men who don't kiss and don't go down.
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Posted:Nov 22, 2016 7:01 pm
Last Updated:Aug 13, 2019 10:16 pm
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Last night, I went to dinner and a hotel with a cute guy. Funny, sweet easy on the eyes, and purporting to be just what I was looking for.
I stress in my profile blurb how I love to be kissed and touched.
How I am looking for some one who is a good kisser, some one sensual and with a high sex drive, that makes sure everyone cums.
and then we get naked.....
.....and he does not kiss me, or hold my hand. Or bring condoms, or even go halves in the hotel. He does not turn up on time. I'm a little miffed, but a lot of really cute cruisy men don't have their shit together. I have this covered, I have money, condoms, and a book as I waited for 45 minutes for him to turn up.
It went from he is naked, shows me his dick, puts it in my mouth for about 15 seconds, then gets a condom. this all took under 10 minutes.
I say whoah! We are NOWHERE near this part yet"
"but", he says,
"I haven't had sex in a long time".
So I give in, thinking I will get to taste him again properly in the next round. I have skills, I feel they are being wasted with all this rushing. You should NOT rush head.
I say "ok, you cum first."
let's think of this as the appetizer......
But 15 minutes in, he declares that actually, he takes about two hours to cum. We have had almost zero foreplay. No kissing, hair stroking, no moans or dirty talk, not even a "do you like that?" from him. not even a hug. every time I try to kiss him, he gives me these little pecks on the mouth. He looks uncomfortable when I put my arms around him and kiss him on the mouth. and no, I don't have bad breath. I am a good kisser. I know how to make sure everyone has a good time. I have written declarations of this.
after he cums (it DID NOT take 2 hours), he says
"oh look at the time, it's only 20 minutes till we have to get out of here. better hurry up and get ready"
and I say really? I am pretty sure we haven't been here 2 and a half hours, more like about 30 minutes.
I look at my phone. yes, including a shower, chat, sex with no sound, no foreplay, and a search for my condoms, we have been here 40 minutes. So he has cum, does not care if I have not cum, does not kiss, informs me then about how he doesn't go down on women, as he does not like it.
He goes on to say that MOST American men don't kiss or give oral sex, they only expect to receive it.
I have come across maybe three guys in my life who don't kiss, who were from the U.S, and they didn't go down either. I have come across way more who loved everything about a woman, and were very good with their tongue, very generous with their love making, and very courteous and punctual.
I also paid for dinner and drinks. He asked me out, but then decided I had to spring for everything. Menfolk, you should at the very least GO HALVES, unless you are seeing a woman who is well-off. or a fucking heiress, or some chick who is independently wealthy. Regular women get hit on all the time, and don't have the cash to splash around, if you can't afford your own dinner and condoms.
I think this guy gives American men a very bad name.
TL R don't contact me if you don't kiss and don't make sure everyone cums and has a good time. It's NOT OK
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