Relationships ... Shame/Blame...ETC (no judgement please)
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Posted:May 15, 2014 8:58 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2016 1:26 pm
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Ok I'm neither a scholar nor poet, so please take this blog with a grain of salt as this is coming from my humble opinion~
I'm deeply Spiritual but by no means a saint with my own beliefs and values. With that all being said, please Allow me to share my viewa on life.
I truly do believe that "We" all were created Equal. PERIOD
No Matter of Gender nor Nationality. PERIOD
We are all wonderfully and perfectly made by God above or whatever higher power you choose to worship because after all it is all of OUR Choice to have this FREEDOM ,,, Hence FREE WILL..
I Believe with all of my heart that We were created (human as well as the animal species) all obtaining animalISTIC Instincts... We Not meant to actually Have to MARRY and Mate for LIFE
No other species do this and SOCIETY Has DICTATED From the Beginning of TIME as well as Our BIRTHS that we are to conform to this RITUAL in order for it to LOOK "PROPER" if we choose to PROCREATE.
ONCE AGAIN.." A Choice "and what we were meant to do. Events such as.."Shotgun" weddings,, prearranged,,,,or simply "Really young" teens getting pregnant and being Forced to get Married,,,or perhaps some of you all indulged a bit too much and made a wild and fun choice to get "hitched" lol... It happens.
My point to all of this is ...Not to Bash or Discredit the ones of you all that have actually met and married your TRUE SOUL MATE.. I APPLAUD you for This if You Really have and feel this way.
I admire and appreciate the males species that has taken care off their bodies as well as appreciating lovely ladies that take good care of themselves inwardly as well as outwardly..but simply not interested in "mating" with or indulging in intimate activities with them (this could change also.. but doubtful) . They do make great and fun friends though. 
The ones on here that are married and choosing to play outside of the realms of their Married "CONTRACT" ,,,men and women both....feel as though they are TRAPPED perhaps and Have to REMAIN in these relationships due to that piece of Paper "Contract" in order to not break up or hurt each other nor disrupt their offspring's lives. Well you know what? While applauding this also... where is the Justice in any of this as far as to you ... her/him...or the ? I'm not saying run out and get a ton of EXPENSIVE GOVERNMENT DICTATED DIVORCES...but what I am trying to saying is that contracts like marriage certificates,,,birth certificates,,death,,,etc all are Just THAT.. Contracts and Certificates to keep count of the human species and govern.
Why do you think that we ALL LOVE NON Contractual Agreements such as Cell Phone services as well as manyyyyyyyyyyy more such services? I'm not promoting anything here much less any "illegal" activities (yes once again Labeled and Dictated by Powers in Place..(BY SOCIETY)
Ok.. all I am trying to convey (in my opinion) is if a couple,,,man/woman... man/man...woman/woman choose to have a relationship,,its simply just That.. Companionship. Now That is what we Were and Are Truly meant to have and created to do. PERIOD. To Love,,,Care...Share and Procreate if that choice is made.
I am soooooooooooooooo Sick of all the LABELS,,TITLES as well as STEREOTYPING that SOCIETY has given to anybody that has CHOSEN to find and make more friends as we are meant to have more than one and if they are like minded and OPEN MINDED ... ( WE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE THIS WAY)... Generations have DICTATED THAT WE SHUT UP,,,,HIDE AWAY or DO AWAY with pregnancies..Planned or unplanned to be MORALY Accepted in SOCIETY and to be be ASHAMED of OUR Sexualities as well as OUR FUN "ANMIALISTIC" Sexual NATURAL Human/Species (in general) DESIRES AND NEEDS.
SOME of the HUMAN Species ...SOME... Truly are meant to and desire to Mate for Life.. (CHOICE) and I APPLAUD This.. with GREAT ADMIRATION and RESPECT.
My point is people need to quit beating themselves up for having NATURAL desires and feeling TRAPPED by the Contract that was signed if one was signed. GOVERNMENT (aka SOCIETY as well as some religions ) HAVE MADE US ALL FEEL LIKE WE HAVE TO ASHAMED Of making a mutual decision to take separate paths and perhaps those paths will cross again... Maybe not,,,but desiring EVERYBODY To be what we are truly meant to do...
LIVE>>>LOVE>>>LAUGH...and CARE...SHARE...LOVE and NUTURE Each Other as well as our animals...plants and Earth.. Society including myself  is guilty of handing a hand in this) KILLING OFF all of the Above... Many people Choose not to "MARRY" at all ,,,ever...and CHOOSE to have cats,,,dogs,,animals in general or perhaps adopt something to love and nuture. THIS TOO Is WONDERFUL While having their "HUMAN NEEDS" met in other ways..ie FWBs or store bought. (is there Truly a RIGHT OR WRONG? ) Hmmmm as long as nobody or species are wrongfully harmed intentionally or even unintentionally... That's all I can See That is WRONG
This too is will be saved for another discussion
ITS PAST TIME FOR A CHANNGEEEEE!!!!!!
NO MORE HURT********* NO MORE UNECESSARY PAIN**** NO MORE BLOOD SHED.....and No MORE BEING TAXED TO DEATH as well as DICTATORSHIP by SOCIETY...
BORN FREE...or are we Really? (saving this for another time and blog perhaps)
We were Born NUDE Though!! 
(please excuse any typos)
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