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Guys on AFF ... Sharing experience here .... I created a gold profile days ago, with pictures etc.. So after 3 days I have - 295 profile views - 46 flirts - 20 hotlists - messages - chats That's great right? I mean if you are a single guy looking for women here your stats after days are not like that .. BUT here is the thing; guys don't follow up. I replied all messages, shared address after a few chats and on day 2 NOBODY IS TALKING ANYMORE Why is that? A theory - they get a kick of talking a real gurl but have never thought through what playing in real life means. They can't escape home off hours. They can't host. I can, but they can't play during the day. They have no time on week end. They get scared of being recognized by someone. They get scared I might be crazy .. Guys say: girls won't meet. You won't meet either... Anyone can man up here??? Just saying ... |
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So very sad you are so far away. But you know that nine out of ten profiles are fake or scam. Some totally fake some married men looking with no intention of meeting. So if you got two real people out of seventeen you are doing good. Best of luck in your search..
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From a posted comment on the A/L - quote XD9190: I’ll give you my personal opinion. I know a lot of men, including myself, who are not homosexual or bisexual, but see being with a TG (not a TV or CD) as acceptable — just as long as the man is not being topped/sub. It’s not something that most of these individuals or type, would like to shout off the rooftops, but it would be a lie to say that they wouldn’t have been with a TG had they not had some interest. However, a number of studies show that a large majority of men (in general) are attracted to the visual aspect of seeing something they’ve never seen before: an individual with boobs and a dick. And men are easily aroused by visual stimuli. With that being said, a majorly of men have only seen a TG on video; or maybe at a high end strip again, where the women were porn stars or models (which we both know, likely represents less than .050f the TG community). Therefore, USUALLY the only one’s that are available are not what they were originally “looking for.” And in that case (again, I am speaking ONLY for myself and those I know — not to mention, likely the ones you have experienced yourself) they don’t want to be seen with a TG who is not passable. For doing so would not only be equivalent to being out on a date with a man, but at the same time, a person of whom they are not attracted to. Lastly, remember (as you pointed out) that there is a large majority of the male population that will fuck anything that has a hole — and by no means do I mean any offensive. I only say that because you hinted on the issue; and for the most part — and I’m making a guesstimate, but I’d say around 50-600f men are just sexual deviants. Anyhow, I’m sorry for your difficulties. If someone doesn’t want to treat you right, you just need to move on (or don’t even let them into your life to begin with). I thought it was a good answer and you might get something out of it.
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Is being a Shemale that bad to men to want little more then sexual relationship By TxSheMale21o 99 F 1 question | View my blog 9/30/2019 Couldn't find a link to it
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I can tell you MEN DO MEET. From here I've met a TON Over the YEARS Too many are too used to fake and inauthentic people ruining the internet. I have a plan Winks. don't worry about my plan, I know what I'm doing. Just wanted to say Hang In There From a NonBinary "Sunday Morning" By Maroon 5 is what I listened to while writing this. Signed The Goofy Artist This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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there are so many fakes on here on both sides it's actually pretty sad that people actually pay.
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Sex is almost entirely a "Role-Playing" game. We meet someone who seems attactive to us, and we begin to define the relationship in a manner which is mutually comfortable. The problem wieth ambi-sexual and trisextual and (whatever), we don't know the rules. So the whole would-be relationship goes down the tube, because nobody knows who they/we/he/she really is. " What do I do??" they think. And you can't blame them. Speaking for those of us who are (at least nominaly) mono-sexual, we may be "interested", but we are "IGNORANT". If we don't know what is expected of us, we try to play by the rules which are most comfortable in terms of our own experience. That may not be appropriate in a multi-sexual relationship. (and I apologize for any typos ... I lost my glasses .. which -is another issue entirely.) So when multi-sexual partneres meet monosexuals, they might tend to be dismissive of the "RUBES" who invade their spaces. This does not encourage new wanna-be's. Is that what you want? Personally, I'd like to explore new frontiers; but if that puts me in jeopardy of beinng disrespected by "experienced" members, I'm unlikely to stick around long enough to learn the esoteric rules for the esoteric game. Folks tend to hang around in websites which they find interesting/unusual, with the (reasonable) expectation that the "old Hands" will respect their newbies and help them to feel more comfortable. When the "Old Hands" end to denigrate the newbies ... they lose their growth potential in whatever website they choose. BOTTOM LINE: You old guys .. get ahold of yourselves. Don't trash the ignorant people who only want to learn whether they are really interested. in jointing your minuscule fraternity. This goes for an website, or threat, on the Internet. If you want to limit your membership, just bad mouth the ignoramity who are trying to decide whether "this" is a friendly website or a closed one. If you undermine the persona of wanna-be applicant's you will die like the buffalo and the Yeti ... for no better reason than that you serve not significant purpose. Jeri
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I don't wish to be rude, but most men look at the profile pic, maybe they think you are a woman, and when they find out you are a trans? they move on. You've only been on a week, give it time  Oh and if you hover over a pic, it shows as a view, so some "views" may be inadvertent. Good luck 
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