET that things can be far from OK in a marriage, but for God's sake, man up and DO something: Get her to agree to an open marriage ... as best friends or ships that pass in the night, whatever fits; or, TELL her what your feeling and TRY to work it out; or, LEAVE. Seriously. The 'll probably be relieved because guess what? They already KNOW you can't stand each other! Just don't lie to everyone involved!

Psychopathy. It is a biological brain defect that results in the complete absence of a conscience and complete inability to feel compassion, shame, love, or even hate. There ARE no emotions; just a need to self-satisfy. What's unnerving is that quite a few of these guys are psychopaths. Caution, girlfriends, CAUTION!

To my friends who ARE honest and authentic men, THANK you! I appreciate you so much and enjoy every moment with you! You are the salt of my world and the sugar on my lips ... Muwah!


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 3:07 pm

And, if anyone can tell me how to show this in forums, I'd love to hear!


92camaro66 57M
1753 posts
2/8/2019 3:23 pm

wait till you show up for a meet and they look NOTHING like in their pics.....OMG i had to walk away one time and felt horrible.....but you deceived me. women do it too.
maybe create a forum post copy and save this and then try to post it....you may have to type it all gain but it is a damn worthy statement and post


sweetyman3434 57M

2/8/2019 3:25 pm

xxxxxxxxxxxx


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/8/2019 3:41 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree with this comment and if married couples would practice more in the communication dept there would be more understanding between the two about knowing when its time to get a line of communication going, sadly most couples stop talking ...


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 3:49 pm

    Quoting 92camaro66:
    wait till you show up for a meet and they look NOTHING like in their pics.....OMG i had to walk away one time and felt horrible.....but you deceived me. women do it too.
    maybe create a forum post copy and save this and then try to post it....you may have to type it all gain but it is a damn worthy statement and post
, OMG! So far, that hasn't happened and yeah I'd feel bad, too, BUT ... alot of attraction is about looks, right? Oh, believe me, I KNOW the women do it too - I hear ALLLLL about it from my friends. Well, thanks for the vote of confidence and advice!


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 3:51 pm

Thanks, Sweety! Hugs back!!


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 3:59 pm

    Quoting  :

Granny, you're probably right. Pretty sad all the way around ...


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 4:01 pm

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    I agree with this comment and if married couples would practice more in the communication dept there would be more understanding between the two about knowing when its time to get a line of communication going, sadly most couples stop talking ...
Kitty, true. Communication is HUGE!


Loslobo264 63M
1 post
2/8/2019 4:30 pm

well said.


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 6:31 pm

Thank you, Loslobo!


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
2/8/2019 8:03 pm

Young Lady, We see it also from the other side, well said, kudos to you..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
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also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 10:00 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Young Lady, We see it also from the other side, well said, kudos to you..
Lonlyforlove, I KNOW you do. Well, cheers, hon, because authentic and principled men and women DO exist!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
2/9/2019 5:56 am

Three times.. Men.. Go figure... 🤔
Yep. I'd be ticked if that happened to me.
I imagine fear and your theory about personality disorders are popular reasons.... 😱
Good luck.... I'm sure you deserve it! 😍👌


starstorm1959 65F

2/9/2019 7:40 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Three times.. Men.. Go figure... 🤔
    Yep. I'd be ticked if that happened to me.
    I imagine fear and your theory about personality disorders are popular reasons.... 😱
    Good luck.... I'm sure you deserve it! 😍👌
Thanks, Paul!


curiousone20144 49M  
21 posts
2/16/2019 10:37 pm

Best of luck finding a true friend!


starstorm1959 65F

2/17/2019 6:55 am

Thank you, Curious!


leather63 60M
816 posts
3/1/2019 9:22 am

Well stated your vebral accumen might not be misunderstood by the average Local Adult Companion member but i think you hit it right on the spot! I might add you are an incredibly beautiful woman in a most understated way, with a mind best of the best for ladies! Hope we can become friends!


starstorm1959 65F

3/1/2019 4:41 pm

    Quoting leather63:
    Well stated your vebral accumen might not be misunderstood by the average Local Adult Companion member but i think you hit it right on the spot! I might add you are an incredibly beautiful woman in a most understated way, with a mind best of the best for ladies! Hope we can become friends!
Well, thank you, leather63! I believe that's very possible - let's chat!


starstorm1959 65F

4/9/2019 1:59 pm

Thank you, Buddieboy!


hungsailorman69 85M
67 posts
6/21/2019 1:17 pm

I agree with you, there are a lot of fakes out there, women too, I always go through the meet though, just being polite. the ones that clicked turned out wonderful. Jim


starstorm1959 65F

6/22/2019 7:03 am

Yes, me too. Thanks, Jim!


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