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Just a rant  

GrownNsexy861 36F
34 posts
4/13/2019 11:18 am
Just a rant


Lately all I ever met are men and old but don't expect or want to put in any work. But I mean my work is a little effort. Yes we're on the site for the same things basically. That doesn't mean though I stop being a . 33 so I don't see myself as too or too old just grown so I get to interact with different generations of men on here the millennials who usually come at me with a one-liner like..."hey you like cock?" Or something similar which let it be known that I am ever so lucky they messaged me. There's the Boomers who usually put more thought and effort into the message but usually at the same level come over to f*** damn can we get some thing to eat first... that's it all men... there's this expectation or entitlement that men expect me to drive to their home and all expect that we are going to f*** like crazy the minute I walked in the door
Maybe it's because getting older but I miss the four play I miss going for a drink and flirtng with each other. I know for safety reasons a lot of girls would rather you not pick them up but what about meeting at restaurant and then you're driving from there IDK kind of feels like because open that I like to f*** everyone on here expects that I want to f*** them....that's very false very picky there has to be chemistry.. I have to like you as much as you like . so of course they're going to be situations where one of us is just not feeling.
I guess technically speaking I consider myself a feminist but only because I know that self-sufficient and don't need anyone really to help but that doesn't mean though that I feel like a man. still a woman still want to be treated as such still like to be spoiled and pampered still like the sweet little romantic things that guys do you know the reaching for my hand and holding the car door open I don't know if this is just probably though

Okay that was my rant this Saturday morning LOL feedback is much appreciated by the way am I way off-kilter here?

J44IoeK 42M  
10 posts
4/13/2019 11:55 am

Hey. I don't think you're off kilter for expecting to be approached properly when talking/ emailing, meeting in person, etc.

I think the way guys talk to you during broadcasts is going to be different. And often times sexual or in a way some would consider disrespectful..
Outside of that, there's nothing wrong with expecting respect and to be treated like a lady. I do want to emphasize "expecting". No matter how you carry yourself, some guys are going to approach you one way. Period. That's just reality. And the fact that you do show yourself naked/ playing on cam, half of us are going to contact you when we're horny out of our minds. That has played a role in what I say to a woman. just being honest. But please don't stop doing what you do. It's greatly appreciated.

Just understand the reality and know that there will be some that come at you in a way you like. And don't let the ones that don't get you upset. This site is viewed as a place to cum to get off. It's the mental state of most when on here even if they're a good guy. Ignore A-holes, maybe give the ones that are just horny a chance to get it together. If they don't listen to what you want, keep it moving. Some of us do read and do listen. I promise. lol

Just my thoughts,
Jay


GrownNsexy861 replies on 4/13/2019 8:43 pm:
I totes agree with you.

when Im on camera naked...i REALLLLY hope that your turned on watching...i actually have never had anyone come at me disrespectfully in a chat... it's always in a private message

also agree with those of us that sometimes want to have some fun and are either on a time restriction(story of my life) or are just realllly horny lol. even in those situations theres zero need to be a jerk. ....just say "respectfully...uh, may I fuck you?" LMAO JK.

backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
4/13/2019 12:22 pm

Hey Darlin,
.......Although we may be Few and Far between, doesn’t mean we’ve died out completely,.......Here’s a helpful hint, automatically cross of all the guys with dick pics for profile shots,........That right there is a Big thinning of the Herd!........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
Post Script; If you should happen to have a little time on your hands, swing by my blog and say high sometime!


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
4/13/2019 12:42 pm

    Quoting backpocket13:
    Hey Darlin,
    .......Although we may be Few and Far between, doesn’t mean we’ve died out completely,.......Here’s a helpful hint, automatically cross of all the guys with dick pics for profile shots,........That right there is a Big thinning of the Herd!........
    Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
    Post Script; If you should happen to have a little time on your hands, swing by my blog and say high sometime!
Well that will eliminate 80%, 19% have no pics at all.... that leaves you 1%


ml123454 35M
20 posts
4/13/2019 1:05 pm

i feel ya, im 33 and stuck in the middle


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
4/13/2019 1:17 pm

I dont think ur off kilter either, its just that some have bought into the nature of the site and in doing so have lost their manners.....if they ever had any to begin with.

Ive often told people that come at me sideways..." did you intend to be so rude" or crude" , " would u say that if we met in the produce aisle?" Lol

Just keep weeding through the weeds and hopefully a gem will be uncovered. Good Luck ~~


GrownNsexy861 replies on 4/13/2019 8:49 pm:
lol I tell them something like "just a tip if you ever want to get laid from a girl on this site don't start with that"

USUALLY ill get an apology and an actual response. lol so your on point with saying many have bought into the nature of the site.

good news is it takes only a few responses to weed them out!

Thanks! and good luck to you too! dont be a stranger!

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
4/13/2019 1:35 pm

I would've thought that being saturated in adulation day in and day out.One would just alleviate bringing all this attention to this negativity and frustration by choosing who they want to message and put all this cancer behind them.Who knows you may like what flattery can do for you!
It certainly would put one's mind at ease

Using more than all the road!


GrownNsexy861 replies on 4/13/2019 8:37 pm:
uhhhh... huh?

could you say this to me in layman's terms, please

lyavu 50F
1538 posts
4/13/2019 5:13 pm

i feel you. i want someone to want me sexually and lust at me . Wana have sex everytimeee are together.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
4/13/2019 5:21 pm

Most guy don't get responses or message. I read a stat that says for the average guy to get a statistical certainty of getting a response. He has to send 114 messages. That's just a response to a message that's not a date. So the above average guys by that I mean guys who get lots of messages sent to them don't have to try, are really cocky. If a women isn't Down to fuck right away who cares. There's 10 more prospects in my inbox and 10 more coming tomorrow.


GrownNsexy861 36F

4/13/2019 8:32 pm

Im pleasantly surprised that people actually read and responded to my post! that's awesome!!

I think for the most part everyone had valid points to make. CeriosEros, you did get me thinking about the other side of the coin and can totally understand a guys frustration of not getting a real person let alone a response...HOWEVER, Youll catch bees with honey, not vinegar!

MY FAVVOOORRRITTEEE THOUGH
is the guys that wanted to respond to my post in private and inboxed me. there were a few...and the general consensus of those guys is that i should behave a certain way to expect respect from the men on here.

a quote from one:
I just looked at your profile page and my reaction was: What the hell did she expect? If you want to be approached and treated like a "Lady" with respect, redo your profile! And stop with collecting "Friends". (476, wtf?) Most men see that collect of other men's photos in your Friends collection as an indication that you are just a "cock hound"

I don't expect to be treated like a lady btw. I would like to be treated like a woman....like an actual person on the other side of the screen.

I don't understand why in ....2019...we still classify women who like sex in a negative light or as if liking sex makes her less than worthy of a mans respect....idk.

BUT I did ask for feedback so lol my fault.

everyone is entitled to their opinion. you to yours and me to my own.

let's just agree to disagree buddy.

this topic got way deeper than intended lol

to lighten spirits heres a pic of my asss...at the risk of further losing all of your respect.
[image]


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4/26/2019 12:06 pm

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tomacho0862 64M
23 posts
4/26/2019 12:28 pm

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