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Getting to know someone new..
Posted:May 14, 2012 1:10 pm
Last Updated:May 15, 2012 4:43 pm
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I have had three husbands, divorces, (the sign references them) and lovers in between. I am experienced in the ways of lovemaking, some quite pleasant, some off the wall, some enlightening, but everyone slightly different from the last.

I think the best and most difficult is meeting someone new. The best because of the fun that goes into getting to know each other intimately and intellectually. The most difficult in finding the right rhythm, our bodies in the rhythm that is established, perfected after several years of sex with the same partner. It is sometimes hard to tell this new partner all the things you need, but once done the rhythm develops.

It's a cold rainy day and my need for intimacy heightens. I get to see my new friend later in the week, the fun still getting better, the dance of our bodies perfecting in rhythm. I am having a wonderful time and don't want the dance to stop.

How do you work thru the newness?
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Posted:May 13, 2012 7:02 pm
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Long term lover not long term relationship?
Posted:May 11, 2012 6:12 am
Last Updated:May 22, 2012 7:07 pm
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What is a long term relationship? Dating for years, living together, or marriage. I assume the definition is based on who you ask. This question was posed to me? Does he want it, do you want it? The question kinda slapped me up side the head. What??

I suddenly felt pressured to figure out what I want and change the banner on my profile. I came up with Long Term Lover, Ltl. We use the term "no strings attached" and that can happen if you keep it from becoming a relationship. As lovers and only lovers, a relationship can be kept at bay but strings become attached. The only way to have sex as no strings means that you fuck a new dick every time. No repeats and even then a communication string has already attached itself.

A long term relationship is defined in my brain as a commitment to making the union work for both of you. Dating for years is the closest to ltr that I would consider. I prefer Ltl because I don't have to worry about any work other than sex. My life stays exactly as I have it, no questions, no changes, just the sexual union that occurs on an agreeable schedule.

I speak of this subject because I have experienced it and it existed for 4 years. He and I were truly just lovers, we became friends but never, not once did we sleep together over night. (Overnight stays have to considered with caution) We continued to seek and find other people to have "relationships" while maintaining our "scheduled" sex sessions.

Can you believe this can happen for you? First and foremost, the only, only way it can happen is there is no jealousy therefore there is no commitment demands or expectations. If any of those feelings come up, each person must suppress and control. Most of the time lust is the emotion that one is feeling and in our brains it is defined as possessing or being in love. By the time I moved, we expressed love for our friendship and unique relationship because it have migrated there but by no means were we "in love with each other". He has now found a lady for Ltr.

Next thing to define is "long". A few months, a year long, many years long, I define long as "in it for whatever time it lasts".

What are your thoughts on this subject? What starts out in meeting someone can develop into the traditional or a unique situation or relationship. Certainly whichever it is, it won't be no strings attached.


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Places for sex
Posted:May 8, 2012 6:29 am
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Happiness is....
Posted:May 7, 2012 2:48 pm
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2022 8:17 am
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Happiness is what you make it.
Happiness is how you feel.
Happiness is a state of mind.

Why am I so happy, just being here another day! {=}

Can you tell I need something to write about?

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