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Why i have do deal with this at all
Posted:Feb 23, 2019 1:04 pm
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2019 4:50 am
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This happened today and it's absurd that some men behave this way. This is all that was said. I took the conversation from the very beginning.

jdt62: did u wake up wet this morning? 10:10 AM
me: these types of comments only anger me 10:11 AM
jdt62: what a bitch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 10:11 AM

me: because i kindly pointed out your rude and asking things that are not your business, and things like what you said would never equal the out come you hope for? 10:14 AM
me: yeah i'm a bitch for not wanting to be talked to like a dirty 10:16 AM
me: you fucking boys and the nerve of your bs ego 10:14 AM
jdt62: what a sad bitch!!!!!!!!!!!! 10:15 AM
jdt62: i feel sorry for u 10:15 AM
me: thank you this conversation just earn a place in my blog on how stupid you boys are 10:15 AM
me: good luck you I'm sure with your attitude you will need it and more to get laid

He isn't the only fool, not even the worst one. but i should tell you all people like him ruin my tolerance and makes is more difficult for all of you.
Good day and as always leave comments below i do enjoy see what you all have to say or think.
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some things are fun
Posted:Feb 10, 2019 10:27 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2019 4:51 am
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I do enjoy meet and greets, and I want to find more people who I find worth my time to chat with, so I want to meet them. I hope everyday some person will have me engrossed enough that I agree to meet with them. But too often all you Guys do is annoy me turning me cunty towards you. Then you guys all just fizzle out as if a straight forward woman is too intimidating for you. None of you fool boys can take my tartness in stride and either be witty yourself or even respond. It's a shame too as a guy who knows how to banter, have fun, and carry a real conversation is the type of person I want to meet. One of the best parts of a decent meeting is the sexual energy I leave with. Sometimes it's like the best foreplay for me and my husband. Returning home wet riled up ready to continue the touching and rubbing I had few moments ago, but this time with my husband. The orgasms' I get with the craze for another. Has me even walk in to the meet and greet excited. If a guy can do it just right I'll keep sexual charged some times for days. If the boy doesn't fail or vanish on me and we get together for a playtime. The next few days are very erotic for us. After all the biggest thing to keep in mind fella's

My husband is everything, the rest of you are just our foreplay.
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so you think you want to chat?
Posted:Feb 6, 2019 12:16 pm
Last Updated:Mar 8, 2019 3:35 am
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Seriously I like the instant messenger. It brings me entertainment; I like it when people entertain me. I like talking to some of you; I am forced to be mean to some of you because you're so stupid. I hope I don't have to be, every time it notifies me of an awaiting message. I really just want to have a nice conversation and find the person who entertains me. Sometimes things in common help, but you know I'm here because I'm bored. I wanted to pass the time, chatting here helps. That being said I don't initiate conversation. I won't message you first it's not my way because I'm still looking for the person who wants to have sex with me and I want to have sex with. So contacting me first goes a long way in believing that others want to have sex with me. Now the goal is for them to convince me I want to have sex with them, a good way to do that is to chat with me and talk and have a good time. Have 2 to 10 minutes between messages it sucks. Makes me get distracted and then I forgot, lose contact with what I'm doing or wander away sometimes. Then often the messenger breaks and you need to resend stuff, if it goes quiet. I tend to respond pretty rapidly if somebody's talking and conversation is moving along. You give me long breaks in the conversation, yeah I might have wandered onto another web page or got up and did laundry. If we're in the middle of talking and I don't respond it might not have happened or simply didn't come through. I just assumed you shut up which doesn't help you. Many of you people fail to have a purpose before you start chatting, other than in hopes to get me in bed in the next 10 minutes. Which cause many stupid comments to be said to me? I still think too many of the responses and messages to me don't need an answer at all. I realize so many of you want to play tag. I give a message you give a message, back and forth. That is just fucking stupid. So I often send a for half the dumb fucking comments I receive, and definitely the pictures people send me. What else is there to give? I know it Sounds like I'm rude or what not. I do get a little blunt but I'm just honest and straightforward there's no reason to bullshit or lie. Those things won't get anybody anything. So many of you boys thought scurry away at the littlest push or resistance. Guys go silent because I made a blunt comment or don't cuddle them. Man up fellows comes back with something friendly and witty give me banter. Be charming be something other than stupid. I nearly have word for word the same conversations a dozen times each day. It hurts my mood along with your chances. I'm not looking for a husband or a wife (oh I might accept a wife if I can keep my husband too) I'm looking for a lover because I already have a husband. someone new, I enjoy talking with, we have some things in common we get together , we have sex good, sex often, weekly threesomes, one-on-one. You know just stuff, having fun, getting pleasure. I'm kinky, my husband's kinky, and the best way to get into the door with us and in with our kinky lives, is through the instant messenger. yeah it sucks and it's broke a lot but I won't use Kick I don't need to I have this site that's what it's for. Stop asking if I'll go somewhere else I don't want to go somewhere else to talk to you. If you make me feel happy, you make me interested; I'll give you a phone until then let's just chat and have some fun. Who knows what it might get you, very possible it could get you just what you want.

I thank you for reading and till next time, as always I enjoy reading all your comments so please do so.
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I am pleased
Posted:Feb 4, 2019 2:42 pm
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2019 4:25 am
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I came to the site looking for a girlfriend, since I felt a touch lonely after my last girlfriend and I had separating interests and desires. I have found a wonderfully sweet woman, she is nothing like I was expecting to find. I was wonderfully surprise when she was so pleasant to talk and chat with and we had our chance at our first meeting. I enjoy our times together; I like the anticipation of when we're going to meet again. As always distance for us is a challenge, the travel and our own lives restricts our time together. even so every chance we get to hang out together, though seldom and not as much as we might both desire, it has been enjoyable and hope to have the chance to continue. And while I can wish that we lived closer to each other I'm still very happy and grateful that we found each other and I can't wait till the next time I get to see her.
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thanks for the votes
Posted:Feb 3, 2019 4:55 am
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2019 9:19 am
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I think all of you who voted in these last few days on the outfit for my Saturday evening. We found it very erotic taking pictures knowing others would be anticipating what we would post. Since everyone was so well behaved and we had such a response to our request. We decided to include a small added bonus. I put on a couple extra outfits last evening as well. We had such a good time i hope in the next couple days, I'll be posting another list and hope for another vote i still have several sexy outfits more than a dozen i have yet to ever wear.

i think i'll be adding more private pictures to my profile restricted for my friends only. thank you again I hope you have a pleasant day






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The meet-and-greet
Posted:Feb 2, 2019 3:14 pm
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2019 9:22 am
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I've had some fun meet and greets. They are kind of a flip of a coin. You just never know what you're going to get. You always hope for the best because after all it takes some serious arranging to make a meet and greet happen in the first place. So you don't want to failure, sometimes they flop big. I have probably had since I really started being here in September over a dozen scheduled and between 8 - 9, meet, and greets that actually happened. I've had my share of good and bad ones but nothing that has really panned out yet. I had a pleasant one last week and I hope to meet again. But only time will tell how it will end I do have time to find what I want.

One of the worst guy's I met with became a stalker. I and he had maybe 10 minutes to chat and a small hug then a phone call and I had to rush away. I mean stalker literally when I told him no thank you in few days later got shity started sending threatening emails and texts. tracked down my home address found my last name stalker, kept saying how he would see me again soon. This has caused a lot of problems for me and resulted in a change of my tactic on what it takes to get to a meet and greet with me.

Then a third of those that I get a meet and greet with me haven't heard from since that day. Not a text, not a phone call, not a message on here, nothing. Which is why it's a meet-and-greet and I'm grateful I didn't fuck them. Man I'd be shity since I'm looking for ongoing. Then I've had some that we've met more than once. Getting Together played around, really get more each meeting because they weren't really what I wanted but they enticed me and had the right moves to get my body going. And then go silent.

Then there's my oddest and probably most disappointing meet and greet the one that was going well. With hot touching his assertiveness got me in the mood said the right things touched me just right. Had me wanting more and then with words being said and conversation happening come to realize it's one of my husband's cousin. Lol it easy to laugh at now but then it was just like someone hit the brakes. It just ended everything he was put way the fuck off. I was put off, along with being disappointed and sad. I wanted him, I wanted to bring him home, and I wanted to play. Oh well as I said I can laugh at it now. That was the event that started the concept that everyone pretty much needs to send me a face picture first if they live in my town. Just to ensure that neither me nor my husband know them or are somehow related to them.

But meet-and-greets have had many purposes, changing the way I do things. It does improve some of my tactics; it's made me be a little harsher to some of you. As I've become so disappointed with so many people who said so many lines my tolerance of (let us call it) boy stupidity. That now I lower my expectations of you and what you're really going to do for me. Making it more difficult to get to that meet and greet. I'm so tired of wasting my time meeting people who are well, just a waste of my time.

This blog might be making you guys wonder what makes a good meet and greet for me. That's hard to say it depends on the person, depends on what I want, on my mood, the things we've talked about, your personality helps. Hopefully we got most of that out before we meet, but not always. Sometimes being assertive is one, being attentive is another, making me feel good. I'm a selfish girl that's why I'm here I'm being greedy, I want more and I want someone to provide that for me. A good meet and greet proves that you can provide more for me and you're willing to provide more pleasure to my life. Someone proving they'll provide delight to my life, giving me the things I want, helping me get urges and desires, and then fulfilling those same urges and desires. There's more to it or other ways to go about it. I couldn't tell you exactly how or list all the things that work, with my changing mood. The person matters, the environment matters.

Have you had any luck on here? Are you a person who wants to do a meet-and-greet first? Do you just want to fuck and get it over with? Are you guilty yourself of going silent on somebody after you met them or had someone gone silent on you that you hoped would get together again? Let me know in the comments below I like reading what you people have to say it brings me entertainment.
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Is it to much?
Posted:Jan 30, 2019 12:07 pm
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2020 5:34 am
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I think I offer a pretty good deal. You know I've been asked more than once, dozens of times today what I'm looking for and what I seek. Basic answers of stuff like bisexual. Then the guys get all these other dumb questions. It gets old, I know this is not going to stop me forever or even a little from being asked. however to the people who read my blog maybe you'll pick up on what I want, maybe it's you, maybe it's not maybe I'll just find an entertaining read but either way I might as well say it here.
So what am I looking? For well to know what I'm looking for, it may be better to describe what I've already had. I've had a few lovers over the years. Some have been an upsetting time others have been pleasurable. Like the last lover, he lived 25-30 minutes away, so two or three times a week he would come by for dinners or afternoons sometimes weekends. We would hangout, talk, have good sex. It was a nice setup who was working really nice and then he just vanished. Oh he reached out in a text a month ago after being silent for more than 2. So I told him no thanks. (It's unacceptable to ignore me for weeks after we have already been fucking.)

Then before that I was a guy if I was having sex with three to four times a week. Sometimes in the morning, sometimes in the afternoon sometimes alone sometimes in threesomes come over for dinner and hang out you know he was a friend. A friend I like the fuck and he just disappeared.

When I say I want long term I mean it. I don't want 50 partners off of here. I want to find a male who can meet my requirement to get together and fuck often. I don't think it's that much to ask. It's pretty sweet deal in my eyes for the guy. When you Figure that guy gets mfm threesomes, some one-on-one with clean, safe, respectable people who can host. All the guy has to do is keep in contact and find ways to get together in a world where busy is just a way of life. Just wanting to hang out have some food chit-chat and fucking as often as possible.

-a few side notes-
I tend to exclude married men as contenders for this because many of the wife's will hinder and shorten a man's availability.
i like bisexuals because i married a bisexual ,im a bisexual and i want to have hot everything goes threesomes. (and more)

I guess that’s all I going to write about this. I do always look forward to read comments and receiving messages from people.
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pick an out fit
Posted:Jan 30, 2019 11:29 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2019 1:21 pm
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Pick an out fit for me to wear for my husband on Saturday the one with the most votes i'll put on. then maybe post a new picture or two of me a wearing it.
choice one
choice 2
choice 3
choice 4
choice 5
choice 6
choice 7
choice 8
or maybe something totally new
4 Comments , 90 votes
which slot do you fit in
Posted:Jan 25, 2019 10:10 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2019 4:52 am
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it has been stated and still people miss the point of what i hope when i seek bisexual men. So i figured i would see who chooses what as a comfort level.

so below i have a few choices of personal sexual comfort. would you pick the one that fits you best? these questions are based on you joining me and my husband for threesomes. just curious about seeing the results.

i was hoping that after people voted i could see which users choose which so i could chat with the ones who are what i want.
i only want to be with women alone.
i am only a top
i'm only a bottom, will never top
i am versatile i like it all
i i am versatile but prefer to top
i i am versatile but prefer to bottom
i might let a man suck me but nothing else
i really just want to suck cock thats it
i have never done any of it but i'm will to disappoint you by saying yes.
we can have a threesome but i don't want a man near me
2 Comments , 105 votes
The Stupidity of button affections
Posted:Jan 5, 2019 3:36 am
Last Updated:Jan 8, 2019 3:04 pm
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I think flirts and friends requests are stupid. I don't care that you flirted with me, I don't care that you had a friend's request. It's not going to get me to message you. You are interested in me? Then man up a send a message. Talk or otherwise it's stupid. As for the friend request, that becomes even dumber when you consider I've added a hundred people to my list. This results in probably only talking to like three or four people who actually contacts on some days. What's the point of putting you on my friends list if all you are going to do is go silent? Is that what you think it's for? To shut up and not talk anymore, fucking foolish idiots! Then you have those fucking flirts. I must get a dozen flirts a day then hundred a week with a third of them are from the same people over and over. Like I fucking care. Did I Care the first time? Well I'm not going to Care on the 20th time. If you want me to care fucking chat with me send me an email try to start a fucking conversation. Stop being stupid. The only way to get where you are hoping to get with me it's the talk. I add you to my friends list you should probably chat with me it means you might have a possibility. Otherwise you just wasted both are fucking time. I don't add people to my friends list all that often. I receive dozens a day. Most the time I just go through and delete everybody because you're a waste of time and I've never talked to you or I've talked to you once. Just fucking learn and quit being stupid. After all, I do want friends with benefits. But know I mean friends, people who want to talk to me, people who want to chat, people who contact me that gets my motor running. That is what will get you somewhere. Your silence gets you nowhere. Your futile requests and attempts are pathetic offerings of attention that are not really attention so it gets you nowhere. Learn, do better I can't be the only woman on the site that's annoyed by all you fucks.
And last read profiles try to know if you might be in the area of what I desire.
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Too Many Damn Cocks
Posted:Jan 3, 2019 9:08 pm
Last Updated:Feb 8, 2020 5:13 pm
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Is anyone else here tired of all the Cocks? There are so many cock pictures it hurts my eyes. It's hard to have a conversation with somebody in the instant when every time your eyes go up it's a fucking cock. Then you go back to the main page, it's a bunch of cocks. You go search for new members, it's a bunch of cocks. You go search for people close, yet again it's a bunch of cocks. All you guys are is Cock, Cock Cock Cock .your cocks are not pretty, and they're not things of beauty. Some of you are very proud of your pathetic little penises, some of you are proud of your fucking weird looking penises; some of you give me good chuckles. I look at your picture and I laugh not do the size or anything is petty. It's all due to the esteem you have in regard to you stupid cock. It's a fucking cock they're everywhere yours is not special taking pictures don't turn me on. I don't know if they turn on any of the women on here. I know you should have a picture of something to get me to talk to you. However it would be better if it wasn't a cock. I get it you don't want to show your face, I understand. There's so many things to take pictures of that's not your penis. you take pictures of your penis leaking cum. Or your fucking cock straight on, your cock next to this or that, your cock flopped out of your pants, then worst of all your cock while you're on the toilet that is the biggest turn off of all. your cock while sitting on a toilet that does not make women wet that does not turn us on but what do I know just me maybe it turns on a few of these other women, maybe they give a shit. I don't give a shit, it's just a fucking penis and I'd rather see your penis when we meet and I hold it in my hand, whatever keep with all your damn cock pictures but don't ask me if it turns me on or if I looked at your profile because of your cock because that shit didn't happen. Nothing to due you your gross cock picture made me go mummm I should chat with this fuck stick. I hate I to point out , but nothing will happen do to your disgusting cock picture, you're stupid penis. You're all just a bunch of penises and then you expect us to remember you when we've talked in the other 50 fucking penises, penises, penises, it's fucking stupid. Your cock isn't great tit's not magical we don't you stupid picture of a cock.
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Oh So Stupid
Posted:Dec 30, 2018 5:03 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2019 4:54 am
3665 Views
I don't know why this is so difficult. I don't know what's wrong with you people. I come either in the mood to chat with you or a little horny even at times we're hoping to get horny. Then you fucking people just ruin it, in moments with your words and your stupidity. Then occasionally I hit it off somebody who seems like they might be exactly what I want and they just fucking disappeared. I just don't understand, I'm here hoping to find a serious person who wants to have an ongoing sexual no-strings-attached relationship you dumb fucks can't even behave or act reasonable enough to fuck or keep me interested in fucking. Insanity, total fucking insanity. This place pisses me off more than brings me joy; boys with your cocky ass attitudes of everyone should want your cock. Then with you're stupid fucking attempts at turning me on. Very fucking rarely will telling me how you want to fuck or lick or poke or prod or make me squirt fucking turn me on? Most the Time it's just fucking stupid dribble and annoys me. When are you dumb motherfuckers going to get it right? How long do I have to wait for somebody to peak my interest and keep in touch. If you can't keep in touch on a dating site that you're logging into daily, then how the hell do I expect you to keep in touch so we can get together? Just common sense, at least it is to me. The saddest thing is some of the most decent people know how to talk, who know how to contact daily and be tolerable and enjoyable is not my type. In other times I really want to be turned on, like when I sit with my husband and I'm in the mood to fool around and want to flirt with some boys online none of you can do anything but piss me off and you killed the mood. At times you boys just suck the happiness right out of me. It's too much.
2 Comments
You Travel Boys
Posted:Dec 29, 2018 8:27 am
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2018 11:31 am
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You goddamn traveling boys, I don't fucking care that you're passing through town. Not going to fuck you I have no interest in one day fucks, I have no interest in somebody who's never contacted me except for "I'll be in your town today let's meet" .how about fuck off. How about talk to me for a week before you come to town? Then you might have my interest. The thing you boys don't realize or maybe just fucking ignores. As a woman on this site looking for both women and men it's dangerous. Some people are dangerous and intend harm so people have to be cautious. So I like to get to know people before I just meet them randomly at a hotel. So yeah I'm not going to meet you just because you're in town. We've never talked I don't know anything about you. I don't care that you're working near me for the next week and you'd like to get together and fuck. Not my problem. I'm not here to just get fucked I can get off quicker alone than with any of you. I want to meet and join people who grab my attention.
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