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Just thinking out loud about why interracial dating in the South is still taboo and how I try to fix it.
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Seasons Greetings.................This year sure went fast
Posted:Dec 8, 2012 8:35 pm
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2012 2:41 am
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Just a note to the friends I hold so dear here's hoping you have a Merry Christmas and a Joyful New Years. This New Year is going to be the year of fun. Last Year was the year of Me and I found her and she has balls and I will not take nothing less that excellence for myself. Here's to 2013.....................
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Got to be more out going
Posted:Sep 21, 2012 4:54 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 11:4 am
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I sit in the chat rooms and wonder why men don't find me fascinating. I speak, I smile and listen. I have lost weight to fit in with the "pretty" girls but yet I sit and wait................Not depressed just on a mission to get a date. Life has been good and I am ready to have a good time. I have been celibate for 18 months and I am ready to have some fun. But you all know me I had to complain about something you have come to expect that from me and I love you all for being a part of my extended family and friends..........
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Need advice from my friends
Posted:Sep 5, 2012 12:01 pm
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2012 1:17 am
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I have a question and maybe it might make or break my way of thinking. I know a lot of folks have and don't entertain at home. My question is why do men get upset about that? I have been turned down a lot in the pass few months because I don't have any where to meet. If you want a nice evening with a lady and neither of you have access to your home doesn't this indicate getting a room somewhere to continue your date? I am getting frustrated and confused to what I can do to make the situation more accommodating. I am not going to put my out of her home for a booty call. One thing you don't subject your to that unless you are married and even though you close your door you think about the first. Maybe I am just sexually frustrated looking for an answer and I have been known to pay for the room but I am not in that position to do that now. So family what's a girl to do? Thank you my friends for reading this, you have always come through for me in the pass and maybe something will pop with this.
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A Year Older And Hopefully A Bit Wiser
Posted:Aug 8, 2012 2:45 pm
Last Updated:Aug 8, 2012 6:08 pm
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I just celebrated my 58th birthday and I feel marvelous. I am still the sexy woman I was but with a new attitude. I have been celibate for over a year by choice but I am ready to venture out and start having fun. But first a few rules. I am not kinky, I like sex yes I do but the tricks like up side down, doing splits, head spinning that is out. My thing now is safe fun sex with a nice man. Age? depends on how you act. You know I still have a fondness for blue eyes they just make me melt. More later i want this to sink in and see how many offers I get........................
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I have a question for the Married Men
Posted:Aug 1, 2012 1:35 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2024 11:4 am
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If your wife won't do certain things for you sexually why would you think a one night fling would? Unless she was a "working" girl what would it benefit for the lady? Now you would get what you are looking for but would she? I have had this come up and I guess I am stupid but it has to be a reason for your wife not to perform certain sexual acts. But there are women that would jump at the chance to do certain sexual acts, it's the way they get their freak on. But if that woman refuses to do what you ask would you hold it against her? Would you end the date right at that moment?
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I want to apologize to the men
Posted:Jun 4, 2012 8:18 pm
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2012 11:48 pm
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I have been in an old woman's funk about a man I guess I hardly knew. He was not honest with me about his wants and needs but I knew what he like. And apparently it wasn't me but I had no right to down grade all men for all men are not like that and this is SEX site and it is for finding a sexual encounter and maybe more if you are lucky Any way those that know me and read my blog know I will get over this and get over myself. I have been celibate for over a year by choice trying to change my image and see if a man will like a woman for the person she is and not for the sex. Well I guess it is either my age( and I think I look damn good for almost 60 thank you very much)or my size which I love my curves or well you know the the other I am not going through that again I get the bull shit flag when I mention that one little thing. But you know what I am having a blast and that little misunderstanding is in the past and I am actively seeking a nice out with a cool guy and some non kinky sex, just a little love making to take the edge off. Any takers?
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A Question to the Men
Posted:Jun 2, 2012 1:39 am
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2012 2:50 am
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I have been reading a lot of profiles in the past couple of days doing research about why some men don't have a clue and why most of them are looking the ultimate "beautiful" woman. In your eyes what is a beautiful woman? What are you looking for? Are you looking for Barbie, or what? I was taught that beauty comes from within. If anyone has a bad attitude that makes them ugly. If a woman carries herself well and looks like a million bucks regardless of size, height and skin tone she is beautiful. But I am not any of those women, I am short curvy and happy to be me. So again are you looking for a women to make memories with , or just for sex? Are you looking at the whole package or just the outside appearance? Would you rather have a woman that can carry a conversation and throw a football or a woman that when she walks by all men turn their heads and gives you a high 5 for your conquest and is she more interested in how her hair looks than having fun like at a sporting event. I am confused and hurt right now and I just need to know what is it men are looking for. I am not one to change because of a man but right now I am at my wits end. Maybe old age has set in and I have lost it all together.
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I NEED TO GET THIS OFF MY CHEST
Posted:May 31, 2012 2:05 am
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2012 1:46 am
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I got a Dear Jane letter yesterday. It's the female version of a Dear John letter. I really didn't see this coming. We were not boyfriend and girlfriend but we were seeing each other a lot and I thought we were headed that way. I didn't see it coming(I know I have said this earlier but I can't stand to be CAUGHT OFF GUARD) and it hurt me so bad and I don't know why. I am assuming while he was seeing me he was still hunting for his "soul mate" and he found her on another non sex site(You know the one the with all the tv ads). I was hurt at first but now I am so mad I can spit. I have tried to change the way I look at things even though this is a sex site it don't always have to be about sex. Even though we have slept together we have not had sex. I think if you can do that you are headed to a meaningful relationship. I guess I was wrong. But i think if i had made love to him he still would have dumped me. Was it the age difference? I don't know and I was a bit older than him. Was it my race? No we have been out and he seemed happy and he was the perfect gentleman. I am so mad and confused I don't know what to say or do. I was just with him over the weekend, why didn't he tell me then. Be a man if you have someone else tell me to my face he didn't have to write a letter I would have just said thank you for the ride and walked away. I know my self esteem is at an all time low now but I am really so sick of this site, the men are players and all the men that talk to me are over seas, what good is that going to do me. Maybe it's just me, I am not meant to be in a relationship or a sexual relationship. One guy told me if you don't swallow men don't want you, one told me if you don't do oral sex to a man they don't want you. I GIVE UP!!!. Maybe interracial dating is taboo..................for me. I want to think I am just a regular woman with a great sense of humor, a warm smile and a good heart. Well my heart has taken it's last hit. I can't do this anymore. I have been on this site for 13 years mostly under this name and when I was younger I had fun but the older I get the more I see it's senseless to wonder why men don't see me as the same person I was in my 30's as I am in my 50's.Please forgive me I just needed to vent. I know there are some women that do the same thing to men but men handle it a lot better and I applaud the ones that are true gentlemen and just tell the woman face to face how you feel and what you expect. Give the woman an outlet so if it's not in her agenda give her the right to get out with grace and humility.Once the tears stop I will be OK but for now my heart is broken and I just want to blame all men but I know some of you are OK. I am not a slut, I am not going to be a just to please a man. I am a woman, I am a lady but I hurt like every one else and today I am hurt.
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Just thinking out loud
Posted:Apr 27, 2012 10:07 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2012 6:07 pm
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I have meet many good people, male and female on this site and I must say it has been a roller coaster of a ride. Being this is a sex site you find some that want a relationship and some that just want sex, period. I think that is what I wanted when I first got on this site many moons ago but then as I got older the sex wasn't as important as the friendships that came from the sex. Now for the friends that really know me I was waivering between being bi or being straight. I chose straight but if the need suits me I will partake in a fmf. many have asked me why I chose white men over black men. Well when I was in school I had my first taste of the "forbidden" fruit my junior year and i was hooked then. I knew white men was the route i was going when I got out of school. But of course I didn't because it was taboo and I didn't want to upset the family but I married one anyway. But i want to talk about the difference in the sex. There is not difference in my book. it's all in the way you feel and they closeness you have for one another. I know no man wants to be with a fat woman but we might be the best thing you ever had. We care about the man, not the looks. I know I have spoke about this before but it bears repeating. I would rather get down in the trenches with my man than worry about how I look after it's over. To the men I have loved on here and are still a secret I know when you have read my blog and no I don't name names. Some were fantastic lovers and some were just a ship passing in the night but I am sure you probably think about me in the same way......Tennbroad who? it's ok I have my little black book and it's tucked safely away but never say never.....................
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Friends With Benefits
Posted:Mar 30, 2012 5:11 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2012 1:31 pm
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I was feeling sort of low today thinking about all the male friends I have on my network but most of them are not local and the ones that are were just looking. I know I am not Barbie and most men say they are not looking from Barbie but we know they are. Not only do they want to look f=good in bed they want that women to look good on their arm too. I am a plus size proud black woman I have dated out side my race since the 70's and even then it was a challenge as it was the 70's but even now 2012 things are not better and I am at a lost at what to do. I have all but given up on dating seems like men don't want to get to know you just want to jump your bones and never call you back. I am looking for advice from my Local Adult Companion family what is happening to the art of dating? Has it gone by the way side? Is sex more important than a nice night of dinner, dancing and or a movie? Heck I would go to the zoo. My question is what has happened to the "date"?
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Profiles
Posted:Feb 3, 2012 10:27 pm
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2012 10:25 pm
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I enjoy reading profiles of everyone on this site but do you ever wonder why people read your profile you don't have a damn thing in common? I think most read mine to get a good laugh or look at my videos. And to the men that do look at my videos and have a good time watching them, thank you I made them for your pleasure and it gives me pleasure knowing you like them. But for the men I know I don't have a wish and a prayer with, I am still looking for Mr Now and Ready and if you get down here to the Dirty south look me up

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What are you men thinking of?
Posted:Jan 28, 2012 8:28 pm
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2019 5:48 pm
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I have been reading a lot of the profiles of men that have been peeking at me and all I have to say is, you men have gotten bold. Right off the bat you ask for sex. Does it matter anything about the women? Do you try to hit it right off the bat? I know I have some pretty intense pictures but not on my profile picture i want to leave something to the imagination or just so you will check me out a little more. I am not complaining, to each his own but dang some of the men are packing a powerful punch. Made me sort of fearful, looks like you would hurt a woman but some women like a big gun. I was just wondering does that make the women more interested or do they run away? I have to admit I stare for a bit and due to the fact most of the men are far away I breathe a sigh of relief that I don't have to prove anything to anyone I am going to be me whether you like it or not but I still got my freak bottled up till Mr fine and dandy comes along.
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What Are men Really Looking For?
Posted:Dec 25, 2011 4:24 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2012 4:44 am
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I know i have been on this train before but I was wondering what is today's man really looking for? I want to be able to relate to a man and be on his level so i need help. I know it's not all about sex, you want a woman that can have an intelligent conversation and I know a lot of you men are looking for Barbie( so I am not talking to you) but I am talking to the men that want a woman that is just that a woman. A woman that is not afraid to get in the trenches, a woman that is willing to over look gossip and hold her head high, that will walk away from drama and keep an open mind. Now men my challenge to you, the ones that read my blog help me out, what do men want other than sex, we know that is a given but what else are you looking for in a woman, other than Barbie?

Have a joyful New Years and I will see you on the flip side of 2012

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