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To all men that have a woman in their lives that truly loves them for who they are, I eny you...  

BigDave19083 37M
10 posts
7/24/2019 9:12 am
To all men that have a woman in their lives that truly loves them for who they are, I eny you...

I wanted you to be real so bad and maybe you are Mindy Carr, I really don't know but I would still love to hear from you, I was so impressed by your respect for me and yourself, I am not sure what family problems are going on for you as you only told me last time we spoke you had talked with your family and would talk to me soon with positive things which I have not heard any yet... or even a word from you in well over 24 hours? Please just let me know you are okay, I don't know I am just worried... whether or not you ever want to talk to me again I just want to know you're okay please, I just, whoever you are... I care about you not just because you looked amazing, that was just one aspect, your heart your personality, your spirit, I saw it all and was floored, so amazed, I don't know what men or women did to you in the past but I get it, you have gone through a lot too. I was willing to wait for months years whatever, I don't think with my dick like other guys Mindy, in fact I have not... i'm just upset is all not at you just don't know what's wrong and i'm so sorry if I should know just don't know how to reach you besides this email now.... I won't bother you again although I will be hurting for awhile and probably won't date for awhile again or look for anything now honestly, I haven't had sex in years I don't even know why I'm saying this to you, i'm probably writing to someone who just isn't into me I get it... i'm no don juan or rico suave or whatever.. I just wanted to be a guy there for you as a friend or anything... I just wish I could hear from you one more time.... my tears could create a river right now, I wanted to have someone care about me sooo bad... I wanted the girl you appeared to be just for you not the way you looked, I wanted the real you It wouldn't have mattered if you weren't perfect and had flaws, I'll leave you alone now I understand if you don't wish to speak with me I am not like the other guys and still hope you find the perfect man one day... I guess... I guess I just wish I had gotten a chance... Whoever you are Mindy Carr my heart is open for you, Just let me know at least your okay, please.... Love, Dave....


BigDave19083 37M

7/24/2019 9:30 am

Please can someone just tell me if she is okay, this is not a joke and I think this girl could be having serious issues or be in trouble as she deleted profiles everywhere and it's like she never existed when we had such a connection..... I am a fool I should have never thought such a girl would fall for a guy like me... I'm just a big dude, there's guys better looking, or bigger I know this and it's okay I just wish I, I just wish someone would give me a real chance to show them who I am as a person, I'm not just a big guy, I have a heart and it really hurts and is hard to breathe.... Sorry for going on and on everyone, I know this site is for sex encounters but she said she was different to me on multiple occasions I was ready to wait years to have sex if need be, i'm a gentleman but nice guys finish last.... I'll never forget you Mindy or whoever you were, even though you never really gave me a chance, to have a beautiful girl like you talk to me as me gave me courage to show my dick online and a lot more....I still can't believe how long I didn't masturbate just to hold it for you as I was so looking forward to meeting you whether or not you were into me or not, I would have just been your friend even. I see everyone as who they are to the best of my ability. I was truly ready to give my all to this girl, no matter what it took, I know i'll probably never know if she's okay or what her real name really was even, but I just want to find someone one day, someone who loves themselves and loves me, that's all I want.. that's really all I want...You can have my house in Havertown, you can have my money, you can take the cars, the weed everything, I just want someone to love me for me.....


bitchkitty2017 71F

7/24/2019 9:41 am

are you sure she is real? many fake profiles and many people delete them if someone tries to get real close..dont believe everything you hear ...if its too good to be true its probably not ...but good luck anyway


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/24/2019 9:43 am

I think you need to talk to some men who have been on this site for a while. You may be misinformed.


SomewhereSE 66M
336 posts
7/24/2019 9:52 am

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    are you sure she is real? many fake profiles and many people delete them if someone tries to get real close..dont believe everything you hear ...if its too good to be true its probably not ...but good luck anyway
I agree, there are a lot of game players and fakes here, you likely got your chain yanked by one of them. Fwiw, a woman in her right mind would never use her real name for her profile name on a site like this. The sooner you forget about “her” and move on the better off you will be.


BigDave19083 37M

7/24/2019 10:01 am

yeah I guess you guys are right... probably just some model who lied about her name, saw her on cam thought she was into me lol, nice.... I feel great.. I love you guys for replying as this made me feel a lot better, I still feel like shit and have not had a good encounter on site yet, just no show's or fakes or worse.... I don't know bad luck or nice guys really do finish last... We spent so many hours together over the days she was beautiful inside and out or whoever they are I aint gay in any way but was going to accept them for who they are just because I knew I liked her confidence and personality.... wow I'm just a dude with a dick and 8 inches ain't shit anyways these days when you got that Mandingo mofo on here with like a 16 inch bullcock… Fuck, I'm hurting...


BigDave19083 37M

7/24/2019 10:09 am

I guess she was a good actress as I fell for it she was squirting fountains and telling me how I had a big thick dick and shit like this, said she didn't want my money and to be treated like other girls... and shit like that.. sorry I just keep it real and this is why I get fucked all the time, I want sex not to get fucked, i'm a passionate guy and give 100 percent in everything I do or I wouldn't live in a half million dollar house in Havertown basically retired at 32.. I do charity work now for philabundance and other organizations in Philadelphia....I don't care about money or this and that it's not because I've had it all my life it's because it's never satisied me in any way shape or form and it truly is the root of all evil.... if people want to see the work of the devil go to the U.S Mint yes I worked there too before fucking shit that goes down there behind the scenes is bs... Look I know i'm sensitive but I have never turned my back on anyone and it just sucks, i'm sorry everyone, please forgive me for ranting, I just want to know i'm a good guy and I didn't ruin some girls life somehow by posting my dick or something....


BigDave19083 37M

7/24/2019 10:16 am

I've had so many fake women contact me on here it's getting to be upsetting, I get people want privacy and don't want there names out on the site and this and that but there must be a better way to have a better chance of finding an encounter on here I don't want to sound desperate but i'm beginning to feel like my friend Dante feels and he's a been telling me since high school things like "that pussy's pussy man just fuck anything that has legs and walks it's all good you'll feel better who gives a fuck." shit like that. Well fuck you Dante you aint my boy anymore you fucked me you piece of shit. I'm out here feeling like i'm dying and I feel like at this moment anybody who gave me time could do whatever they wanted to me, I just want someone to want me that bad I guess..


BigDave19083 37M

7/24/2019 10:29 am

    Quoting  :

When you say I share way too much information bout myself do you mean that I should not tell people anything about myself I just don't want people questioning if i'm real is all I don't care if they don't like something they hear or anything like that. I only posted that much to make someone else feel comfortable as I don't want anyone to question if i'm a real or even a good guy i'm sorry if others feel I posted way too much or whatever I just want to be me... and i'm an open book kind of guy sorry... If someone reads this and wants to give me a shot I would love to get to know you and have an encounter or be fuckbuddies or whatever I know how the game works even though I've been out of it for a bit, I know that every girl I have been with always came and not just that always way before I did, as i'm going to throw this out there too it takes me awhile to cum I even had a chick awhile ago say she couldn't do head cuz of her neck hurting or something as it was taking that long idk i'm just going to do my thing and be honest.. sorry if I upset anyone I care i'm just hurt i'm sorry everyone I really am a nice guy just drank and I don't drink.. just really upset....


BigDave19083 37M

7/24/2019 11:53 pm

Just got another fake offer today lol, third already of the day and the weird thing is the offers have all been by girls nowhere near where i live and they all start and end the exact same way...

I'm over getting used before but these other fake accounts don't even have real girls behind them you can tell it's the same person with all these accounts... sad. Every account is also upgraded too... Added one of them with fake email and placed a tracker on it which told me they were some ip address in India... nice! Yeah good thing i know computers inside and out, fucked with the wrong dude..


BigDave19083 37M

7/25/2019 12:58 am

NVM that's four okay I get it some dude out there thinks it's funny to waste others time and furthermore try to scam them.. Maybe I've just had a really bad start of bad luck on site but somethings gotta give.. This is getting ridiculous I was hurt by the one girl who seemed different that was my fault too for being foolish but then to be targeted so many times on the same exact day... Not just that but i never posted anywhere on my profile that i was even remotely interested in men in any way as I AM NOT!! If you are a dude don't add me unless you want me to fuck your wife like the other dude did otherwise i have ABSOLUTELY NO INTEREST in talking to you about anything on here, just keeping it real, dudes are wasting there time messaging me and trying to add me... I'm real most of the people on here arent' though or hide too much to take them seriously anyways...

I know there are some good people on this site but too much fakes and scammers... If i meet even one girl who seems real i may eat my words but right now i know it's not me, i could have gotten laid by now from just dating in the amount of time and effort I've spent on this site... So i'm going to have dating sites going while this goes because i may not have the biggest package or the most of anything else but i know i'm a good guy who likes to spoil his lady in and out of the bedroom and overall i doubt there are many dudes that could compete with me as a good guy overall. So if i meet a girl i like i won't be back unless it's to delete photos and account probably. I feel terrible that i have not been able to donate my time to charity because I've just been thinking with the wrong head and unfortunately got nothing out of it yet but scammers and fakes.

If anyone wants to change my mind and is a girl within 50 miles or so of where i live hit me up but be genuine and be able to prove you are you and live where you say i have a system in place to prevent getting scammed and no i'm not going to fall for the fakes either... waste my time and i won't just waste yours you try to take an eye from me i will snatch both of yours before you can blink, yeah that's how i roll..


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