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I was reading a blog on "Change" and got me thinking  

Heathen_G 65M
391 posts
9/7/2019 12:15 pm
I was reading a blog on "Change" and got me thinking
Another persons blog mentioned changing oneself to attract. [See first comment at the bottom of the page]
scoupe42 60M
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9/7/2019 3:59 pm

 I guess she got "jungle fever"!


Heathen_G replies on 9/7/2019 5:52 pm:
More like "Trunk" fever.

Heathen_G replies on 9/8/2019 11:57 am:
I put up a new picture.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/7/2019 12:17 pm

 Trying to make a change of yourself is so much easier in your teens and twenties, when most of your adult development happens..... but if you're much older now... then change can prove to be be difficult , but not impossible.

Something about life you need to know, something your parents or friends would never tell you: "Some people are just not gong to attract the type of person they want. " ... But don't give up, just be extra careful.

First thing: Stop thinking you need to commit to one person to get sex. Change your attitude about why you're trying to date. You're dating for sex. Not to get into a commitment. You don't need to be in a commitment to get laid.

Or if you're thinking "Fuck you Heathen , I want a commitment"....then if you are dating to find a person to commit to, but you can't date to just get laid [and move on to another], then you need to work on "Getting laid and moving on", BEFORE looking for commitment......[IMPORTANT] because if you can't do that, [attract and pick the person you want], then you should not be looking for a commitment relationship. You don't want to be in the position of relying on that one persons mercy [whom you promised commitment]..

If that day should ever come around and they neglect you sexually, and your only options are to stay and suffer, or pack and leave.....then you are screwed. You want to be sure you can attract others before you commit to one.

Think of that ability [to attract others] as you would a backup parachute. You don't want to go splat!


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