Truth Hurts
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Posted:Aug 8, 2015 6:37 pm
Last Updated:Aug 24, 2015 12:13 am
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It's always been a famous cliche that the truth hurts. Judging by my experiences on here, it hurts a lot less when the truth comes from the person who should be telling it to you and not from someone else. I never understand why a person has to cover up the truth and pray you never know it. With all of the drama that surrounds this world, you're going to find out about it eventually.
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U are the ultimate judge
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Posted:Mar 11, 2014 9:44 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 8:17 am
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If you are chatting with someone and they interest you, judge them yourself. Not everyone is going to like each other and agree with one another. If you think that person is someone you could be friends with or fall in love with, listen to your own heart. Not someone who is either jealous of u or them. 99 times out of 100, when someone else tries to tell you who you should or shouldn't get to know, they're wrong or bitter about their own wrong doings.
If you're sure someone is the right one for you based on what somebody else is telling you, they're usually not. If you think someone seems very interesting and is someone you can get along with, they usually are. Moral of the story, if you fall in love with someone who may not be popular with others, go for it.See where it goes! Just because someone else doesn't like them doesn't mean you need to stay away from them too. You'd be surprised what good things happen when you judge others on your own and stay away from rumors, drama etc.
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flash/greybox
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Posted:Dec 27, 2013 11:47 pm
Last Updated:Jan 4, 2014 12:42 pm
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I think greyboxing and flash chat is the worst invention on this site. Why u ask? It gives people an avenue to talk behind your back over and over and over. If u have something to say to someone, why not say it to their face? People are tough guys/gals to begin with when they hide behind a computer screen with 20 different screen names and watch people's every move.
It's really sad that small groups of people have to ruin the experience for others on here.
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why?
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Posted:Aug 18, 2012 7:54 pm
Last Updated:Aug 8, 2015 6:42 pm
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Seriously, why do people lie on here? Couples that claim they're bi because their man wants another girl and she just goes along. Women that claim they're only interested in women,when they actually want guys only.Ones who claim they're single when they're not. People who claim they're 30 and they're actually 45.What is the point of this? I don't meet a lot of people on here this is why.The few I do, I get burned because of cowardly bullshit.A tip for those looking for relationships, fwb, one night fuck buddies, mfm with their wife or fmf,honesty does go a long way. Of course some of you wouldn't know it if it came up and bit you in the ass.
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Don't worry be happy
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Posted:Apr 7, 2012 3:09 pm
Last Updated:Jun 23, 2012 3:46 pm
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“When I was 5 years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I wrote down ‘happy’. They told me I didn’t understand the assignment, and I told them they didn’t understand life.” John Lennon
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be yourself
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Posted:Mar 17, 2012 5:16 pm
Last Updated:May 23, 2024 8:17 am
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This is a small blog of me venting. A lot of people complain when someone calls them a fake or a fraud. Judging by the people we deal with on here, they're probably telling the truth.
I'm very selective as to who I meet. Why? because I have little time as is and I'm not dealing with a bunch of fake bullshit.Be honest about who you are and how you feel about someone or something that someone approaches you about. If you can't meet them without having a large group of people surrounding you, then move on and grow up a little.
Be who you are to that person regardless of who is around you. It's amazing in the chat rooms on here when someone will talk to you if their buddies aren't in there, but if they are, you're nothing to them. Does this bother me? No, but it goes back to my point. Quite a few fakes on here that are just looking for attention and nothing else.
As we obviously know, this doesn't apply to all on here. I've established good friendships with people in and out of a chat room.There are some good honest, no bs ppl on here. As for a few others? Like they say, the truth hurts sometimes.
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Lyrics and the quotes i always loved to live by
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Posted:Mar 4, 2012 7:10 pm
Last Updated:Aug 8, 2015 6:42 pm
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How many roads must a man walk down, before you call him a man?
How many seas must a white dove sail, before she sleeps in the sand?
Yes an' how many times must the cannon balls fly,before they're forever banned?
The answer my friend is blowin in the wind,The answer is blown in the wind
They say there's a heaven for those who will wait
Some Say it's better, but I say it aint
I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints
The sinners are much more fun
Only the good Die young
I hear babies cry, I watch them grow
They'll learn much more then I'll never know
And I think to myself, what a wonderful world
There are places I remember
All my life, though some have changed
Some forever not for better
Some have gone and some remain
All these places have their moments
With lovers and friends, I still can recall
Some are dead and Some are living
In my life I've loved them all
And in the end,the love you take is equal to the love you make.
I always believed that Bob Dylan was the greatest songwriter of all time. If you think about it, when we're knockin on heavens door its gettin too dark too dark for me to see, plus That long black cloud is comin down on us.
Best quotes I love to live by is to always "Believe deep down in your heart that you're destined to do great things"
"shoot for the moon, even if you miss you'll land among the stars."
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tell me something
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Posted:Aug 18, 2011 1:31 am
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2014 1:45 am
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Granted some on here annoy us. why do some complain about those who flirt or talk sexually to others? It's a sex related site. Things like this will happen. Can it be annoying at times? yes However,it comes with the territory. Different people are interested in different things on here. If someone wants to cam and chat that way, or show their body of, why is this an issue? If someone is looking for immediate sex, its probably not what some of us are looking for, but again why is it an issue? If someone is looking for a relationship, respect it. Seems like so many people are bothered by what others want. It's their preference. Whether you agree with them or not doesn't matter. Deal with it. Now if someone is threatening, angry and repulsive after someone tells them no,or violent towards another, that's a different story. Just my thoughts
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What is love?
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Posted:May 19, 2011 12:34 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2013 2:05 am
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Love is a term thrown around way too much.
Love has special meaning to someone.
Love is a special bond over time between people.
Love is a challenge that you stand up to.
Love is staring into his/her eyes and promising you'll be there no matter what obstacle appears or lies ahead.
Love is unforgettable when you feel and know it's there.
Love is an intense feeling of deep affection for someone.
Love is experienced and not only felt.
Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired (Mark Twain)
Love brings emotion that can't be described.
Love is likely misunderstood more than most words or feelings.
There is my answer to Haddaway's song
Finny
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Looks Indeed Matter
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Posted:Mar 29, 2011 1:20 am
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2011 3:57 pm
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I always like when you're chatting with someone and they say they don't care much about looks, but more someones personality breast size cock size etc. Don't get me wrong to me personality is and will always be the most important thing in dating someone. However, it's someones looks that attract me to them in the first place. Your personality keeps me attracted to you and hopefully we develop chemistry. If you think someone isn't attractive do you approach them at a bar or event and buy them a drink? I doubt it.
As far as those that judge someone by breast or cock size only, I just don't agree with you. I don't want to say you're insane but I don't agree with it. So if someone doesn't shower for months on end but they have a 9 inch cock you're attracted to them?
I may be a lot different in feeling this way but I always believed it started with looks and then you went from there. Not most important but they are important. Plus this is coming from someone who is ugly 
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