The State of Zelle Address 2014 ...nothing has changed
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Posted:Apr 9, 2014 12:21 am
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2014 10:58 pm
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I want to be perfectly clear, my state of mind is clear and I do know what I am talking about. I am not running for office or for best dressed.I hope that when you read my blogs you read it with an open mind and a smile. Most of my rantings are just that rantings. I am not an attention seeker I want people to see the complete me,on my good days and my bad days. I am for equal rights in the chat room, the board room and the bed room. I want men to respect me, the black woman the same as you respect the white or Hispanic or Latin woman. I could talk about my sexual experiences but if you have been keeping up with my blogs you know I haven't had any and when I do they will be a billboard up on I-24,I-65 and I-40 letting the whole city know know someone took a chance with me and made me feel goooooooooooooood. I want to feel like my girl in Monster's Ball, I just want to feel good, then go out for Ice Cream. The state of my union is peace and love is still abiding in me, I love you all, even the haters that still can not see pass the size, the race and the fact that I make a big deal out of talking about racial injustice on a sex site. Well I do believe I have when I do i get a lot of people talking and thinking about it. My fellow perverts in this new year we have to love one another, think about our safety and play with caution. I don't have enough bail money for everyone and it's a first come first serve deal................... have a great week and remember stop and smell the flowers now, the bees are still hibernating. This is my opinion and I am sticking to them.....................have a Zellie day....................and of course that would be me...............
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HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
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Posted:Mar 26, 2014 12:47 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 12:28 pm
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The bedroom was warm, too warm for my liking but since it is winter I left the heat where it was. A woman my age goes through so many different mood swings and hormonal changes it's a wonder we survive but we do. I cut the t.v. on and was flipping through the channels when I came up on a steamy love scene on one of the premium channels. The woman was taking a bath in a tub similar like mine, the sunken kind with the jets. She had the room lit with candles and soft music. The more I watched the more I thought about doing the same thing so you know me I took notes. I watched with intense pleasure and I found myself touching my breasts. You know the girls Jenny and Jerri. Jenny's nipple got hard on contact, Jerri sort of wanted to see what was coming next. I hear a moan, a loud moan and I looked up at the t.v. and I realized it was coming from me not the screen. I found my goody bag by the bed and I looked for my silver bullet but I think it has outlived it's usefulness. So I did something I haven't done in awhile, I used my fingers. As one finger slid over my stomach, the other hand followed suit and moved to my now wet pussy. I forgot about the television and was concentrating on pleasing myself. I slid one finger over the lips of my vagina, inserting one in my hot box of desire. As if on command it grabbed my finger and sucked it in deeper and started probing as if it was looking for something. I found my pussy wanting to be fucked so I found my dildo and away we went. The nameless man in my life my trusty dildo and it felt so good. As I slid it in and out I cut on my silver bullet, yes I still had it out, go figure. I was rubbing my clit with the bullet and probing my hot wet juicy pussy with the dildo. I thought I was going to wake the neighborhood up with the orgasm I had, it had me shaking, rolling and crying. I guess single love is as great as with a partner if done right. I squeezed my nipples, I held that dildo in my pussy till I thought it would break. I have missed the touch of a man so much this was my outlet and it was wonderful. As I found myself slowing down and cooling off I realized the movie had gone off, and the sun was beginning to peak through my bedroom. All I could do is smile and think about the great night of lovemaking I had just experienced. Single lovemaking, don't knock it. If you are a single woman, you have the power to please yourself any way you can. I guess this last year has been an awakening of sorts for me. I do miss the touch of a man, his smell, his strong arms holding me, caressing me, making love to me. But making love to myself like what happened, it was magic, like I now know what I want and how I want it. May not be today, may not be this weekend, but I will be making love to myself again, and loving it.
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Lets not get this twisted
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Posted:Mar 26, 2014 12:46 pm
Last Updated:Mar 26, 2014 1:37 pm
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I have been on this site for over 10 years and in the beginning it was fun. I have met a lot of fun people and it didn't matter that I was black. If you have read my profile( and a lot of you haven't and that irritates me when you message me before your read) you know I love my blue eyed men. it was just a thing back in the day of my youth. But as I have gotten older seems like the men have gotten rude. I mean I love to see a good penis picture. I am no prize catch but I deserve respect just like anyone else. I am not trying to compete with the other ladies and I am not trying to be white. I am good being me and I embrace my blackness it has served me well. My thing is if a woman is not interested in you why do you her out? i have had men cuss me out because I don't answer them in a timely manner. Hey look I work 3 jobs, I am trying to retire so I can have my play time but you have to give me a chance to respond. I have started blocking men that are rude, if you can't respect me, I don't want to be bothered. And another thing if you are seeing more than one woman and your schedule gets a little jumbled don't lie about it tell the one you are going to dump. I was dumped via a text message, oh I was mad for about 2 hours then it became funny at least I had been out with the guy for more than one date to get dumped. I felt special. I am a woman with a year round tan I am well fed but I can walk on my own 2 legs, I am not rich but I can buy dinner ever now and then but I don't make a habit of it. My car is not the best but I get where I need to go. I am not a gold digger I work jobs to make a comfortable life for my family. I an the poster for good friends but when you cross that line and lie to get in my bed, like David Banner would say" don't make me mad, you won't like me when I am mad". From a former party girl that has matured into a wonderful settled sexy woman have a great day and we will be talking real soon.................................you can bet on it...
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age before beauty
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Posted:Feb 24, 2014 9:28 am
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2014 6:25 am
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My heart has been heavy the last 24 hours due to me feeling like beauty was chosen over common sense. I have a guy friend, a friend that I am getting to know how his brain and his heart works. No love or romantic notions but a beginning friendship. Or so I thought. As you know when you are in the swinger's lifestyle you have to have an open mind about all things and when you are in a relationship you have to have a thick skin. I am a single black woman over 60, plus size but I think very attractive with a good heart. I know they say age before beauty but really men? would you chose a woman because she was beautiful( would probably use you for all she can get) or for that true friend that is not looking for anything but a good friend and someone to be there when she needs a shoulder to lean on and an ear to hear? Well just throwing this out there when you men chose beauty over age think about when she throws you under the bus we will be there with an out stretched hand to help you up. When you need a ride because you don't have a ride and you are with the "beauty" remember we the "aged" ones will be there waiting till you decide to come out because you forgot what time it was. I am not man bashing I just don't get it sometimes. I am not changing my out look for any man I am going to do it for me and me alone. I was mad as hell this weekend but time heals things, but I did let my friend know he was wrong to hold me up like that but you friends come and go and I have a great support system that let me know things happen. Are we still friends? The jury is still out on that but I know I am more that a good piece of ass and I know I am more than a ride to Beauty's house..............Have a Zellie day
And of course that would be me...............
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What makes a man say and do hurtful things?
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Posted:Feb 2, 2014 8:41 pm
Last Updated:Feb 15, 2014 9:53 pm
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I am sad right now. I have a dear friend that was in love with a man she thought loved her but he had one flaw. She was a plus size woman and he could not let his heart or his mind open up enough to love her for her. I have been in her shoes a lot in my 60 years and even though my size and my race has prevented men from loving me why couldn't he just tell her the truth? Why do we as adults have a problem with the truth? She is so hurt she deleted her profiles from this site. I really don't blame her I have done that too but I refused to be dogged out but a man that doesn't have a heart or can not open his mind to the beauty that is on the inside as well as the outside. I am just overwhelmed at the way we treat each other. This is a site for love and fun. Don't look like a lot of fun going on now. 
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A plea
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Posted:Jan 23, 2014 12:54 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 12:28 pm
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I enjoy talking to the men on this site and I have found out some of you are sort of impatient. If you have sent me a note my auto reply tells you I work a lot and give me to respond. It still stands I work an awful lot and I can't make plans due to the nature of my job. I am in the news media and when ever something happens more than likely I am going to be working. I don't mean to break dates but sometimes I have to. I am not apologizing for having to work, I need to work but please don't get mad or cut me off cause I have to work. I am not needy but I would enjoy an evening out, or a back massage or someone to talk to but for some reason when I tell you I can make it you sort of think I am stand offish. Oh well I have been alone for a long time and time has been good to me and I have survived this far so please if you re interested in chatting and getting to know me give ma a chance to make the meeting, might not be the first time you ask me but I would move heaven and hell to make the second date..................................
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Let me put this out there one more time
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Posted:Dec 26, 2013 1:15 pm
Last Updated:Jan 4, 2014 1:57 pm
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I was looking at profiles, it's what I do and I enjoy reading them. Well I read a gentleman's(and I use the term loosely)profile and made a comment about his profile and he thought I was trying to "hook" up with him. Let me get this straight not all women read profiles to get hook ups at least the friends I have don't. I enjoy reading what men are looking for, what they find interesting in a mate and what part of the country they are from. I not one time asked for a date. But if he or any man is not open to black women or any woman of color reading or responding to their ads is there a nice way to add it to their profile? I am tired of being blasted by men that are not into black women or any woman of color.I just want to make friend go out and have fun not get talked about criticized or blasted for my size and my color. I have all but stopped going to meet and greets due to thinking I don't fit in or I am going to be called a nasty name or will be left standing alone. I just want to be a friend. I am good friend material and I use to be a good lover just seems like the older I get the less older women are wanted.............which is sad.
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Holidays
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Posted:Dec 14, 2013 7:43 pm
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2013 3:09 pm
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I know there are a lot of singles out there doing the holiday thing alone. I will have to work so I won't be doing anything but cheer up you are really not alone there are many more out there that are single but they get out and make fun for themselves. I was feeling sorry for myself cause I felt like I didn't belong but you know what? I do belong, I fit where ever I want to fit and just because they can't see pass my race and size that is their problem. I am a wonderful woman, may not be a freak in the bed but I am a good lover, a kind, gentle lover. So my many friends and future lovers celebrate, enjoy the parties and the season known for giving. 2013 might have been a downer, 2014 is going to be a blast............
MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEARS
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Just Sayinnnnnnnnnnnnnn
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Posted:Aug 26, 2013 12:17 am
Last Updated:Dec 20, 2013 3:09 pm
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I am a black woman that absolutely adore white men. I know it may not be to the liking of most men but it's my choice you don't have to like it, most of you move on and don't pay me no mind anyway. I thought seeing this is the 21st century the days of segregation was over and maybe your curiosity made you wonder what it would be like being with a robust, fun, plus size black woman. I am still looking for that one open minded guy that wants to do something else along with the fun. When I turned 60 I was determined if nothing come of this I will still have a smile on my face. I have met a lot of nice guys and have had a lot of fun. A lot of it I think is not the race it's the size or so I have been told. Oh well so be it if it is. I am still going to be a happy camper and I am going to keep winking and hot listing so be ware guys I am coming your way
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The Fat Chronicles
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Posted:Jul 16, 2013 12:51 am
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2015 7:14 pm
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I hope for all those that read this, first, think about how you treat those that don't fit your criteria and how it must make them feel that they are not good enough to be seen in public with you due to the fact they might be a "non skinny" person then after you read this think again how we really don't care what you think of us we just want a chance.
We are in an age when media puts into our heads the idea that
only skinny people are beautiful, but I prefer to enjoy an ice
cream with my , a good dinner with a man who makes me
shiver and a coffee with my friends. With time we gain weight
because we accumulate so much information and wisdom in our
heads that when there is no more room it distributes out to
the rest of our bodies.. So we aren’t heavy, we are enormously
cultured, educated and happy. Beginning today, when I look at
my butt in the mirror I will think, ¨Good gosh, look how smart
I am…¨
( This applies to my male and female friends. I love you all...
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Bi and Bi......................Story of a special friendship
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Posted:Jul 2, 2013 2:24 am
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 12:28 pm
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This is a repeat in memory of my friend on the anniversary of her death. She was a good friend and we had good times. Please enjoy this and help me celebrate her memory. She loved the Local Adult Companion parties and I hope you smile a little after reading this.
Some one in a discussion group asked about first time bi experiences from bi curious women.Well I qualify for the bi curious part. My first bi experience was with a good friend of mine about 4 years ago who has since died. She always had a birthday party at a hotel where she could let lose with her friends. Well at the time it would never dawn on me why I was invited for she knew I was as straight as one could get. Well I was enjoying the company of the many men that was there and she asked me could she kiss me. Well she was a real good friend and I wanted to fit in so I let her kiss me. Well one thing led to another and she made love to me in front of a room full of people. I have never in my life had an orgasm like that but I have found out in later years I have very strong orgasms with women, unlike the ones I have with men and I don't know why. I have only had 2 other experiences with women but I remember them fondly. I may jump the fence now and then and I may not be completely honest with myself about being with a woman but never say never I say........
I tell people I jump the fence when the men dry up, or the feeling suits me but no one has ever made me feel like"D" made me feel. Might have been a game changer but like I said never say never............
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One More Time....................................with feeling
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Posted:Jun 10, 2013 11:41 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2014 10:59 pm
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The bedroom was warm but I am leaving the air where it is might get cool later in the morning. A woman my age goes through so many different mood swings and hormonal changes it's a wonder we survive but we do. I cut the t.v. on and was flipping through the channels when I came up on a steamy love scene on one of the premium channels. The woman was taking a bath in a tub similar like mine, the sunken kind with the jets. She had the room lit with candles and soft music. The more I watched the more I thought about doing the same thing so you know me I took notes. I watched with intense pleasure and I found myself touching my breasts. You know the girls Jenny and Jerri. Jenny's nipple got hard on contact, Jerri sort of wanted to see what was coming next. I hear a moan, a loud moan and I looked up at the t.v. and I realized it was coming from me not the screen. I found my goody bag by the bed and I looked for my silver bullet but I think it has outlived it's usefulness. So I did something I haven't done in awhile, I used my fingers. As one finger slid over my stomach, the other hand followed suit and moved to my now wet pussy. I forgot about the television and was concentrating on pleasing myself. I slid one finger over the lips of my vagina, inserting one in my hot box of desire. As if on command it grabbed my finger and sucked it in deeper and started probing as if it was looking for something. I found my pussy wanting to be fucked so I found my dildo and away we went. The nameless man in my life my trusty dildo and it felt so good. As I slid it in and out I cut on my silver bullet, yes I still had it out, go figure. I was rubbing my clit with the bullet and probing my hot wet juicy pussy with the dildo. I thought I was going to wake the neighborhood up with the orgasm I had, it had me shaking, rolling and crying. I am beginning to like single love it can be as good or even better with or without a partner if done right. I squeezed my nipples, I held that dildo in my pussy till I thought it would break. I have missed the touch of a man so much this was my outlet and it was wonderful. As I found myself slowing down and cooling off I realized the movie had gone off, and the sun was beginning to peak through my bedroom. All I could do is smile and think about the great night of lovemaking I had just experienced. Single lovemaking, don't knock it. If you are a single woman, you have the power to please yourself any way you can. I guess these last 2 years have been an awakening of sorts for me. I do miss the touch of a man, his smell, his strong arms holding me, caressing me, making love to me. But making love to myself like what happened that day it was magic, like I now know what I want and how I want it. May not be today, may not be this weekend, but I will be making love to myself again, and loving it.
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