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Tramp! Whore! Slut! Bitch! I've heard them all. Hell, I've been them all, and then some. "The Bold & The Beautiful," "The Hung, The Young & the Restless," "The Gays of our Lives," "The Good, The Bad & The Ugly," it's all right here in my...
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The Mixed Gender Bender!!!
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Posted:Aug 28, 2015 12:13 am
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By now, you all know that I am gayer than Paul Lynne, Liberace and Richard Simmons put together. But for some reason, hosting twelve sex parties wasn't enough. And with some severe arm twisting, a mixed gender party was put on the calendar.
To make it clear, I wasn't putting nearly as much work into this one as my others. I did clean up, but I wasn't cooking. I wasn't supplying the alcohol. Hell, I wasn't even going to be there. The two main guys who wanted it were to supply the females, and I put sheets on everything so all I had to do was a couple of loads of laundry when I got back.
The night before I hosted a strip poker night, for men only. And the one time I didn't answer my door, would be the time that some jackass would bring a girl with him and dumbass let them in. I don't usually make scenes in public but I was livid! After removing the couple from my home, I started drinking. Everclear, 151, Goldschlager, Jagermeister...anything to help me get my homojo back. But nothing worked, and I just ended up tipsy as hell.
Tipsy turned to drunk while I was asleep. Somehow, I managed to touch up the house and turn it over to the one of the two guys I trusted. Sadly, the girl he was suppose to bring, a lesbian, bowed out. I went out for a date and a massage and even though I doubted the other guy, I did hope for the other's sake that he would come through for them. See, the other guy is hot as hell, but comes across as shady to me.
Upon my return, I learned that the shady hot guy never showed, and neither did his female posse. 16 guys were in my house, making do with what was there and I was no where to be seen, found or enjoyed. I heard one was hot, one was immensely talented and another was well endowed.
Did I miss out? Yes and no! I hate there was an all male party in my house and I wasn't there. But I am thrilled that I have knocked that out of the way, and never have to revisit the subject again.
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My Twelve Days of Christmas!
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Posted:Dec 23, 2013 12:37 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2024 12:55 am
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I will really make an effort to keep this as short as possible. But sometimes, a good memory can wash over you and you just lose yourself in luxury.
Day 12~ I have to cook because the way to a man's heart is through the stomach. So I'm making a turkey, ham, meatloaf, fried chicken, rabbit and venison, with homemade macaroni and cheese, country potato salad, stuffing, green bean casserole, creamed spinach, angel biscuits and pumpkin stew for sides, and pecan pie, sweet potato pie, chocolate mousse, coconut cake and egg custard for dessert.
Day 11~ The sexy stripper I met downtown. I love it when a stripper not only looks good, but has intelligence, a sense of humor and personality to boot! This guy and I took turns buying each other shots and drinks, and I had a damn good time with him. Unfortunately, the bar has closed and I haven't seen him since.
Day 10~ I met a wonderful guy on line that we still communicate to this day, but we have yet to actually have a date yet. I've got enough pictures to know I would like to at least see and sample the goods. But I understand, he has recently adopted two , so we should wait until they are acclimated in their present situation before we rock the boat, and each other's worlds. Nonetheless, some liquor and home cooking could just get him over the hump!
Day 9~ I'm not proud of it, but I have three fag hags. All of whom have made a few missteps where men are concerned. In most cases, there were far from perfect, but were hot as hell. So I would chose either the guy that I fixed one up with ( they're married now) or the worst one of all the shit that floated by. Yes, he was an asshole, but I think I can handle him better, being a man. Besides, there is just something about gay men and assholes that seem to work together well most of the time.
Day 8~ Most of the guys who spent time at my place, courtesy of my housemates' two sons. Most of whom were cool, curious, open minded, drinkers, who also happened to be young, hung, full of cum and sexy as hell.
Day 7~ Another one I'm not overly proud of, but I had a good friend that we would party quite a bit. To the point of usually me crashing at his place. Well, one night, I woke up, feeling hot and overly amorous, and he was just laying there asleep, and I managed to check out the goods. Nice hairy, a dreamy, hairy ass and surprisingly large and in charge in the front. He never woke up, and I never told him, but I've thought of him slightly differently every since.
Day 6~ You've heard that damn song, "Save A , Ride A Cowboy?" Well, I think I got the wrong one. I chose the the well endowed but really restricted bum steer, but I should have taken the singing cowboy at the bar. It would have been a rough ride, just because he ignored me most of the time. So I would think about all the nights I wasted trying to impress and jacking off to his ass, and I would wear that mother fucker out! Long live, Black Beauty or Black Stallion!
Day 5~ One of two Steve's. One was an awesome redhead who I never got to know as well as I wanted, as he was never single. But oh, the dreams I had of that man! The other was my bar buddy, We had an understanding that if either of us were horny and alone at the end of the night, we would go to his place and help each other out. The problem was, I would never get mine and he would go too damn soon, usually after one act. I suck his dick, he pops! I eat his ass, he cums! I fuck his ass, he shoots! Just one time, I'd like to do all three, and maybe even take a little ride myself, and we both get to cream before it is over!
Day 4~ Either my every Friday out of towner or the sexy blond creature I only had once. My out of town guy was a sexy, bisexual bottom who loved to party and play. I even found a few nice accessories for me in his little bag of tricks. My favorite was the red stuff. Mm! Mm! Mm! And what a talented and amazing ass he had. I met the blond at the bar and after hours of making out, brought him home with me. Now that was one hot night, and when it was over, I guess I said something he didn't like because he never came back. See, I have two beds in my bedroom, and I told him that if he really wanted to sleep, he should sleep in the other bed. I only meant that I can't have a hot naked body laying next to me in bed and not mess with it. i thought I was being courteous, but I guess he didn't see it that way. We still see each other at the bar, and still make out there, but he doesn't want to home anymore.
Day 3~ The sexiest bartender in town. He worked at a bar that is now closed, but he was so damn fine, and so well built, and so damn sweet. How sweet was he, you asked? This gorgeous mother fucker worked all day, then took off his underwear, signed them and gave them to me. I still have them, trapping his natural masculine musk and essence in a Ziploc bag, which I open from time to time. All I can tell you is that I've seen it all, and it sure looks good to me, he's a complete sweetheart and an amazing kisser. I just want a closer inspection, to sample the goods.
Day 2~ The manager of the bed and breakfast. I've actually only stayed there a few times, and once I even cooked breakfast for us all, but he was worth it and then some. He's a little different, a bit of a partier who loves to dance, but that face, that ass, that cock! My! My! My! And in all his kookiness, he still manages to be something of a sweetheart. Just a fun guy to be around all and all.
And saving the best two for last...
Day 1~ Because he is married and hopefully his husband will be at work, he can have the day shift. This guy at one point was not only the dreamiest bartender in town, but my very first friend when I moved here. One of the sweetest guys you will ever meet and sexy as hell on top of it, there is no way you could not want him once. But then add in a mutual attraction and having some much in common, it's spontaneous combustion baby! But because I am a friend first, I would get out of the house before the hubby gets home and head into...
Night 1~ There is this sexy ass school teacher I've been talking to on line for years, but haven't had the pleasure of meeting yet. But I've seen the pictures baby! That beautiful face, that gorgeous smile and that dreamy ass I could live in. Lord, have mercy! In the words of Miss Patti Labelle, "Teach Me Tonight!" But let me warn you, my goal is to become teacher's pet, and like most pets, I may be around for quite some time!
Damn! I've got to go! Happy Holidays everybody!
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My Halloween Date Was A Drag!!!
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Posted:Nov 8, 2013 1:02 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2024 12:55 am
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I bought fifty dollars worth of weave and a relaxer to put in my hair. It took me three hours just to do my nails. I even shave my face, legs and chest for this. It was easy picking the fur, the heels, my bag, even the make-up was cool, but deciding between the last two dresses was a bitch! But when it was over, so was I. Folana Labelle was my name, and having a damn good time was my game, at least for that night.
So my happy ass strutted into the first bar. I went looking for a familiar face, but I didn't find one. The bartender didn't recognize me, but she did give me a nice, strong, hard, Long Island Iced Tea. It made me a little loopy, but comfortable enough to snap my fingers and eventually dance to the music. I went out back to smoke a Capri Menthol 120, a long, skinny cigarette that actually packed a wallop, and when I came back in, a nice looking guy named Alan had bought me a drink. So I spent a few moments with him, let him smell my Patti LaBelle Girlfriend perfume and played with his chest hair with my nails. You know, it is easier to sing like a bitch than it is to speak like one. I tried to mimic Diana Ross on "Ain't No Mountain High Enough." Eventually, I left a lipstick stain on his collar and I left.
The second and third bars were right next to one another. The first one wasn't very friendly towards me, but a well endowed cowboy took a liking to me so I hung out with him for a spell. He tried to teach me to line dance, bought me a drink, and figured out that most of my parts were real. I did much better at the other bar, where this sexy guy and I played strip pool. Why he wouldn't play when he was in his underwear is beyond me. And I made out with another sexy, well endowed guy for some time before I decided to head for home.
Walking home though was a problem. See, even with the messed up hair and smeared lipstick, I still looked good enough to sex, at least to one older guy who kept following me in his truck. Even in my altered state, I was trying to come up with some way to get out of the situation, so I ducked into another bar. Not being too acquainted with it, I ordered a drink and sat down at the end of the bar where no one was.
I had made it halfway through my cocktail when a sexy, young man came up to me and asked if I was male or female. I didn't quite get it, because he had been talking to two females before he walked over to me, but I told him male and showed him my Adam's apple. Apparently, there was a bet going on about me, and I was impressed that even at the end of the night, I might have come across as passable. He won the bet and bought me a drink. His name was Kevin and he didn't leave far from the bar. When I told him why I was in there, he said I could spend the night at his place, clean myself up and get home in the morning.
Now I'm not one to kiss, show and tell, but I will say a few things about him. In addition to being an absolute sweetheart, he was actually quite attractive. Long, curly strawberry blond hair, gorgeous blue eyes, lean built with a hairy chest, a beautiful ass and one hell of a cock. I learn all of this when I gave him a rubdown before we went to bed. Yes, he even shared his bed with me. But I was a lady and the southern belle my mother raised me to be, and he was a perfect gentleman.
However, if you ever do decide to try life on the other side of the fence, even if just for a night or a few hours, I truly would appreciate it if you came a callin'. I would love to return your generosity and hospitality!!!
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So Much To Catch You Up On!
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Posted:May 8, 2013 11:19 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2024 12:55 am
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My main project right now is a wonderful, unfortunately straight guy I would love to see with an amazing woman. Now trust me, if I could get it, I would. But since he only plays for the other team, I will help you ladies out. Now I have inspected it enough to say, everything looks good from here. He's not perfect. He's not rich and loves to party, but he is quite handy, very easy on the eyes, and has a heart of gold!
The organization I work for has changed hands and names. The mission is still the same, and my role has expanded, but it is really cool and fun for me, and the group itself could be fun for any male interested or curious about the homosexual group scene. Ask me about my group, Homopolyamorerotitopuphoria, if you one of those guys.
I'm also helping with a gay B&B. The hope is to have it ready for the big race, Memorial Day, Gay Pride Month and the summer. So if any male is coming to Indy in the near future, ask me about the newest, coolest place to stay.
One more before I leave you alone. I have an older gay white male looking for love, romance and plenty of sex. He has a preference for non-caucasian men, but don't let that stop you, as he will work with just about anyone. He's not perfect either. He's near seventy, not large and in charge, if you know what I mean, doesn't cum due to prostate surgery he had years ago, and is limited in what he does in the bedroom, but there are good points. If he has anything, it's much harder for him to pass it to anyone, and because he has to pump it up for an erection, bottom guys can ride him for hours.
And don't let me forget the gorgeous, homeless guy. He's bisexual, but his preference is for the ladies. He has some mental issues, but he is as sweet as pie and sexy as hell! Ladies looking to take care of someone couldn't go wrong with this one.
And that's it for this one.
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It's been a while but we are still busy!!!
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Posted:Jan 18, 2012 11:00 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2024 12:55 am
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It has been a while since I posted here. Actually, I forgot I had this spot designated for such purposes. I do a lot of it in our own periodicals now.
Yes, GG4G has doubled in size since I was last here, with 33 chapters in ten states now, and a slew of associations, groups, organizations and affiliations thrilled to help us promote the homosexual group scene.
We do still get the rare request for something strange or different, so I will come back here to see about helping them out as well!
For example, we have an older interracial couple looking for younger playmates to visit them on the regular basis in Indianapolis. In Beech Grove, we have a transvestite looking for guys to come over and supply her with her favorite drink. And we have a black guy looking for guys to come over, have a cocktail and help him roll and smoke while he he is sucking on other things!
Crazy the things we try to help with huh? Holler back if you or someone you know may be able to help with some of these request.
Until next time, remember, the mind is not the only thing that is terrible to waste!
Crazy
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Yet Another Change...But this one will be here a while!
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Posted:Jan 31, 2009 4:27 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2024 12:55 am
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I don't think we will have much of a problem here, but if any of you miss either "All About The Hunt, Baby" or "The Discussion Group," let me know and I will direct you to the column they have become. However, I think this space may do more good for gay, bisexual or curious men.
As a founder of Gay Guys for Groups, (GG4G), our 141 members in 15 cities, frequently come up with special orders or requests. We try to accommodate as many as possible. But sometimes, we don't have the right members in the area, the right place to do something, or something and it doesn't happen. It was my resolution to take at least five of our cold cases and make them hot sessions. And perhaps with your help, I can.
I will be posting four or five of our more difficult missions, usually in Saint Louis, Kansas City, Missouri or Indianapolis, the three areas with the most demand right now. If you are a less than 100% straight man who might be able to assist, leave word here and I will contact you privately with more details. I have four for you guys tonight.
1) I have a transvestite who loves cum. They would like to have a group meet regularly to satisfy this urge in one of two places. You would have to be disease free, quick to the punch and having a quick recovery time would be a huge plus! The hope is that some of the other guys would stimulate you to the point and they would receive the benefits. If this could be you, leave me a comment and we will take it from there.
2) We have an interracial couple looking to build a family of playmates. Literally, get together for holidays, outings and such with the benefit of regularly playing with these two guys. One is an attractive near sixty white man with an amazing body for his age. He is a romantic bottom. The other is a decent looking black man in his late thirties. He is an oral, romantic versatile guy. Their family members should be romantic tops who can handle playing with two guys at once. Sometimes there would be up to five guys there. If this interest you, you know what to do.
3) We have a black guy seeking hairy white guys to orally service. He just ask that you be disease free, have a place to play, and be in shape. A bonus is if you have time for him to enjoy giving as much as you will enjoy receiving. If this is you, you know what to do.
4) We have a talented older white guy looking for playmates and hosts in his area, as he is closeted and married. He doesn't care about ages, colors or sizes, as long as you are sexual. He is mostly an oral top by the way. If you wouldn't mind hosting him and possibly a few others, let me know. In all honesty, I would make the trip to play with this one again. lol
And those are my projects for now. Thank you and have a great night!
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Major Changes!!!
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Posted:Apr 20, 2007 2:38 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2024 12:55 am
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Yes, I know it has been a while since I've been here, but there has been some major changes in my life that has major repercussions on my blog here.
I turned a year older and took a month long tour to celebrate. St, Louis, Kansas City, Indianapolis, Seattle, Lubbock and Braddock, Texas, Cincinnati and Toledo, Ohio, Louisville, New Orleans and Chicago, thank you! I have never partied so much or have so much fun since the new year started.
All of this woke up a dormant side of me. A more sensual, intimate, romantic side. A more passionate, erotic, amorous side. A more adventurous, insatiable, uninhibited side. A more freaky, kinky, sexual side!
I've had body shots, played strip poker, attended orgies and got busy! I threw a nude pool party, hosted a hot tub party and judged a few risque contests. I partook in libations I would never have thought to enjoy. I had sex in a park, at a gas station and in a public library.
I have become a monster, a beast of sorts, a dirty old bastard and I'm loving it.
So I have moved to another state and I am enjoying this side of my life more. So look for more visits from me here, but don't look for discussions. I'm on the hunt now, for playmates, for adventures, for whatever I can get into. Still not doing the women yet though.
So my personal hunt for physical, sexual and romantic gratification will be what this is about. The hunt for a more fulfilling personal life.
Hopefully, I will be living up to my name in no time!
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Heated Discussion!!!
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Posted:Jan 31, 2007 2:35 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2024 12:55 am
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I do apologize. Didn't realize it had been half a year since I was last here. Not that it matters to most of you, but the holidays and work have really kept me busy. But I got back on the 19th and so we got together at my place and ate, drank and was merry as we caught up.
Until, I opened my big mouth.
When I left, Nicole, Michelle and Tim were all cheating on their respective partners. Now it seems, Nicole and Tim have confessed to their loved ones and are currently in open relationships.
Perhaps I'm too much of an incurable hopeless romantic. Maybe I'm too old-fashioned. But isn't that an oxymoron? Really, the only thing open is legs. What is the point?
When you get married, there is a part in the ceremony where the minister says, "forsaking all other." There is a reason for that. You chose this person to be with for the rest of your lives. So no matter how tempted you may be to explore something else, you are proving yourself and your love to your partner by staying faithful.
Why would you even want to be in a relationship if you don't want to be with just one person. You can date the same person twenty-five years and sleep around and never call it a relationship. Never make any sort of commitment to them. That to me, makes much more sense.
I waited all night for either of them to enlighten me. They never did.
After everyone left, I wanted to get on the phone to their lovers. I didn't. Never would. But I wanted to know what makes a person who has seemingly been in a faithful, committed relationship decide to authorize adultery!
Like that will fix something? Think about it! There was a reason why they went outside the relationship in the first place. How is that issue being addressed? It's not! All you've done is allowed someone else the opportunity to give them something you didn't. And if they find it elsewhere, particularly if the third party offers everything else you were providing, what guarantees their return? If whatever was missing was important enough to cheat on you for, does it not stand to follow it might be important enough to leave you for as well?
At the end of the night I reached this conclusion: There is a natural build-up to relationships. Meeting, dating, dating exclusively or relationship and marriage or its equivalent for gays. During that dating period is when you figure out if you want to be with that person alone. Nothing says you can date more than one person at a time. But when one starts winning your heart, that's when you should evaluate the potential for a successful relationship. With the possible exception of an serious illness, I can think of no justification for devaluing the standards of a relationship. No longer compatible, get out! Sexual issues, talk and work them out together! Communication works for most issues in a relationship.
In closing, there are certain expectations that come with a relationship; fidelity, honesty, trust, and love. So before you enter into a relationship, look at the person you are considering and ask yourself, "Can you offer these things over a prolonged period of time?"
And if the answer is no, keep dating until something changes.
I'm sure I've pissed a few more people off now, either with the content or the length of this thing. Making up for lost time I guess.
Until next time, take care!
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An Inch Long? Then I Am Gone!
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Posted:Jul 30, 2006 4:23 pm
Last Updated:May 24, 2024 12:55 am
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It was inevitable! You just can't get away from it know matter how hard you try. Does size really matter? And honestly I don't know how we got there!
Before we begin though, I must explain something. Androgyny, "Gyny" for short, is a name I gave to my inner self years ago when I was a . That's when I discovered I had a hormone imbalance during my puberty years and did nothing about it. So now, I can't grow enough hair on my chest, my nails can grow pretty damn long if they go unchecked and I was diagnosed with gynomastia at fourteen, which gave me larger chest than I would have preferred. So yes, I am an extremely romantic, kinky freak who uses all of his assets. That said...
We started our meeting with me because I was experiencing mixed emotions about a couple of compliments I had received. One day last week after some intimacy, a guy asked if I had done drag because I had "perfect breasts" for it. The very next day another guy, in the middle of it, said I was "hot" and later mentioned he loved my "more feminine qualities."
Sounds like no big deal to you perhaps, but for decades, I have gone out of my way to hide the feminine when in masculine settings and hide the masculine when I'm in drag or something. It never once occurred to me that I would meet men who could appreciate both sides of me at the same time. Threw me for a while but I have got a grip on it now, actually thanks to the meeting but I digress.
Anyway, the breast comment opened the door on is there such a thing as too much. Now, with only two and a half guys in the room, it certainly isn't a national poll or anything, but the consensus was, yes there is such a thing as too much breast. Dolly, love you but you have too much. Pamela, even after the surgery, you have too much. Debra Messing, have more babies honey. You need help. And as for myself, mine are perfect in the sense of versatility. My outfits can usually make them as big or as small as I need them to be for the occasion.
Of course, the ladies were quick to point out the other size issue as well. Tim, who described himself as reaching for the average, has become a bit of an expert on the subject. He's researched the hell out of it actually. He told us that the average length is 4-6 inches and girth is between 4.5-5.5 Sadly, being the only black guy in the room, I couldn't help but wonder if that included black guys. And of course, the girls were amused. I believe I told you in a previous blog that Eric was blessed in that department. Now forgive me if I get this part wrong, but I believe Tim said that the hymen? was about 4-5 inches in or on a woman. Not my forte, sorry! So essentially, that is really all you need to get the job done. So again, technically yes, there is such a thing as too much!
But let's face it . We have become fascinated with greatness. We like our big breasts and massive members. Those who have seen the "Full Monty" know we were curious about a certain guy's schlong. And we all freaked when we saw Jaye Davidson's in "The Crying Game." I hope I got his name right. And if it seems I focused on the penis here, it is not solely because that's what I like, but also because women don't usually hide their breasts so there is no guessing there.
But the group's overall experiences pointed out another fascinating fact. Those who were not as endowed, either up top or down below, tend to make up for their shortcomings in other areas. They sucked better, or ate better or foreplayed longer. Perhaps they feel the need to overcompensate. Perhaps they get more practice doing other things. Whatever the reason, the group as a whole was grateful to those who aim to impress as well as those who are simply blessed.
And I've decided once again to just take what I can get and work with it. Hell, it only has to happen once and I might just learn something from it. So although a yard would make me smile, perhaps an inch could be worthwhile. Until next time everybody...
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Good Sex...Quality vs. Quantity
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Posted:Jun 5, 2006 12:35 am
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Our discussion this week was about the amount of sex and the quality of sex we were having. Or in some cases, would be able to have. Certain things became abundantly clear.
Married people really don't have very much sex within their marriage, and it gets worse as the couple racks up years. I couldn't help but think that this might be contributing to the number of affairs and divorces there are. But in this day and age, you would think these people would appreciate what they could have between themselves. In a good marriage, there would be monogamy, which would make for safer sex. There would be feelings, which I personally think makes even the lousiest sex more enjoyable. If you don't want to use condoms, this would be the ideal situation to be in. And compromising on the frequency of sex to accommodate both parties would make it safe, meaningful sex for both people.
And age is not really a factor. I guess if you are a senior citizen, there might be a lack of energy or desire for sex. But being one of the oldest members of the group, I learned that I want it more than anyone in the group. And that for some reason, twenty-somethings seem to gravity towards me for that reason, amongst other things. Nicole would be the actual busiest one of us between her two men. And Eric, the baby of the group, isn't getting nearly enough at 24.
And all the girls and I have this strange thing working for us. We get greedy when we get it and even worse when it is good. I call it that natural high syndrome, where we live from afterglow to afterglow, until the cycle is broken. Sure, great sex makes for a much longer period of afterglow, but we want to keep it at that level. We don't want to come down. So we try to feed it, with quantity because there are too many variables affecting the quality of sex.
So what we learned is that quality sex is definitely better than the quantity of sex, though most are willing to settle for a lot of it to maintain that natural high. We also discovered that along with the partner's abilities in the bedroom, feelings, emotions and a connection between the parties also enhance the quality of sex. And that age plays a fairly minute role in the sexual arena.
It was a really good conversation and I think we all took a lot home with us. I know I will be using what I learned to get more regular great sex with as few playmates as possible until husband #4 shows up. I can only hope it helped my cheating friends make better decisions about what they are doing. And if this helps some of you alter your sexual lifestyles to more gratifying and safer practices, that's even better. Until next time, have fun!
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No Honor Among Thieves!
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Posted:Apr 9, 2006 3:16 pm
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I'm not exactly sure how we ended up on the topic. I think we were discussing the importance of size in the bedroom.
Now keeping in mind that at one time I was "active" and have had lots of experience with men, I also wanted to point out that size doesn't really if there are strong feelings between the two parties involved. So I said that I thought any shortcoming, not necessarily size, could be overcome or overlooked if there is more going on there than just a physical or sexual act.
That's when I heard the words, "Or you get somebody else!"
Turns out two of the girls are cheating on their men and one of the guys is cheating on his other half.
Nicole has a great husband. Spoils her rotten. Makes good money. And for the most part, a damn good man. He's not the greatest looking guy in the world in my opinion but he's intelligent, generous and decent. And she married him. All of a sudden, he can't get have the attention she wants and she dallies with another man.
Michelle is a bit different. She has a man who stays at home with the while she works and he has a part time job on the side. He takes care of the house, the yard, her and still contributes financially. And he is gorgeous, with a great heart. I would take him off her hands if I could. But he is devoted to her. Excuse my French, but yet she's fucking around with some guy on the job.
Tim always has been a bit of a slime-ball. Only works if he has to. Lazy. And a bit of a user. He found a sucker in Tom, a nice guy who has his own insulation company. Tim could help Tom there but doesn't. Then Tom comes home, cooks, cleans and take care of Tim's needs. Even gives him cash each week. And what does he get in return? Different men in his house everyday while he's at work, eliminating Tim's former need to masturbate.
If you are a slut, damnit, be a slut! HO! ! Whatever, just do it. Don't invite people into your life in a role you really don't want them in. Don't play with other people's feelings and emotions in a quest to get what you want. Keep your shit clean! At least tell everyone the real deal before they get started. Then they can only blame themselves if they get hurt.
And what happened to commitment? What about those vows you people take? Why don't people remember that the problems in a relationship are created by the parties in that relationship and can really only be fixed by those parties? Getting outside help may be necessary, but adding another party is not. Complicating the situation with extras usually only makes matters worse. If you are that unhappy, if you two can't make an honest go of it, if you two can't fix the
problem, or simply don't want to, get the fuck out! And before you start focusing your attention elsewhere.
And if that wasn't upsetting enough, none of these dumb asses upgraded. Nicole stayed about the same, but doesn't have the time in or the devotion that her husband has. Michelle picked far worse than what she has at home. And Tim's never stick around long enough to find out.
As an entrepreneur, it makes sense to me to do a risk analysis before making any major decisions. If things go wrong, will I be better off or not and can I handle the loss? In these cases, no one will be better off if their other halves find out what's going on behind their backs. Hell, all of them are in for difficult times if they ever get caught. Yet they still think it is worth it? Somebody's computer or calculator is seriously malfunctioning. My point is ...if you are going to cheat, much sure it is with someone equal to, in total, what you already have. Anything else would just be more stupid than cheating itself.
If you haven't figured it out yet, I have the wisdom and am the moral compass for the group. Damn shame, huh? The gay guy does all that, and still gets paid and laid, without cheating!
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