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Just thinking out loud about why interracial dating in the South is still taboo and how I try to fix it.
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Asking for a friend
Posted:May 17, 2019 8:13 pm
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2019 7:38 am
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Lets play a game. You, my other family be the therapist and me the patient. Now I am a very curvy woman, some may say I am fat with a good attitude, some say I am short ,fat and sweet. When I meet a man I choose to drive myself to where we are meeting, if it is to dinner I try to be a pleasant dinner guest. I am an equal partner I will for dinner or let him for dinner if he so chooses. After a nice dinner and time is late some men have thoughts of cuddling after dinner but and let me say in caps BUT if it is not the desire of the lady or the man ( yes there are some shy men there) why is it hard to understand the word NO? Maybe it's too soon, or nerves are in the way or you just didn't click. But the word NO should be respected and not held against your date. I have been in this situation more times than I care to count. If I feel something is not right I going to politely excuse myself and leave but as I was going the door( this happened a couple of weeks ago) my date of the evening said something his breath. See I didn't listen to my inner voice, I should have declined the date but I felt it is time for me to enjoy life go and have fun.................safe fun. But I chose the wrong date. I had talked to him online for a few weeks, felt alright about it and went. This is why I drive myself. I never let my date pick up I funny way. He was mad, he said he had got a room and thought after dinner we would go there have a drink. I don't drink( sometimes I wish I did). Now doctors, if you are single and live alone why you to get a room, you live here or so you said. But why is No such a hard word to understand? I didn't hear what he said but he was mad should I have said something more? I just walked away got in my car and went home. I didn't cry I felt good about my decision and by the time I got home he had wrote me an ugly message, so ugly I had to block him. I love this web site the men, well most of the men are nice, they are picky but I have learned how to handle this. When I get my life back I will get back to writing steamy love stories but I your help. I advice. I wrong to be suspicious of all men? should I tone it down or do I to let inner voice run with it? Ok doctors the ball is in your court I help. You can now talk among yourself but don't take to long I will be 67 in 2 months............lol
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Let me tell you a story
Posted:Mar 13, 2019 8:34 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2019 12:50 pm
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I realize this is a sex site but every now and then friends make new friends just to make friends. But I had the opportunity to do a day trip with a female friend and her boy toy. Well it was supposed to be a day trip but it turned out to be a 2 day road trip. Seems my female friend had hooked up with a man here and she wanted to meet him but didn't want to go alone and didn't want to drive. Any other time her hubby would have drove but he was busy so of course i was willing to go and boy toy wanted to go just to be nosy( really he was hoping to score some fun for himself while there). Well we got to our destination and the man seemed to be very nice clean cut preppy looking. He put us up in in a 4 star hotel and found something for me and boy toy to do while my friend and her new friend got to know each other. well as we entered the room we heard such a commotion moaning, groaning little yelps and this was coming from him. Boy toy was biting at the bit to go in and off he went to peak or so I thought he never came back. Well being a woman and curious I just opened the door and what I saw was amazing. Girl friend and boy toy was sucking dude off his eyes rolled back in his head and looked toward me and I told him I am the baby sitter i will just watch. Now comes the good part girl friend laid on her back new friend was fucking her like it was going to run away, boy toy was getting his cock sucked by girl friend. I thought he was going to faint. I guess you are wondering what or why I wasn't over there in the action, I had my toys and I was gently massaging my pussy I didn't realize it was so wet my nipples were hard wanting to be sucked then boy toy came over and sucked my nipples and I fucked my pussy with my vibrator, I was cumming over and over, new man was fucking girl friend with all that hard cock in and out in and out he would pull out then shove it back in harder and harder and when they both climaxed it was the loudest moan of passion I have ever heard. I am glad we were in the lower end of the hotel. Here we are 4 naked people spent from an afternoon of fun. I am not sure if girl friend is going on another road trip but I am all for it, i haven't been out in a long while and these trips can be "educational". I am not one to participate in multiples but i will watch for days. Thanks for listening remember have fun be fun
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Food for Thought
Posted:Nov 30, 2018 7:56 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2019 8:20 pm
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I have been dragged through the mud yet again. Look I talk to all men black white purple or green. I have been out with all men black white purple and green but to call me a "slave master's bed warmer" or a disgrace to the black race, now you are getting to a little bit too much. I always thought this was a site to meet and make new friends, in my profile I stated what I like, what I don't like my dreams and fantasy. If I am a disappointment or not what you like don't write don't look at my profile just move on. But to call me nasty names you didn't hurt my feelings and bring my age into it telling me I ought to know better? We are not in times yes I know racism is still alive and well and I have had white men call me out of my name too and I over look this also but I guess this last little out burst really sealed the deal for me I had to report this one to the administrators of this site and I have been advised to lay low so don't worry I am still around but it's not fair to treat me like I am not aware of my surroundings and to chaste me for enjoying life the way I want to to meet new and exciting people I shouldn't have to stick to my own race as neither do you but don't come after me for liking certain men that's not fair. Like I have always said sticks and stone, sticks and stones you might hurt my feelings for a minute but I am a strong independent black woman I might not be what you want but I am what some men in their life a little spice, a lot of fun and a good friend. So till we meet again have a safe and Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year
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A broken heart
Posted:Nov 20, 2018 11:13 pm
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2018 1:30 am
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Many moons ago I met a nice gentleman on this web site. Really he was the first man I met on this web site. He was so kind and and he understood what I was going through for he was a widower like me and for the first time I felt I had met a good friend. I found out today he had passed. I think I felt my heart sink. He was the one man that really really made me feel like this web site was not about sex but making good friends. I left work early cause I couldn't concentrate . I hope when you find that person you can enjoy and have fun with make it about the fun, safe fun. I had a lot to say but right now I can't stop my heart from mourning and my eyes are full of tears so I can't see what I writing. Forgive the misspelling and me going on and on I just needed to write something. I blogged about our first night and I wanted to share it with my friends.

ENJOY

Laying in bed the two of us stare into space. Naked under the sheets not touching just listening to each other breathe. What an erotic sound just listening and watching your chest heave up and down. I want you to touch me but I know you are tired from a long week at work. We never get to talk much after sex, you are always in such a hurry to jump into the shower. The ride home is long for I long to be in your arms a little while longer and I know it will be next week before I see you again. But this day was different, you didn't rush to the shower you stayed in the bed and held me for the longest time like you wanted to tell me something but we just sat in the silence of the room. You kiss me lightly on my cheek, then my neck, your hands slowly move over my breasts, you gaze in my eyes like you want to tell me something, but nothing comes out of your mouth but your actions speak volumes.
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Food for thought
Posted:Oct 24, 2018 10:22 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2019 8:21 pm
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If for some reason you are or have entertained the thought of dating a black woman or any woman out of your race, consider the following things: your family, are they going to blow a gasket if you date out of your race? your friends: will they give you "good" advice even though you didn't ask for it and they will tell you things "for your own good"? it's so painful to realize we are still living in the dark ages, that we can not be free to date whom we choose without the family and friends raking you over the coals. I am glad I have such wonderful friends in real time and online that keep me in good spirits and keep the past in the past some what and look at all aspects of life good or bad
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I am a lady....................................period
Posted:Oct 22, 2018 6:03 pm
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2018 6:19 pm
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To say I am not classy enough is an insult. I am first and for most a lady, no let me restate that I am all woman probably more woman than you need or want. I respect all people men and women and name calling is not good. I am looking for friends maybe more maybe less but that's not the point. I want to be respected. First what is a classy lady? Most of the women I have seen on this site look great but I guess men have a certain woman they want in bed. Well I have found out I am not that woman but it doesn't stop me from looking at all the many handsome men on this site. I won't stop looking and I will stay positive that some one will stand up for the women that are just "average" women but their hearts and minds are in the right place. I am sorry for the rant but I am sort of tired of blocking men, and really being bullied for my size my looks and my race. I enjoyed making my videos and taking stills. The might be old and maybe someday I will find someone to take some fresh ones but I look the same, cute as all heck and with pride I hold my head up high and I will continue to fight for the women that are not classy enough for you.
OK rant is over carry on

Love and kisses
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A question for the men
Posted:Oct 20, 2018 5:17 am
Last Updated:May 18, 2019 7:33 pm
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How can a woman tell if you do not want a particular type of woman to view your profile. If you are not into plus size , women of color or origin how do we know you are off limits? I had a man( would call him a gentleman but that was not the case he was very rude) chaste me for looking at his profile how was I to know he did not like black women it is not on his profile. So is there a hint or a post you can put in place to let us know exactly what you are looking for without looking at the entire profile and getting feelings hurt. Just asking
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Pleasing ones self
Posted:Oct 20, 2018 5:10 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 2:57 am
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Single lovemaking, don't knock it. If you are a single woman or man ( yes men you can have an erotic time looking at a good movie or thinking of a good piece of ass) you have the power to please yourself any way you can. I guess this past few weeks have been an awakening of sorts for me. I do miss the touch of a man, his smell, his strong arms holding me, caressing me, making love to me. But making love to myself like what happened last night, it was magic, like I now know what I want and how I want it. May not be this weekend, but I will be making love to myself again, and loving it. I found myself crying not out of sadness but realizing I may not have a man in my life but I have the power to please myself I read books, articles and movies to help me understand the dynamics of my body at my age and see what parts are more sensitive, my breast how they react to the touch, the lips of my lady to see what turns her on, sliding my hands over my body or in the tub as I wash, now that's what I miss the most I use to shower with my late husband we would start slow rubbing each other up and down, kissing every part memories help make lovemaking so good. Can't wait to make new meories
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One question then I will leave you be
Posted:Oct 6, 2018 6:54 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2019 8:23 pm
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If I did not have the pictures and videos would you still want to hit me up? When I made those videos and took the pictures I was younger had more fun didn't work so hard. The reason this question was asked someone wanted me to take new pictures, I asked him why? He said so men can see you now. I am the same size , I have less hair but why you want to see me now if you have no intention of "hitting" me up. I get some of the funniest questions on here most I let them ride but I felt I needed to address this one. Just picture me at 65 I am still cute and fun to be with? But what makes this so funny it's men from Europe that want to fuck me, local men just ignore me young men want an older woman experience older men just want a friend..................... I love older men they respect you they love on you they make you laugh but don't get it twisted men are men from the beginning of the rainbow to the end
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There comes a time.............................part 3
Posted:Oct 6, 2018 7:30 am
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2018 7:44 am
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All of a sudden I have gotten curious about what men really want when meeting a woman. For I have found out it's for the sex. Aren't you the least bit curious about the woman? What she wants or why she choose to meet you? I am a bit curious of the men I meet and for the most part I have been lucky to have met some incredible men. But on the other hand I have met some that were cruel and hurtful making my seven years of celibacy a necessary part of my growth and understanding. Now I was afraid that once I enjoyed the pleasure of sex again I would want it more and more but I was surprised to have found a peace within my sexual being. I used to pleasure myself but I stopped now I find singular sex is most satisfying. Now the warmth of a man's arms still intrigue me but I think if the prospect of being in a man's arm fail to materialize again I am so happy to have found me again. Touching my womanly breasts, pleasuring my sensitive woman lips feeling the wetness it creates when it's touched the feeling I get as I let out moans of delight. Thinking about my man slipping his manhood slowly in me he gasps and can hardly contain his self before he explodes with a force that takes us both by surprise. The look of lust and satisfaction in both our eyes. Sounds that makes sex worth the wait.
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There comes a time.............................part 2
Posted:Sep 29, 2018 9:30 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2018 9:30 pm
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Since my 7 year long celibacy is over and I have tasted sex again, I did not embarrass him, I don't feel that if I don't have sex again I am going to die, I feel free, I feel motivated, I feel beautiful that someone found me woman enough to take a chance and be the one to show me the way. "Susie" is still a bit tender but I am sure she will recover. To my bestie thank you for taking time to guide me, to delight me, to entice me, to make be explode with the passion you bestowed on me, the passion that I will never forget, the smile on my face Thank you for giving a reason to smile if for nothing more than making a new friend
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There comes a time.............................
Posted:Sep 29, 2018 9:20 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2018 8:38 pm
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There comes a time when you have to let your feelings go out the window and take charge of your life. I have been holding out of living for about 7 years due to being dumped by someone I thought cared for me. I started working more and more making excuses for not meeting men but really I was scared to meet for fear of being rejected. It happens to the most beautiful women I myself is just an average woman with a good heart. I talk to men online and most are sincere some just want a quickie or as I call them find them fuck them and forget them. For some that is ok that is what they want but for me if that is going to happen get to know me first I think I have stated this in a previous blog. I am more optimistic, now that I am ready to retire I am going to have a little time on my hands and I am going to make the decisions on who I meet and if I want to meet you. Bad mouth me if you want sticks and stones, sticks and stones my skin is a lot tougher than you think I won't latch on to you unless you want me too.
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The Fire Alarm
Posted:Sep 29, 2018 8:12 am
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2018 8:34 pm
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I have met a new soul spirit and we decided to spend some time together to get to know one another better. So I am having a wonderful evening with my bestie and after amazing sex we fall in a deep sleep. Well someone in the hotel where we were decided to set off the fire alarm. Do you know how disturbing that is especially when you are on the down low? As funny as it was it sort of put a damper on the rest of the evening seeing the alarm went off several more times during the course of the night. You sleep with one eye open one eye closed. But we still had amazing early morning sex and it was fabulous for someone that have't been out in over 7 years I have a lot to learn and feelings to get over but it was amazing. I love a good story so to my Local Adult Companion family what have you encountered that was both embarrassing and funny but made the night less stressful and something to share down the road. This is a feel good moment where you think about it and laugh. i am smiling as I am writing this it was funny...........now.
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