If you want real, be real yourself!
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Posted:Apr 26, 2014 6:30 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2014 6:57 pm
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I'm feeling like the entire world is made up of phony liars who aren't who they say they are. I may not email everyone back, but when I do I am sincerely interested. Yes, my profile is provocative, but it is genuinely me. Guys I have met up with will tell you I am who I say I am, and I do the things I say I'll do. But in my profile there are two things that many of the men on this site seem to ignore. One: I'm looking for friends, for on-going love affairs, affection, spending time in and out of the bedroom. Two: I don't date married men. Really, I don't ask for much for what I'm willing to give. Yet time and again, I get weirdness when I try to have a conversation or expect a flirty text or two or three a day!
I hear from men all the time about how all the women on here are teases and liars. Well, guys I hate to tell you but they are not prostitutes or phone sex lines (well, some of them are, ever heard the saying if it looks too good to be true...). We're people. Real live human beings. I'm not looking for a husband. I did that. I'm done with that. But I am looking for someone (or multiple someones) to make me feel sexy, attractive, worth spending a little time and money on. Seriously, I know what kind of work it is for guys to get actual touch and fuck on this site, one of the sexy fantastic guys I met here (who is 25 and hot as hell by the way) works at it constantly sending hundreds of emails out a week, and still gets more rejections than actual play. My point is supermodels are not the real women on here, who will meet and have sex. We're real women, probably not a size 0 (those women have plenty of men stalking them, they aren't here looking for you to email them "hey baby wanna fuck?"). I'm not looking for that either.
Stop treating the women here as free prostitutes. We aren't. We want actual human contact. And frankly, isn't that what you want too? Just because a woman is on here by the way, doesn't mean she's desperate and you can neglect her. When I say I want to hear from you everyday, I mean it. I can and will find someone else who will do that and I'll be blowing him instead of you. So men, listen to the ladies who you want to fuck. Believe me they will tell you what will make them fuck you more than once. And don't play games, don't be an ass, and don't think that because we went out with you once we are waiting around for you to pay attention to us. Local Adult Companion has taught me, that I'm a woman, and that men are very horny and I can have what I really want. I get at least 10 emails a day without even sending out any emails. Younger more attractive women get even more. Stand out from the crowd, be a human being, listen to what she's telling you she wants, and most of all don't take for granted that you got a date and if you get to fuck her appreciate it! She could have fucked another guy, but she decided to give you a chance. Don't blow it by being a jerk.
So I've also met some fantastic guys on here. You super awesome guys are out there. But if you get a little pushback, understand we ladies meet a lot of your asshole brethren here. They suck and sometimes we begin to color you all with the same brush. If you are truly different, act like it. Fill out your profile, be human in your emails. And appreciate the ladies for the sexiness we are willing to share with you.
Good luck to all in finding what you are looking for here. I will continue to read the emails, meet up with men (and maybe a few women  ) But I'm looking for the special ones, the ones who are good for more than a couple of hours, who enjoy sex and conversation, and remember I'm human, not a rubber doll or some getting paid for her time.
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NSA is not FWB; FWB is not NSA
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Posted:Nov 9, 2013 11:25 am
Last Updated:Nov 11, 2013 9:12 am
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So we all know we are here because we are looking for sexual pleasure. I personally am finding some very friendly, hot, sexy people to lick and suck and fuck around with. So enjoying it. But why is that people do not understand FWB means Friend with Benefits and NSA means no strings attached fucking. These are pretty mutually exclusive. I get guys who have said to me that I am lying on my profil when I say looking for FWB because I want a relationship. Friendship, fellas, is a relationship. I'm not looking for hearts and flowers. I am looking for people I can talk to in and out of the bedroom who I really enjoy fucking and who really enjoys fucking me. I'm not looking for complicated, or drama, and I'm not looking for NSA.
NSA is basically either one night stand or hey let's fuck I don't want to talk to you or know about you, kind of like going to a pro, but free. Some women, I would say those who already have a love relationship, are looking for NSA. They say so in their profile even if it is subtle. Discreet relationship sometimes code for NSA. I make no judgement. To each his or her own, but if someone is saying they want an FWB NSA that is not right. Either you want a friendship or you want no strings, you actually can't be looking for both. Someone looking for FWB is looking for a relationship although not traditional bf/gf type stuff.
I meet lots of guys. Probably 3-4 a week. I enjoy our time together. Sometimes it clicks and I meet them again. (One guy, mmmm, I meet him every chance I get at least weekly, and damn he's fine.) If it doesn't I always, politely let them know it was fun but now we're done. I'm very clear that I date and fuck multiple guys in the same week (recently in the same day which was so hot.) Yet I get a few guys who are confused and then upset that I'm not sitting around waiting for them. I've made several friends who I fuck and enjoy a lot. I'm still looking for a few more. But I'm not NSA. Short-term is not for me. I want you to want me again and again.
So read the profile and write your profile by clearly defining what you are looking for. You just want to fuck, say so. You not sure what you want, say so. You know you are looking for someone special all your own who's kinky as hell, say so. Most of don't get made if someone says they aren't into it. There is someone out there who will want to fuck you. Enjoy and be safe and damn people be upfront.
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Dear Men, Why You Don't Get Offers to Meet for Real
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Posted:Oct 19, 2013 5:03 pm
Last Updated:Apr 26, 2014 7:01 pm
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So first of all, I have to tell you even as a standard member as a woman I got probably 20 emails per week. At least 5 of those are from guys who really want to meet and hookup. About 2 of those are quality guys who actually read my profile and know that I'm looking for a man interested in continuing liaisons rather than just one night fucks.
Having said that, you as a man have far more competition on this site. You as a guy get far less emails. We women are far more selective as well. If your profile consists of a statement that says something like "hey looking for real people who want to get together and have fun" end of paragraph, and for partner is says something like "real women or couples that want to actually meet", and all of your pics are of your penis (yes, we know you love it, we do too, but we see so many pics of penises we get sick of it), then well, you can expect to see very little actual action.
For me and my fellow horny women, likely what we think and what I always think, is that you have little or no intellect or personality. If you want a response, I can't say this enough: READ MY PROFILE. Say something about something in my profile that interests you. Say something that is interesting or unique. Anything other than hey baby wanna fuck?
If you want to meet real women, act like a real man, a real human being. I'm a total slut when I'm with a guy I like alone, but I want to know that you want to spend time with me outside of fucking. Most women want to be adored. Want to be wanted. Not just as a sex object, but as a person. Try it. It will work.
Kisses, SubgirlDD
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