Physical Relationship
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Posted:Sep 27, 2014 9:38 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 4:43 pm
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So I'm wondering if it's possible to have just an ongoing physical relationship or if feelings always have to enter the equation. I feel I'm pretty good at compartmentalizing sex and can equate it to just having a good time such as out at the bar with friends, or doing some physical activity together such as a sport or hiking or such. But it seems those I meet and try this with aren't built the same or just don't have the same outlook to sex that I am capable of and it doesn't work out. Now I can definitely have the intimate side of sex and that type of relationship but there are times where NSA is a good thing and allows that sexual outlet without all the feelings getting in the way. Sex can definitely be better when feelings are involved but can also be messier (and not in a good way).
So I'm left to wonder if you are attracted to someone physically and sexually if one of the two in the relationship will want/need to develop feelings or will develop feelings causing things to not work out.
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Hotel Sex and Neighbors
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Posted:Sep 17, 2014 6:08 pm
Last Updated:Sep 19, 2014 8:34 am
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I live out of a hotel much of the year and have had my share of "fucking neighbors" in the next room. Do people care about that at all when you are in your room watching TV or something and the couple, or more I guess, are going at it? I often wonder how loud I am when I have someone into my room and we fuck till all hours of the night. I try to be considerate but sometimes you just gotta be a little loud.....
Just something I am thinking about while sitting in my hotel room watching TV and what do i hear next door.....
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Women who love watching football
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Posted:Aug 7, 2014 10:23 pm
Last Updated:Aug 8, 2014 6:23 am
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So football season is finally back upon us with the NFL preseason kicking off. Now I've always been turned on by a woman who likes to watch football and not just because her man is watching it but because she genuinely loves it. Walking around in her jersey of her favorite team ready to watch the game. Women who tolerate the game because their men do are saints don't get me wrong but there is something sexy about a woman who likes any sport really enough to be a little rabid about it. So are you ready for some Football????
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Patriotic Fucking
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Posted:Jul 8, 2014 5:17 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 4:43 pm
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So I'm watching fireworks on Friday and I'm wondering how many people have been out to fireworks and got to fucking while the show was going on. Now these are not the "fireworks" everyone sees while fucking but real honest fireworks show....pitch black except for the lighting from the show. I think that would be pretty sweet.
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New City Means New Challenges
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Posted:Jun 8, 2014 6:53 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 4:43 pm
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So I work in other cities and I'm usually there long term (6 months or longer). My jobs of late have been almost 2 years. I like to find a FWB in the area with whom I can spend some time and help make the boring nights alone turn into long fun nights together. But it's always a challenge at first to crack through the contact barrier with women in a new city. I'm respectful in my email as I am in real life but the women on this site get inundated with so many emails it's hard to get them to take you seriously. Especially because I travel and may not have the weekend availability for those that are a little more busy than others. While that cuts down my target audience, I wonder what women like to see in an email from a "stranger". I typically write more than a few sentences but not a novel, explain a little about me and what I'm looking for in a friend. Usually it takes a few months to even get someone to respond then I get comments like "I should have replied to you sooner" because they enjoy their time with me. So that's what I am wondering for this month. How to crack that email/contact barrier faster so I can find that fun someone with which to spend some quality time.
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Some Food for Thought
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Posted:May 11, 2014 8:37 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 4:43 pm
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So i was struggling with what to post about this month as nothing really topical came to me so I figured I would post a few observations, questions, comments and see if they invoke anything...
Local Adult Companion Questions: So I read the Local Adult Companion questions that people answer on their profile and I appreciate those that fill them out. However I always wondered about some answers in particular. For Example one of the answers to Anal Sex is "I enjoy anal sex but not often" So does that mean you don't get to have it enough or you only enjoy it once in a while? If I enjoy something, I want to do it a lot. It seems like it should be "I tolerate anal but not often". Others are those who contradict their answers from one question to another. Anyway, these just make me laugh when I read them....
Traveling: So i travel on planes a lot and I can't understand why people cannot walk a straight line in the airport. I had a woman nearly run me into a wall because she can't walk straight and then looks at me like I was the one who didn't have manners. Or how about people stopping to look at stuff in the middle of a moving walking traffic? They just stop and assume they are the only one in the world.
Oh well that's all for now...maybe I'll have something better next month!
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April Fools
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Posted:Apr 1, 2014 3:29 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 4:43 pm
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So I'm not sure how many people are into the April Fools jokes and all but I view it as a day where I trust no one. It basically is a day to lie to people about stuff and then say April Fools if they are dumb enough to believe you. I like funny pranks but not the "Your car has a dent" or "We're pregnant" followed by April Fools! So I wonder if everyone else just feels like you can't believe anyone on this day and wait until the following day to start believing anyone with anything.
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A Question About People
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Posted:Mar 11, 2014 4:42 am
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2014 7:42 pm
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So I've learned over the years that profiles are hit and miss on describing the person. Of my sample size a lot of the ones that say they don't want drama are pretty full of drama themselves, many are very bold and out there only to be reserved when you actually talk to them. Do people use this online personality as their sexual catharsis, never intending to meet but merely to live out a risque life online? There are profiles out there with 1 line and it's pre-generated and still others with almost a novella of information typed out in fancy colors. Now obviously a somewhat filled out profile is a requirement of most people but I wonder if the longer ones generate much more traffic than say one with 50 pictures of the profilee! Anyways....just something I was thinking about this morning while I couldn't sleep.....
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How Far Would You Travel For....
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Posted:Jan 29, 2014 6:35 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2014 9:05 pm
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So I travel for work, usually long term and like to find a friend in the area to do things with from time to time. I have a friend that lives up in NYC and I'm in Wilmington so we would meet half way for some fun. It's about a 1.5 hour drive plus the cost of a hotel when I'm already paying for one. Now this friend is great sex and well worth the trip. So it got me to thinking how far are people willing to go for great sex, for good sex or for just sex?
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Does Spellling Affect Your View Of A Profile?
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Posted:Jan 1, 2014 10:07 pm
Last Updated:Jan 6, 2014 6:47 pm
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So I'm wondering if spelling errors or grammar usage errors affect someone's view of that person. Pictures aside if someone was physically attractive to you (assuming their photos were real  ) would spelling errors in their profile skew your view of them?
Another does "text" language in a profile turn you off? on? does nothing to/for you? I find them both a little annoying more so in a profile than anything. I understand there are some spelling errors but it's more the grammatical errors that stand out to me.
Anyways just saw more than a few of them lately and wondered what other people thought....
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What Do Others Think
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Posted:Dec 6, 2013 10:53 pm
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2013 5:49 am
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So I've been wondering what other people think about the testimonies on a persons profile page. So I'm going through and I see a few women who have guys posting on their page about how wonderful the woman is, how great she is at sex and a whole range of other things. Now of the people I've met off here I asked a couple if they would write a testimony for me as we are still friends and I'm not in that area anymore and they said no. When i asked why, they said you are too good, someone else may snatch you up (pun not intended) and you may not make it back my way to see me again. Made sense to me but I wonder about women who have those posted on their profiles and how many of them are true and what women think of them posted on a guy's profile. Do they think less of the guy? Do they believe them? Anyway..just something I thought about while perusing profiles.....
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Baby you look good!
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Posted:Nov 4, 2013 4:25 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 4:43 pm
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So I've been perving profiles and women will post a picture and it seems that no matter what that picture is of there is a comment on it of some guy saying something about how he'd like to do something to/with whatever is pictured. They post a picture of a nipple close up that could be pretty much any nipple on any woman and some guy is like, "That's the hottest nipple I've ever seen". I don't know if it's a guy trying to get brownie points or what but I just find it humorous that I'm pretty sure some woman could post a picture of the back pocket of her jeans and some guy would want to "climb in there!" Anyway...just something I've noticed looking around....
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Keeping your stuff current
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Posted:Oct 3, 2013 10:38 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2024 4:43 pm
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So I'm trolling around looking at profiles and I'm coming across more and more where it says something to the fact of "have a current picture" then it goes on to say something to the effect of "it's 2012, everyone has a camera, it's not that hard to have a picture." and they are currently on line. I think if you are going to have a picture, make it recent. It's definitely nice to know you looked good back in the 90's but no one wants to go into a meeting thinking they are getting X and they get Y. Don't be afraid to get rebuffed. We guys have it happen a lot where you just aren't her type. Guys are sometimes a little less picky on the type but still, keep it current!
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