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Cheating  

LoisHm 40F
11 posts
1/17/2019 9:06 am
Cheating

Is cheating really worth it? I was caught in a motel with another guy and now my husband has had me arrested for adultery. It is a crime that is punishable with 30 days in jail $500 fine or 1 year probation for both parties. I ask again is it really worth it?

forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
1/17/2019 9:46 am

 Does Arizona count as "civilized?" Statistics show this is a rarely enforced law so there must be something else going on. Editorial note: Arizona is a "no fault" divorce state, so this law is only there to complicate divorce proceeding and punish the offending spouse in the final settlement. Mental.
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LoisHm replies on 1/17/2019 10:16 am:
I have to report to the jail in February to do the 30 days.

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/17/2019 9:53 am

 It is highly UNlikely you'll be jailed for adultery here in AZ. It is more likely it will effect your divorce situation.
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LoisHm replies on 1/17/2019 10:13 am:
Well I have to report to the jail in February for the 30 days. My husband is standing by my side as long as we go to counseling.

positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
1/17/2019 10:03 am

 You already answered your own question. Cheating is like gambling. You never play with money you cannot afford to lose.


LoisHm 40F

1/17/2019 10:18 am

 I have to report to the jail in February for this. My husband is standing by my side for now as long as we go to counseling.


windsjohn 72M  
798 posts
1/17/2019 10:34 am

 I thought that law was thrown out ages ago. You need a better attorney, and yes dump that asshole husband. If he told the cops that it was OK you wouldn't be in this situation. This is one reason I moved away from the state I was raised in AZ, to a civilized state CA


LoisHm 40F

1/18/2019 8:04 am

 My husband tried to drop the charges but when he turned me in for drugs and adultery the DA wanted information from me that I would not give up so he keep both charges.


Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
1/18/2019 8:22 am

 Strange you didn't mention drugs before.
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LoisHm 40F

1/18/2019 12:19 pm

 The drugs were not the point. The point is the cheating.


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