Are you in the moment or a planner
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Posted:May 12, 2015 7:36 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2015 7:00 pm
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good morning, hope this finds you with that satisfied smile on your face.
This is not what I was going to originally blog on, but I was answering a message and thought mmmmmmmmmm what a good blog, so here we are.
I am more of a spontaneous person. i think many of us are. When i am pursuing or interested in a guy or anything for that matter, i am more in the moment.
i will do the "i am interested in you dance", as many of you do. text, talk, do the meet n greet, or i met you somewhere else and have expressed interest in you. i usually don't make plans because of my work schedule, although I do make an attempt. Things for me, usually are spontaneous. Spontaneous works the best for me, it's actually a turn on, and the times have been some of the best.
If i am interested in you, and we don't make it to the sandbox, I tend to move on. Don't get me wrong, there are several of you that I enjoy talking too, and i like, but we may never meet. that is different.
i am talking about someone that peeked my interest, so much my girls were salivating over them. When things don't happen, i put you aside and move on. you may be in and out of my life, and still interested, but not on my part.
There are some of you that had that chance, more than once and did not take it, when i was really interested. or some of you that may have had some time with me, decided to try something else, and then tried to come back. none of that works for me. i put you away and have moved on.
There are so many warm bodies as i call them out there, i am not waiting around for you to decide what you want. So, don't be disappointed when i tell you, it won't happen. you had your chance.
This is not directed at anybody, it's just something i realized about myself. If we don't get to the sandbox when the desire is there, it usually does not happen.
Don't get me wrong, if i am in a relationship with you, I will make plans, after all, i do like my playtime.
Are you more in the moment, or a planner.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here................thegrls
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My morning coffee
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Posted:May 11, 2015 6:55 am
Last Updated:May 12, 2015 8:36 pm
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with a satisfied smile on your face.
I am in the hotel, getting ready to head out to work. One thing I do enjoy in the morning and throughout the day is coffee. A good cup of coffee.
If I don't have a good cup of coffee, with real half n half to start the day, things can go to hell in a handbasket quickly. I carry half n half with me, I won't use the powdered oil n crap they pawn off as creamer, and I won't use the flavored fake liquid creamer either. It's half n half, or when desperate, whole milk.
I'm like a crazy woman if I don't get my coffee they way I want it. Coffee in the hotels over the years has gotten worse and worse. They are cutting corners, and coffee is one way they can. I figured out an answer to that dilemma, I purchased some star buck instant packs. They are pretty good.
We all have our favorite brand of coffee as well. And of course, we coffee drinkers are set as to how we like our coffee.
My coffee is coffee, and half n half. that's it. Of course, I do like a lot of half n half. My granny introduced me to coffee. she would fill a cup half full with coffee, then add sugar, and milk the rest of the way. I was maybe 4. I am a coffee drinker to this day. I have tried decaf, yuk.
What is your drink of choice to get you rolling in the morning. If you drink coffee, how do you like it.
Also if the coffee is more than 20 minutes old, it's not fresh, just saying.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..............thegrls
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Oh crap, I did a guy thing
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Posted:May 9, 2015 5:25 am
Last Updated:May 10, 2015 8:33 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that satisfied smile. Mine is there, can you see it. 
I mixed names up while sending a message. Huge mistake, like oh crap.
I am going to admit I have done this more than once, or twice, maybe more than that. Someone I have known for several years now texts me a good morning and a good night text.
I answered back this morning, but sent the message to the last person I texted last night, and it was not him. Of course I used names. At least it was a friend message,and not a sext message. Can you say oh crap.
Have you done that before, and how do you reply.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..................thegrls
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Do I Miss You
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Posted:May 8, 2015 4:57 am
Last Updated:May 9, 2015 5:04 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with a satisfied smile this morning.
I read this blog after I posted it, and realize it may sound a lil harsh, so I am adding this explanation. When I say, I will not allow my self to care, it's to protect myself. Especially if we may just be starting something. And even passed that, I keep my cards close. I chose not to let myself get hurt.
I received this text: "Do you miss me tonight". I have not answered back. I may today or tomorrow. If I do at all. (I did answer back).
Let me see, what is there that I should miss about you. We have been talking for 3 weeks now. Yes, it has been daily, and I have enjoyed it very much. We had plans last week, that I had to cancel at the last minute because of work.
I totally appreciate you rescheduling. We did, and I totally enjoyed it. I liked you enough to talk to you and then meet you., and go beyond that. Yes, I totally enjoyed the night, it was fantastic. But, now you are on with your life, and I am mine. Would I like to see you again, yes. Beyond that, unless we get involved with each other for any period of time, do I miss you. Truthfully, NO. I do not. Even if we do end up in some sort of relationship, I won't allow myself to miss you.
You see, I won't allow my self to care for you. If I don't do that, then I won't miss you. It's easier for me that way, when you or I decide it's time to move on, or if we never get out of the starting gate.
What do I miss, coming home to somebody at the end of the work week. Enjoying a drink or seeing you during the week. Picking up the phone to call you or text you over some mundane thing I know you will enjoy. Just everyday talking and laughing. looking at you for no reason, just to. I miss the relationship thing with someone that actually wants to be there. When you get to that stage, ask me again, Did you miss me last night, and you may get the answer you want to hear.
So, unless we are or were there, do I miss you, NO. What's to miss, there is always a warm body willing and able to do what you just did.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here......................thegrls
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Do they make pussy toupees
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Posted:May 5, 2015 4:58 pm
Last Updated:May 7, 2015 2:42 pm
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i hope this finds everybody well.
So, what does a woman do if a guy she is seeing likes pussy hair. It would be great if he was the only one.
The other guys like bare.
Do they make pussy toupees. Probably not.
She has a couple choices. See only that one person. Or, she can come up with excuses as to why the girl wasn't shaved.
mmmmmmmm, this is a dilemma. I think the excuse should work.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want................thegrls
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Are we living in a Truman world
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Posted:May 3, 2015 4:27 am
Last Updated:May 3, 2015 9:11 pm
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good morning, I hope this finds you with a satisfied smile on your face this morning. It's 7am, and I am blogging this morning. mmmmmmmmmm
I have heard rumblings from fellow bloggers about things disappearing from their blog pages. Things they themselves swear they put there. My first thing has disappeared. It was a picture I reposted that was reported on more than one news station. It does exist on an adult dating site. BIG BROTHER IS WATCHING.
dododododododododododododo cue the music. I just caught a blog message from damndedvixen reporting her lost blog, not one time, but two times.
We have heard from Mcmaniac, our man for president about his disappearing stuff as well. (Some of his disappearing stuff may have to do with age....... , or that bong he likes to hit).  . Or too much playtime or thinking about playtime...
We have always known big brother was and is watching, but on Local Adult Companion, seriously. Facebook, is another world, they control their stuff. The great thing about technology, is we know we posted something, we know we wrote something, we know we added pictures. We have proof we did, because first, we did it, and second, it can be traced through the internet. (I don't know the workings, but I know we leave trails where ever we go. So, the proof is there, we did make the post.
What happened to free speech. Seriously. Taking pictures or blog posts down. We are just expressing our views, not inciting world take over. Deleting posts and pictures will not stop us, we will move on. Keep posting. We are the 25 per centers that will ask why, and challenge Big Brother. Hot Damn, blog marchers, and protesters on Local Adult Companion, who would have thought. And our very own presidential candidate, McManiac ?* Citizens of Local Adult Companion blogging world, unite, we Rock.
Have you had your post disappear.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..................thegrls{=}
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Traveling through Baltimore
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Posted:May 1, 2015 6:07 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2015 6:16 am
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Good morning, I hope this finds you with that satisfied smile on your face.
I arrived home from Wilmington, Delaware last night. I have traveled for work for over 12 years now.
Normally, my trips don't make me uneasy. This one did to some point. We were an hour away from Baltimore. We had several well meaning people from home and Delaware give us advice about traveling and what routes to take.
The decision was made to take the route through Baltimore. It was during the day, we were not stopping in the city. As long as the interstates were open and moving, I was comfortable with the drive.
As we drove through Baltimore, I saw a normal city. We were not in the streets close to the destruction. The only way a person would know anything was going on in Baltimore, was if one was in the area, and from the news.
One of my crew was with me, she was going on about how they should have the investigation finished and let the public know what happened. I told her if it was my family member, I would want them to take their time and get the investigation right. Not sloppy and fast.
What happened is in my view is not a black or white thing. It could have been an accident, or not. I have worked in a medium/minimum security facility. When there was an incident that required a take down, there were at least 4 to 5 people involved or more, depending on the person. Yes, it is chaos, and yes accidents can happen. I am not saying that is what happened, just supposing.
Yes, no matter where we are in life, we have good decent people doing their job to the best of their ability. You will also run into that group of people that is corrupt.
Those people can be found anywhere in life in any profession. Again, it is not a black or white thing, it is a corrupt thing. I grew up in a small town in the north, my were raised in a small town in the south. There was corruptness in both towns. There has been corruptness since the beginning of time.
In this day and age, if there is corruptness going on, it will be found out. Things like this cannot be covered up like they may have been years ago. Protests are peaceful demonstrations. I have been involved in them. We sure as hell did not burn, steal or destroy other peoples property.
I realize there were and are groups still coming into the city, that do not live there, that are inciting the unrest. What's sad, is the racial issue being used. Many of the business owners and leaders of Baltimore and many of these cities are black. Many of these people have worked hard for what they have. Now, it's gone.
I applaud the woman that went after her , he may not like his 15 minutes of fame, but it may have saved his life. She did the right thing. I would have done the same thing at any given time with my at the time. They are 3 productive self supporting adults now, and I did spank their asses.
If this nation were as corrupt at people would have you believe, the photo would be skewed one way. Not what the statistics show as reported and as posted by CNN.
I am not challenging or disputing anybody, I just think its sad, things have gotten so out of hand, and continue to do so.
Yes, there are decent and good people, but there is that small percentage that will create chaos. People calm down, get a grip. Not everybody is corrupt.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here................thegrls
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Seriosly dude
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Posted:Apr 26, 2015 2:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2015 4:32 am
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hello, I hope this finds you with a happy smile on your face.
I got sent to wilmington, Deleware at the last minute for a job. I was up for a long road trip, as one of the crew was going with me. Plus it's day work, so we will have time to be tourists.
Coming to the hotel from the store, I attempted to make a left hand turn before I was supposed to. The turn sign was right there, so I turned. Regardless, the turn was supposed to happen after the intersection.
I hit some dude in a fancy suv. I'm not dissing, just saying. Thank god, it was a scrape job, and nobody got hurt. My poor lil car, has some dings n dents.
The dude calls the police. They don't do a report, because it was a small accident. When his wife gets there with the insurance card, I notice the thing is expired. I'm like dude, this is expired. Does it matter, probably not, the accident was my fault. I did tell my insurance company when I reported the accident.
After it was all said and done, and the dude's wife leaves, he proceeds to hit on me, and try to pick me up. Telling me how hot I look. Seriously, after all that Now if he hadn't done the insurance thing and all that, I may have been more receptive.
He says now don't let this ruin your day. I look at him and say, if this ruins my day, maybe I should slit my wrists and die. What the fuck.
Yes, I am annoyed and pissed, it has been a crappy day. So, I am going to finish this blog, drink another beer, and smoke some weed. The only thing that can make it better at the moment would be to fuck the hell out of somebody to relieve this frustration.
Update: 4/30/2015. Yes the accident was annoying. The fact the dude tried to pick me up when he knew I knew he was attached, is what pissed me off. If he wanted to make any headway, he should have said have given me a pass on the accident. Not bothered with the police or his wife. No that would have been impressive.
Enjoy the ride searching for what you want here..............thegrls
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my 4/20 response
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Posted:Apr 18, 2015 6:20 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2015 6:43 pm
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good morning, hope all is well with you. I hope you had a pleasurable evening.
I receive a message from someone on another site I am on. The dude, notices I am 4/20 friendly, but prefer not to date men that do drugs. He did mention it in a joking way. I am sure some people might think like he did. I smoke weed, but won't date men that do drugs.
My response back was: hello, ok, maryjane is not a drug, it is a plant that can still be found growing wildly anywhere in this country. Anything else is altered, pills, heroin, many other drugs, including cigarettes and liquor. I started smoking almost 3 years ago to help with the chronic pain I had from my hip. It also helps me sleep at night. I only smoke at night while relaxing. One other thing I discovered about weed, it is the best aphrodisiac out there. Oh my God, it intensifies the sex. Now, it's your turn.
I am not advocating anything at all, this is my explanation as to why I am 4/20 friendly. Before I started smoking regularly, I would have laughed at you and said, no not me. I can guarantee there are many of you out there the same way. That's ok. Hell, my brothers would drink before they smoked, it's just the way it is. I know they don't approve, but they love me and accept it.
I also know that some of you pass me by because of that, and that is ok. I used to pass all men over that smoked cigarettes. Then, one day I realized I was overlooking some cool guys because they did something I didn't particularly liked. I can and have dated men that smoke.
Many of us do many things that may be a dealbreaker for us. If it is something like smoking, meet the person if you are attracted to them. Work something out that works for both of you, like smoking outside. Or not.
I can most certainly guarantee there are many other things out there that are worse than smoking weed. One day you may be at the end of your rope, with something like chronic pain, or a family member that is dieing because they have no appetite or just plain hurt to much. I can tell you this, IF MY MOTHER WERE ALIVE AT THE MOMENT, and suffering like she was, SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN GIVEN EDIBLES. But, there again, it's up to each person to decide what they are willing to do.
Of course for me, the kicker is, it is the best aphrodisiac out there. It intensifies those nerve endings, making the pleasure, more pleasurable. Plus you get all the squirting you can handle. nuff said.
Enjoy the ride on your journey here...................thegrls
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my driving fun
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Posted:Apr 17, 2015 7:35 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2015 9:23 pm
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Ok, i tested this, and the picture showed up the right way. yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaa. sometimes it takes so little to please us. 
I hope this finds you well, and with that sexy grin on your face.
I travel for a living, that puts me in the car hours a week. When it is nice, I love to drive with the windows down and sing to the music that I have blasting away. I also like to drive with my leg out the window. Yes, I said my leg out the window.
Normally, it's a bare leg. I have started wearing stockings and a skirt, when I could be wearing jeans. Guess what I prefer the stockings and skirt. It's more fun.
This is the first time I have wore my stockings and skirt, and drove with the leg out the window. Oh man, I had a blast. I was totally in the music, and enjoying the sun beating down on my leg, when I look over, and this dude is traveling beside me. Me having a blonde moment finally look over and go what the fuck.
The dude is taking pictures of me in my lil car with my leg propped. I smiled and went with it. I am sure those pictures ended up somewhere.
I am happy to make someone's day. So, if you see this lil old 1992 toyota station wagon, (yes that's what it is, my lil bitch that gets me anywhere) with a leg hanging out the drivers side on a beautiful day, that is me.
Try it, you will not believe the fun you have. Just be careful, when passing. If you do, let me know your experience.
Enjoy the ride, while on your journey here..................thegrls
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Local Adult Companion and what you are looking for
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Posted:Apr 16, 2015 8:18 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2015 8:27 pm
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good morning, hope this morning finds you with that sexy grin on your face.
As I log on to my page everyday, I think of my fellow blogger Mcmaniac's rants over the page. It is a pain in the ass to go through the" if you don't sign up for auto renew, you will miss out on all the fun. And, they have been showing me the same pics of some under 25's, that have been on here since I joined the site. In other words, the pics are as old as hell. . So old, I bet none of them are on Local Adult Companion, maybe they never were.
The following is a message I sent to someone in response to yesterday's blog, as well as the first paragraph on my profile that he pointed out to me, which is the following:
One day, some exciting, sensuous, sexy man that makes my heart slam against my chest will walk into my life and say "Come, I want you with me until the end of time."
Does he exist here? I believe so. Until that happens, I am here for the ride, and whatever comes with it. I might be enticed into an FWB relationship. Have you got what it takes to entice me?
I did not post his message here. This was my response back.
I still believe in being part of a couple. I want that long term relationship. That is my way of saying it on my profile. I know what site this is, but there are so many people looking for so many things here, pussy or dick included. it's just more out in the open. Because I am human and love my pleasure, and am not in a relationship, I am will do fwb. I am not chasing dick. I can get that anytime I want it. I want the rest of it. I am sure you can find all the pussy you want out there. Good Night.
That's the beauty of Local Adult Companion, sex is out in the open, and we are all looking for different things here. I like it because I can blog here.
My relationships with the people I interact here are varied. Some blog, some message only, some are lovers, some are past lovers, some are wanna be lovers, some like the pictures. Plus there are videos, chat groups, the Local Adult Companion newspaper, and the list goes on. I am sure there is pretty much whatever you want to find here. Even all that stuff I am not into. And, there are people looking for some sort of a long term relationship as well.
It just takes 2 people looking for the same thing at the same time, and finding each other. That is pretty much the way of life away from Local Adult Companion as well.
I wish you luck in what you are searching for here..............thegrls
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