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Posted:Mar 26, 2021 8:53 am
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2022 12:57 pm
Yeah, 's about time I set up a postbox, especially as a free member. Please, if you wish contact me, even just share ideas or chat, me up here.

Be aware, is a bit of a time delay.

Oh yeah, your messages will be private.

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The Music
Posted:Feb 21, 2022 12:38 pm
Last Updated:Jul 12, 2024 5:59 am
Today I woke with life and vigor
Energy to face the coming day
With a bounce in my step
And a song on my breath
The world was bright

The rains have been pouring down
A day of darkness and muted silence
But the rain does not matter
The music blares loud in my ears
In my heart
In my soul
The day is good, the laughter rings true

And slowly, as the day rages on
The music plays on
It begins to seep away

Sometimes the loneliness aches the bones
Sometimes the touch is just out of reach
Sometimes the kiss is but a forgotten memory
Sometimes the silence lingers a little to long

The days are long
We keep moving on
The music plays.
Considering a Return
Posted:Feb 4, 2022 8:01 am
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2022 4:39 am

I've sort of been hunkering and bunkering down these last few months. Trying to both stay safe and help my wife feel safe. (yes, two very different things). And I know that the pandemic is kinda worse now than it was for much of last year. But I also know I am full vaccinated and would be safe. Or at least safe-er. Probably safer dating than going to work. Nothing like teaching a couple hundred a week.

But at the same time, I also know I've been missing opportunities to meet someone special. Of course it's a trade off. Lately I've been thinking about trying my hand at dating once again. And while my wife encourages such things in principal, she doesn't feel it's safe to in the midst of this pandemic.

So that brings me back to a site like this. I had fun chatting and blogging and goofing off on here a while back. But there is so much that can't be done unless I'm a gold member. Like actually communicate with most people. Which I get, they need to make their money. But to not even get to read a message from someone who is gold? That's a bit obnoxious.

But complaining doesn't solve anything, and that isn't the purpose of this post. Or maybe it is a little. LOL. Still, I'm considering trying out gold once again. See if there is someone even remotely local, who is decent, who might be interested in a decent guy. Who can understand my situation (marriage wise), and who isn't running some sort of scam.

Wow, seems like a really low bar to set. Sadly, so very many can't even get that far. ha ha.

Anyway, guess I'm just rambling. Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences and whatever. Yay or nay. What do you think, is it worth coming back? And as always, thanks for reading and if you wish to message me, check out my blog and shoot me line there.
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Happy Lunar New Year
Posted:Feb 1, 2022 9:28 am
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2022 12:56 pm
Hello Everybody. I've been gone for quite some time, but I figured it'd come on back. New year and new hopes. Here's to the Year of the Tiger bringing us all every hope and dream and everything we need.
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Back at School
Posted:May 24, 2021 10:31 am
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2022 7:55 am

Today was the first day back in class. And I've missed it. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy my vacation. Relaxing, reading, soaking in the sun. Getting done that which I have put off forever. Normal summer vacation stuff. But I miss teaching. The excitement and wonder of when their young minds finally wrap around and appreciate the material.

I think this summer is going to be really fun, too. The students I have seem really excited to learn and are encouraging me to sneak in as much beginning rocket science as I can. And that's always a blast. LOL

That said, the office, while nice, gets kinda lonely. And sitting here for hours crunching through the paperwork is hardly stimulating. So I crank up some music (not too loud) and maybe find someone to chat with.
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To Build and Make
Posted:May 22, 2021 10:23 am
Last Updated:May 24, 2021 3:38 am

My poor kitchen table had seen better days. It was old and cheap and kinda beat up two moves ago. So I finally decided to upgrade. Since it's just a small apartment, I went with an new Kitchen Island instead, and a couple of stools.

Yesterday they all arrived. Time to put them together.

I forgot how much fun it is to build and create. How satisfying it is. Sure my hands are cut and bruised. Sure I'm a bit sore. But it's all good. The kitchen seems brighter and more roomy. Feels great.

No more rickety table and chairs. It's a great end to my vacation.
Going Gold
Posted:May 19, 2021 7:23 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2021 4:18 am

I figure, why not give it a shot. It'll be nice to be able to read messages and send IM (if it works), without skimping and saving the points. ha ha.
Posted:May 17, 2021 5:37 am
Last Updated:May 17, 2021 1:00 pm

Last night I had the most wonderfully erotic dream. Seldom do I recall anything of my dreams, and I thought i'd get it down this morning before it too leaves me.

I remember slow motion. Everything smooth and elegant and languid. The whole universe crawling along to allow full immersion in the moment. Dreamy and beautiful, every sound echoing through eternity, every touch echoing through reality.

I remember the closeness. Hot breath on my skin. The raw presence of someone so dear to me so very close. Lips gently brushing with a soft sigh, not yet ready to taste. Soft fingertips caressing flesh. Were they her hands on me? Where they mine on her? I didn't matter, we were one.

So much touch and taste, hands and lips and tongue, exploring and caressing and worshipping every glorious curve.

The soft gasps and shivers she got with my fingers caressing her sides as I slowly kiss my way down her spine and back up again. How her eyes shone as she rolled over, inviting me to do the same to her front. Gently cupping and massaging each breast before taking them gently in my mouth, caressing them with my tongue. My hand gently on her stomach as her back arches up. Her breath quickening as my hand softly caresses lower.

So soft, so gentle, so close and passionate. It could have been moments, or hours, or days spent absolutely lost in the slow build, the passion.

And when I woke, I was sweating, my heart pounding, gulping in deep breaths, hard and throbbing with need. It was a glorious dream.
My Profile, new and Updated
Posted:May 14, 2021 12:30 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2021 4:19 am

Here is my new profile. As always, if you have any comments or suggestions, I would be happy to hear them.

You can contact me on my Blog.

Fully vaccinated as of April 1st.

I'm a 40 year old, laid back, professor. I work hard so I can enjoy my time off. I moved to Wilmington a few years ago. Looking for a Friend and Lover.

I would say FWB, but that seems to have a different connotation these days. I want someone I can talk and hang out with. laugh and joke and text obnoxious jokes to. Someone to cuddle up with and watch a silly show or movie with. And I also want a regular lover.

Yes, a Lover. not just a quick fling. I want to spend hours in bed kissing and holding and pleasing one another. 50/50, you and me, finding happiness. I want to kiss and make out, slowly caress and worship your body for hours even before we get down to it. Though nothing wrong with fast and dirty and a little mean when the mood hits.

More about me... I am 6'-2", average build. Glasses or contacts, whatever. Grey-blue eyes and my blonde hair is thin and mostly gone, kept cut short.

I am clean and expect you to be as well. Yes, that includes disease free, but also just clean.

If I am so amazing, how am I not taken? You might ask. Well... I am. I am happily married and completely honest with her. We are in an open, ethical, poly-amorous relationship. No she won't be joining us, she is Asexual. Yes you can ask if you are curious. I'm always happy to chat about whatever.

She has asked me to follow a few rules.
Stay clean and safe.
Play elsewhere.
Come home to her.

She might ask questions and be curious, but she won't be joining us. She is asexual, not gay or bi. No, there is no "fixing that", so no need to ask. Stop being rude.

And yeah, don't be rude.

If you're still curious, and would like to chat, hit me up on my blog. I've set up a free way to contact me. As a standard member, I can't see emails. And I've only so many points to IM (if it even works LOL ).

Speaking of my blog, if you are curious, I do have one. Sharing ideas. Feel free to say hi there.
Semester is Done
Posted:May 14, 2021 11:10 am
Last Updated:May 15, 2021 6:49 pm

Yay whoo! It's about time. The semester is finished. All grades are in, and while some students are complaining (they always do), it ended well. Good times. And I've a week and a half till summer semester begins. Whatever shall I do with my time.

I'm definitely gonna start off by sleeping in. At least try. Seems my poor brain doesn't care for it much. whenever I CAN sleep in, it likes wake up bright and early and energized. I mean, that's nice and all, but sleeping in wouldn't be so bad now and again either.
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Confused (asexuality)
Posted:May 6, 2021 10:51 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2021 1:14 pm

I've mentioned this before, but my wife is asexual. She is absolutely amazing in so very many ways, but this mood that I've been in has left her a bit confused, as I've tried to explain it to her.

The last few days, I've especially been in the mood for a long and languid session of kissing, cuddling, and making love. Really to take my time and get lost in those sensations and please my partner.

My dear wife has noticed that I've been a little Off lately. And of course, it never even occurs to her that it could be sexual in nature. Of course it doesn't. Ha ha. So I open up and share with her how I feel. What I am desiring.

And she gets this strange look on her face. Like, why would anyone ever kiss and make out for that long? My god, a full minute of kissing is extreme to her. And throw in the rest? Why would anyone want to waste that much time?

Then she makes a stroking motion with her hand... I could get you off if you like. Think that will help?

LOL. I mean, of course I'm not gonna pass that up. A little play is better than nothing, but the thought of making love for hours is just so alien to her. It's kinda cute.

She's lucky she's amazing in every other possible way. And that I love her more than she will ever understand.

And I'm pretty lucky that she would even offer that much. And that she is open enough to encourage me to feel these hungers elsewhere. Sadly, Covid has put a bit of a damper of that. Still, maybe here before too long that will change.
How Many?
Posted:May 5, 2021 11:43 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2021 6:09 am

My own personal preference is and has always been to find one long term lover and really learn to enjoy and please her. I know others prefer many different partners.

And I'm not asking this question in any judgemental way at all. Everyone has their own beliefs and desires.

How many lovers have you had? How many sexual partners? Is it the same? Do you feel you've had too many? Or just would have not with some now you know differently? Do you feel you have had too many?

Personally, I can count on two hands (and still have a couple fingers left over) how many partner I've had over the years. If I could do it again, there are a couple of short term partners I'd not, but for the most part I've enjoyed my time with all of them. But it's not many. Still, I don't think I want too many. One, maybe two more in my life would be great. Though it'll probably end up more than that.

Still, I go more long term. What about you?
Feeling Hungry
Posted:May 5, 2021 6:10 am
Last Updated:May 14, 2021 6:41 am

Some mornings I just wake up feeling naughty. The most delicious thoughts and dreams and memories running through my head. Coursing like fire through my body. Hours of being aroused and half aroused. Hungry.

Today is one of those days.

Most morning when I wake this way, it is easy enough to "take care of it" and go about my day. But now and again, the hunger runs deeper. Insatiable.

I cranked up the heat in the shower until the steam was billowing and my skin burned and turned red. The heat and wetness coursing over my body. Caressing my flesh, and I thought back.

Back to a past lover. An older woman with small, warm hands who would stroke my chest. We would kiss and caress and make languid love for hours. With the memory of her taste on my lips, the feel of her warm flesh against mine, I properly lathered up and began stroking myself the way she used to.

Imagining her touch, the silky warmth of being inside her, slow and deep and steady. Gentle, always slow and gentle with her. Delicious. All the while caressing myself. Feeling that energy inside me rising up. Building until I feel like I could explode. Riding that edge for those desperate minutes. The final release.

So yeah, most morning reveling in such memories, granting myself that steamy release is enough. Clears my mind and I can go about my day. But this morning...

I wasn't even dried off fully before I was hard again, hungry for more. Hungry for the real thing. Hours of kisses and caressing. The need to experience the hungers and passions of another. The need for sex, but also for more.

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