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Just thinking out loud about why interracial dating in the South is still taboo and how I try to fix it.
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Ok What's up
Posted:May 29, 2013 6:27 pm
Last Updated:Dec 26, 2013 12:44 pm
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Hey family. I have a question. I have noticed a lot of unattached men are wanting married or attached single women. What gives? I remember when a single man would not give the time of day to a married woman now it's all they want. Is it a commitment thing? A married man will not change his way of life if he is married does that go the same for a married woman? I respect men and women and their choices but is this the new syndrome? Just wondering.....................Stay Sexy and have fun and as always have a Zellie day.....and that would be me.....
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Rantings of a sexy black woman
Posted:May 24, 2013 11:55 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 12:15 pm
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I want to be perfectly clear, my state of mind is clear and I do know what I am talking about. I am not running for office or for best dressed.I hope that when you read my blogs you read it with an open mind and a smile. Most of my rantings are just that rantings. I am not an attention seeker I want people to see the complete me,on my good days and my bad days. I am for equal rights in the chat room, the board room and the bed room. I want men to respect me, the black woman the same as you respect the white or Hispanic or Asian woman. I would talk about my sexual experiences but haven't have that toe curling experience I have been looking for this year I want to feel like my girl in Monster's Ball, I just want to feel good, then go out for Ice Cream. The state of my union is peace and love. I love you all, even the haters that still can not see pass the size, the race and the fact that I make a big deal out of talking about racial injustice on a sex site. Well I still believe I have to just to get people talking and thinking about it. My fellow perverts in 2013 we have to love one another, think about our safety and play with caution. I don't have enough bail money for everyone and it's a first come first serve deal................... have a great holiday weekend, a great last week in May and remember stop and smell the flowers and remember the bees are still chasing the birds.have a great Zellie day....................and of course that would be me...............
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It's me again
Posted:May 22, 2013 11:53 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2013 6:28 pm
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I have something to say and I hope I am wording this correctly. This is directed to married men. I have a lot of married men in my network. Most are just friends but the local ones are the ones I have to address. I know you are married and you chose to be on this site but all women married and single do not have access to a "play den" (that's what I call it) all the time. I know when my was in college I had all the time and space to have a good time but I couldn't get a man to come to my house and I think it was due to the location of my home. But you chose to play and you should be willing to pay for a room. Now I have paid for rooms many times and never thought anything about it. Some women will pay, some will go half and half and there are some women that would go ballistic if you even mentioned either of those. I just want the guys to know it's not easy playing alone when you are married so just remember you chose that so you ought to be willing to pay for a room or dinner just to talk. I think I have addressed this somewhere down the road but it keeps becoming an issue and I just don't know what to say any more. Ok family what do you think am I stepping out of line, should I shut the fuck and mind my own business? You know I still love you all so hit me up
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Summer Reruns
Posted:May 20, 2013 12:03 am
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2013 1:27 pm
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I have decided I am going through my blog and update most of them this summer. You might see some old blogs mixed in with the new ones. I realized there are some of my "boy toys" still on the site so I have to change the names to protect the guilty.................................lol

Stay tuned...........
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Fantasies: The remix
Posted:May 18, 2013 10:34 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 12:15 pm
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I was looking at my blog and an old friend found me on the site and we had the biggest laugh about old times so I thought I would did this post up for old times sake. Hope you enjoy a blast from my past I had fun when I had this dream and it worth a second look. Enjoy!!!

Someone asked me about my fantasies. Well my first fantasy was being with a man not of color when I was in high school. I did that and was hooked. Well I am in my 50's and I still enjoy being with a man not of color but I have of late been having conversations with a very nice Hispanic professor. We laugh and talk about things not important, you know just a hanging out buddy. He is married and can't get out at night but we spend Friday afternoons talking and walking in the mall. It may not be what I was looking for but it's the start of a good friendship. We talk about our sexual likes and dislikes and I know we may never get to that but at least if we did we know what we like. He did do me one huge favor. He bought me this humongous vibrator to help me out on those lonely nights which I have many of. It has more moves than a break dancer. It takes 4 batteries and it's quite heavy. I could just let it run on the bed and get a good shaking. Any who it was nice of him to think of my needs and to make sure I was sexually taken care of. Now we might have sex down the road and we might not but I know I have made a good friend and you can never have enough friends.

The up date to this story we did have sex and this affair lasted 2 years. But to the wife I was the other woman but he was also seeing another woman the same time he was seeing me but hey what can I say as long as I got mine I was ok. But in time he did divorce his wife and married the other woman, being a college professor he was concerned what his co workers would think him being seen with a black woman so he married the "other" woman he was seeing. But life is good and I am enjoying the next phase of my life: the 60's it's going to be a blast I know and sex will be even greater, that is when I get a date. Peace and love family............
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Fishing
Posted:May 4, 2013 9:53 pm
Last Updated:Aug 15, 2013 11:45 pm
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How many of you guys or gals enjoy fishing? Have you ever invited the friends you have met online on a fishing date? I had a guy take me fishing and I had a blast. I am not a boat person so he sat on the bank with me and we just watched the water and the fish take our bait away. I played dumb( really I knew what I was doing) like I didn't know how to bait a hook or to cast a line. But I pretended I was a fast learner and I have not had a better time. It's the little things that I enjoy in life, it's not always about making a sex connection but if you wait and just let things happen in a timely manner it will pay off in the long run. Of course we threw the fish back in the lake but it was the best day ever. We made a fire and roasted hot dogs and drank beer and fought off critters of the night.............it was a good day
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Let Me Get Something Straight
Posted:Apr 27, 2013 6:26 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2013 8:32 pm
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I was looking at profiles, it's what I do and I enjoy reading them. Well I read a gentleman's(and I use the term loosely)profile and made a comment about his profile and he thought I was trying to "hook" up with him. Let me get this straight not all women read profiles to get hook ups at least the friends I have don't. I enjoy reading what men are looking for, what they find interesting in a mate and what part of the country they are from. I not one time asked for a date. I just wanted him to know he had a well thought out profile. But in my case it came down to him not wanting a black woman which is cool I understood that. But if he or any man is not open to black women or any woman of color reading or responding to their ads is there a nice way to add it to their profile? I come up with the craziest blogs but it seems like I get all the crazy emails. I was having a good night and I wanted to share some of my emails with my Local Adult Companion family.
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Love the guys
Posted:Apr 20, 2013 8:16 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2013 8:31 pm
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I have noticed all the men from far and wide they look at me, I look at them. I know there are some that are not into women of color but they are so nice and they will flirt back regardless. I want to thank those guys that don't let color or size stand in your way of recognizing a beautiful woman. Here is a great big hug and kiss to you.
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A Woman's Worth
Posted:Apr 14, 2013 7:10 pm
Last Updated:May 29, 2013 8:33 pm
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Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
but they hold happiness, love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
and laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don't take "no" for an answer
when they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their excel
and cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about
a birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
yet they are strong when they
think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss
can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They'll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
to show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what
makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideas.
They give moral support to their
family and friends.
Women have vital things to say
and everything to give.
HOWEVER, IF THERE IS ONE FLAW IN WOMEN,
IT IS THAT THEY FORGET THEIR WORTH.
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A Question
Posted:Apr 10, 2013 11:32 am
Last Updated:May 29, 2013 8:45 pm
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I am a plus size woman. I have been on the everlasting diet off and on for 3 years I go up and down the scale and I am just about tired of it. I do exercise and watch what I eat but for some reason the weigh is not leaving me. Sort of like trying to kick your out and they find an excuse to stay. My question is I know men and some women have a thing with images. I have seen both sides of that conversation. Do men find plus size women offensive to be seen with or to date? Are we destined to be seen in the bed room only? I have been seen with some of the nicest men and they are not afraid or ashamed to be seen in public with me but I have girlfriends that are not that lucky. There are BBBW's with a passion that no man will ever experience if they are afraid to talk to us. But I do have my fans and I love you all so keep those cards and letters coming and the videos I did to show I am all woman and I love to show off.
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It's hard being a Black Woman in Nashville when looks are all men see
Posted:Mar 23, 2013 8:35 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2013 4:47 am
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It's hard being a Black Woman in Nashville when looks are all men see

Just another one of those weekends where I got all pretty when to the club, men ran to the cute black women with hair and legs, I have legs they just stop at the knee. Hair, my lack of hair is my badge of courage from where I had chemo so fuck the hair. Go in the chat room see a lot of men my age and in my area, men in Nashville are not into interracial dating so I sit there watch the conversations knowing I want to scream "HEY I am here look at me too". You know that is not going to work. Just don't know what else to do. I want to be more than a piece of pussy, I want a nice dinner, nice conversation, and then if we click I will gladly give out the pussy. Maybe. Is that a lot to ask for?

This was a copy and paste from 2008 same shit different year
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I Got Nothing
Posted:Mar 18, 2013 1:43 am
Last Updated:Mar 19, 2013 2:31 am
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I haven't had a date in a while so I have no stories to tell. My fantasies are dried up. I use to tell a good story, I use to have an interesting life but for some reason that stopped. I lost someone very dear to me and it just seems like I lost the will to be happy. I still have friends, not as many as before most have found a love connection. I guess this is truth session 101. When my was in college I had all the dates I could juggle. Now that she is home and I no longer have the place to myself or privacy the dates stopped. I am not complaining I understand with the economy going out can be costly. But I do miss dating, I miss being a man's arms. But life goes on. But i just want to say don't let size, race or looks stop you from having fun. As many of my friends know I have a weakness for blue eyes, I adore white men.Hey but I like my brothers too just haven't found one that meets my standards. When you feel( this is for all men ) you can conduct yourself like a gentleman and don't think that a first date is an automatic invitation to bed and just want to chill with a really nice lady I am here I still work a lot but I am still here and as lovely as ever. Chiao......................
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Why
Posted:Dec 25, 2012 3:02 pm
Last Updated:Feb 18, 2013 1:40 am
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Why is it that now days men, if they want to be with a lady and she doesn't have access to privacy in her home, are unwilling to go get a room for some intimacy? I know it might be due to the fact they can't afford it but don't the woman out, don't call her out of her name, she probably wants to be with you just as much. She just don't have a place. Guys that's where you come in, show her some respect a lot of single mothers go through a lot to get a sitter and to enjoy a nice night out with a guy means the world to them I know I have been in that place a lot but I am older and wiser and if a man doesn't want to go the extra mile to be with me ............well it's his lost
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