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Just thinking out loud about why interracial dating in the South is still taboo and how I try to fix it.
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Summer time
Posted:Jul 10, 2015 9:29 pm
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2015 9:01 am
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How's your summer going? Hope you are staying hydrated and having loads of fun.

Love and Kisses

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When that first date just doesn't work out from an old broad's persective
Posted:May 30, 2015 1:48 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2015 8:09 pm
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Now most of you know I am an old broad and I have opinions that a lot don't agree with but this happened to me and I had to get it off my chest. I haven't dated in almost 5 years not because no one asked me but because I had to take on extra jobs due to a downsizing at my full time job. Well I was able to take a weeks vacation and accepted a date with a nice young man I have been chatting with online for about a month or more. I knew what he wanted, I knew he didn't want me on a as a partner but he wanted an older woman, he wanted a black woman to fulfill his fantasy dream. Maybe i am wrong maybe not but I knew with the time that had passed I physically was not up the sex but I gave it the old college try. Also I knew after it was over and the night was done I haven't heard from him since. Oh he did tell me about an outing he was planing with another lady the next day so I knew I was one and done. The reason i am telling this is this even though it didn't go the way you planed you can still let the lady know call her,text her do something don't leave her wondering if you had a decent time. I knew he didn't with me and it doesn't bother me he hasn't contacted me but I am an old broad and I don't care but guys and gals let them know something don't have them wondering you never know he or she might want you to give it another go to make it right. Or Not

From and old Broad's persective
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What Men Think Of A Woman Making The First Move
Posted:May 1, 2015 10:35 pm
Last Updated:Jan 25, 2017 1:53 pm
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Here’s what men really think about women making the first move.

It Shows Confidence

Most men like confident women. When you take the initiative, the most likely outcome is that he’ll be turned on by your bold move. Even if he’s not into you, the worst that will happen is that he’ll say no.

It Makes Your Interest Obvious

Just like women can have secret crushes, so can men. If there’s a guy you’ve had your eye on, he might be into you, but is too shy to approach you. In cases like this, it’s in both of your best interest if you make the first move, but after you make your feelings known, that could change. It always pays to be honest.

It Makes Him Feel Attractive

Everybody likes to feel attractive. It can be flattering to have an attractive man approach you, so why shouldn’t it work the same way for him? When you make the first move, you’re letting him know that you find him to be desirable, which directly appeals to his masculinity.

You Have Healthy Self-Esteem

It’s often said that if you don’t like yourself, nobody else will like you. This can apply to dating as well. Men tend to be more attracted to women with a healthy self-esteem. The fact that you think enough of yourself to risk rejection by putting yourself out there can be a real turn-on to a man.

You Don’t Play Games

The majority of men don’t like women who want to play mind games. By approaching him first, you immediately let him know you’re not that kind of girl. You’re direct and you know what you want. You’re not interested in beating around the bush to get and keep his attention.
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It's about that time
Posted:Mar 27, 2015 10:06 pm
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2015 12:12 pm
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Spring is in the air, Flowers are blooming, sex is in the bedrooms of many and not in mine. Just throwing it out there. I work a lot but give me a chance to find time to have fun. And another thing get to know me, I am a very happy go lucky woman , a good friend and some day maybe more. My public service announcement for the month........................................Love ya
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Just saying
Posted:Mar 14, 2015 10:16 pm
Last Updated:Mar 16, 2015 1:30 am
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Once you been hurt, you are so scared to get attached again,You have a fear that

every person you meet is going to break your heart.

Think about that the next time you pressure a woman to go out with you and you

don't give her a chance to tell you why she is hesitant. She wants to go but some

knuckle head has made the dating experience a nightmare for her. I know this is a

sex site but have a little decency about the situation. There are women that will

and some women that won't. But talk to her first and if she is not moving fast

enough for you...............................Move on. She won't mind.

I just had a moment please and thank you for listening........................
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Got to get this off my chest.
Posted:Feb 27, 2015 11:43 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2015 10:35 am
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We live in a society where there is danger in every corner. Yes, this is a sex site but shouldn't we be careful when we go to meet people? I am talking to men and women. I am an older woman in age, not in spirit. I have had to take on some additional work since the passing of my husband and it tends to make life a little hard to navigate. I want to have fun really i do but home comes first. I am a lady first, and anything else that happens is an added plus for both of us. I had posted in an earlier blog about going dutch on a date. But having sex anywhere other than the bed I find fault with, I know sometimes when you take a date home and as the night is winding down things get heated up and the windows get steamy and passion starts to explode, that's what happens at the end of a fabulous date not where the date starts. I made a mistake last night but for health reasons I can't do a lot of late night traveling but then again I have never met the nice young man so I was not comfortable traveling to his home. I have spoke with him online and texts but not met him personally. I feel bad things went south but I stand by my morals meet first sex later, much later if you are still nervous after meeting and hope he or she understands. Was I a tad hasty? Should I have made the trip? I am alive and well and if that is fine with me. I feel somewhere down the road i will be back on the dating scene and a nice warm bed and strong warm arms await me, I can wait I rather be safe than sorry. Am I wrong? Love you guys, you always tell me the truth..................................
Stay Sexy My Friends............................
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Another question
Posted:Feb 9, 2015 12:26 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2015 11:23 pm
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How many of you have living at home? There are things in life that happens that we have our living at home. I have a still home but I don't have a problem with it. I am getting up in age and she just got out of college. But for some reason men find that strange, I can't figure it out. She has her life I have mind. She goes out i go out but we don't bring men into the home. I think that is where I get the cold shoulder. If a guy wants to meet the first thing he asks can I meet you at your home and when I say no and tell him why that conversation is over. In a previous post I have mentioned this and why I would rather meet in the open, it's safer and if you need to leave in a hurry you can. Guess I am trying to figure out is it just me but men run from me and we have never met............lol
Stay sexy my friends ....................
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Losing my Gold Ball
Posted:Feb 5, 2015 11:32 am
Last Updated:Feb 6, 2015 7:50 pm
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As of the 15 I will be losing my gold ball and right now i am not in a position to replace it but down the road i will but until then please don't stop writing me. I love to hear from you and receiving flirts and fans. If i am not mistaken I may or may not be able to answer mail without a ball so if you leave me a message here i will get back to you. That sounds so serious losing a ball...................I now know how men feel losing a ball............lol

Stay sexy my friends................................
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A question for the men
Posted:Jan 19, 2015 12:01 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2015 11:43 pm
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If you were on a date with a woman or if a woman invited you out, would you be offended if she paid or offered half of the tab? As you know a lot of women are independent and like being able to pay when in my day it was not accepted but I have learned to like paying if I have the money. I don't have a problem with paying it's something new and refreshing in a relationship or an encounter. If it offends you why? and would you tell the woman why it does? Hit me up guys I am learning a lot about the new woman and I am trying to make sure I am hip enough to fit in with men of all age groups
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Whats on your plate for 2015
Posted:Jan 12, 2015 12:10 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2015 10:20 pm
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Seeing I was working so much in 2014 I am hoping to have a little more time for fun in 2015. I know a few of you men have cursed me out due to you thinking I was flipping you off, but when you work all the time like I do you just can do all the things you use to do on the site. But rest assured I am going to get my groove on and it's not going to be with everyone. i try to stay in my area but I do read all emails I get and if you are married don't expect an answer right away but i will get back to you might not be what you want to hear but I do write back. So here's to 2015 may it be as good as 2014 or even better
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Season's Greeting
Posted:Dec 21, 2014 9:25 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2015 7:12 pm
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Just a note to all my friends hoping you all are staying warm, loving all you can and sharing the gift of love and magic during the holidays. I think I have mentioned it a lot that i work numerous jobs and have put my life on hold but I am still here and I am still enjoying your flirts and notes. Even the ones that have blocked me from looking at their profiles, I'm not mad at you if that's what you want it is what it is. Love all you and hope you have a Merry Christmas or Happy Holidays or Season's Greeting which ever you prefer. Ans if any of you would like to rescue me feel free..................................................
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Just A Thought
Posted:Aug 25, 2014 10:14 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2015 7:13 pm
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just a thought before I go to work. I was called a "sell out" by a young black man on this site because I date or when I dated, out of my race. I know he was looking for a hook up but when I told him no he berated me to no end. I just listened to him. I remember when this would have torn me up but I listened and when he finished I told him now you you see why I date men that complement me. I date men that is on my level, men that can carry on a decent conversation, men that want more that a booty call, men that know the difference in a sell out and just being stupid. With everything that is going on in Missouri and even here in our city you have to use your head when doing anything. When I was in high school I realize we were not wanted there but we were put there and I realize more now than I did then. Everybody is not your friend even though they pretend to be but I treat people with respect, whether you like me or not. I am going to be me.I guess that is why I don't post a lot any more. I am going to see whom I choose and life will go on. Amen?
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Not belonging
Posted:Apr 26, 2014 7:33 pm
Last Updated:Jul 27, 2014 11:56 pm
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For some reason the climate has changed on this site. Where at one time everyone was outgoing and friendly, a lot have become standoffish and cold. A few of the men are downright rude. If you are not one of the "popular" you are shunned in the chat rooms, only a few will speak to you. I am not hurt by this being black I have been shunned pretty much the entire time I have been on this site due to my dating preferences. But I am from the school of thought "sticks and stone can break my bones but words and looks can't hurt me". I am bringing this up because a dear friend of mine, who also happens to be black was raked over the colds because she wanted to talk to white guys. And it wasn't by black guys, it was by white women. Now I know some black women talk about black men and white women but I have never known white women to lash out about white men and black women. I wanted to speak out but she handled things like a superstar. She was not rude she spoke her mind and politely left the chat room. I don't go in my usual chat room I have been told I have been talked about a lot in there but I was not a witness to it so I am not to say if it's true or not but I use to want to belong but now I don't care if I am accepted or not. I am happy being my sweet sexy self and I want to thank Local Adult Companion for allowing me to speak my mind in these blogs. Seeing I am on a celibacy break I don't have any sex stories to share but I will have my summer reruns again this summer to remind my fans that I use to have a exciting sex life. might have to make a new video just to show off my new toys................................Stay sexy my friends
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