Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now
Succumbing to Curiousity
I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
Keywords | Title View | Refer to a Friend |
It's Begun and I am NOT Happy
Posted:Oct 4, 2014 7:13 am
Last Updated:Nov 16, 2014 10:09 am

9 am
Oct 4
Mostly Cloudy
Frozen Mix
WInds 15-30 mph

Question for Blog Readers and Writers
Posted:Sep 29, 2014 6:34 pm
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2018 9:35 pm
While in my local chatroom the topic of reading blogs came up. It came to my attention that many who have been on the site for years, chat here, and partake in other site activities, never read blogs and would never think of writing one.

Do you remember what brought you to the blog pages?

I can't recall exactly, i suppose I came upon them while exploring every aspect of Local Adult Companion, except what you have to pay extra for (above and beyond the membership fee like the professional cam women).

I have made a few friends (people I actually get together with) through blogging, but most of my acquaintances are from emails and chatrooms.
Have I had all the good ones around here?
Posted:Sep 16, 2014 8:33 pm
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2015 11:03 am
I've been divorced more than 11 years and until recently been pretty lucky finding men I enjoy being with, both socially and sexually. I am always willing to meet someone I encounter online, if after reading their profile or chatting there seems to be a possibility of becoming friends. I still haven't stopped taking a chance and meeting for a meal or drink....yet.

I currently have been seeing someone for over a year...very casual FWB situation which works well for both of us. Nothing monogamous, we both have no problem if we see people we've known in the past, or try making new friends.

For the last few months I have been making an extra effort to go out with other men from A F F and other dating sites, hoping to find someone that might possibly add some excitement to my life. The trouble I have encountered is I can't seem to find anyone that really turns me on. For many years, I was able to find many men who I'd made a great connection with chatting. We'd spend hours exchanging amusing and insightful IMs, leading to a strong desire to meet, anticipating that there would be a physical attraction. And there was.

Some of those men I still communicate with and occasionally see, but the excitement isn't the same. Then there are other men, who for reasons I can't even remember, have lost contact with. Sometimes timing was bad...we both had other things going on in our lives that stopped us from continuing to see each other. Occasionally I wonder if I should contact a couple of them to see if the spark would still be there. Not just a sexual spark, really liked and enjoyed each other in many other ways too. Somewhere in my IM and email archives they still exist.

At the moment, I'm feeling very discouraged. In the last few weeks I've gone out with 4 men who I thought had potential...none of which I care to see again. We met and carried on decent conversations (I can talk to anyone), but I felt zero physical attraction or affection for and found them somewhat boring.

Why I'm writing this, I'm not sure. I'm not asking for men to hit on me and say they'll try to get me out of this slump...finding someone for sex isn't the issue. It's finding someone that if I have sex with once...I will want to have sex with again and also look forward to just hanging out with.

In the meantime, some would think I shouldn't complain, because I do have a very good friend, I see on a regular basis, who is very good to me and we truly are friends and lovers...well not love exactly....Wish I could be content with what I have.
Men - does it matter to you?
Posted:Sep 12, 2014 3:59 pm
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2015 8:47 pm
Recently a fellow blogger, intendadiversion, who I read regularly, wrote about poorly written online communication [post 3482242]. I've seen this topic brought up before and usually it is about how men write. Made me wonder what about women. From my experience, most men want more than sex. They also want a woman they know they can have some type of, at least semi-intelligent, conversation with...either before or after sex. So I am curious, what do men think about women's profiles, emails, texts, etc., that have typos, misspelled words or just poor grammar. Even if she's got great tits and a phenomenal ass, are you reluctant to get involved with her?

When all else fails
Posted:Sep 4, 2014 9:33 pm
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2014 6:27 pm
Suppose they'll suffice when there's nothing to say

It's been way too long
Posted:Sep 4, 2014 5:48 pm
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2014 10:12 pm
Since I've blogged....

Loud In Bed
Posted:Aug 22, 2014 5:33 pm
Last Updated:Sep 8, 2014 7:41 pm
Not sounds of ecstasy, but snoring. The man I see on a regular basis and I both snore. It's okay if we fall asleep at the same time (usually, pass out after sex), but if either of us wake in the middle of the night...which at our age, we often do, falling back to sleep when the person next to you is snoring can be very difficult. There are times one of us actually goes into another room to sleep.

I'm sure we are not alone with this dilemma. I wonder how others deal with this issue.

Sometimes I wonder if carrying protection should include earplugs along with condoms.
Sexy Bitch - An Oxymoron?
Posted:Aug 5, 2014 3:58 pm
Last Updated:Jan 1, 2015 7:53 am
Is bitchy sexy? All too often I see women proclaiming that they are bitches. It seems to get men's attention. Do men find an "attitude" appealing? I always prided myself on being friendly and tolerant with very few, if any, bitchy tendancies. Maybe I've been going about it all wrong. Would negativity and intolerance make me more desirable?

Circumcised or Not?
Posted:Jun 25, 2014 7:28 pm
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2018 8:02 pm

Recently read a blog about a party group who bans uncircumcised penises. The reasons being people don't like what they look like (specifically women) and they tend to not be as clean as circumcised penises. Mentioning the presence of smegma (nasty sounding word, isn't it?)

As someone who is an equal opportunity player, I took offense to that. Many of us aren't as concerned about the penis as the man who it's attached to. And as far cleanliness, that too is up to the person who possesses the appendage. Furthermore, whether a man is circumcised or not wasn't his choice...it was most likely his parent's.

I also wonder if the women who say they won't hook up with men because they don't like the appearance of an uncircumcised penis would feel if men made similar comments about the appearance of their genitalia. How would a woman feel if someone would assume if her labia or clitoral hood was larger than what some may concern the norm, may not be clean due to secretions and discharge that could be hiding there.

An argument made was that another example circumcised penises are more desirable is that is what is displayed in most porn. But if you look to porn as an example, most female genitalia is pink and pubescent looking.

Of course everyone is entitled to preferences, but unless we want to be judged by the appearance of body parts we have no control over, we should think twice before doing the same about someone else.
I am circumcised
I am not circumcised
I care if my partner is circumcised.
It doesn't matter if my partner is circumcised.
29 Comments , 485 votes
Guess They Didn't Want My Opinion
Posted:Jun 23, 2014 4:46 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2014 7:45 pm

When perusing the "recent" blogs I added comments to someone's blog post...one that was asking for opinions. I questioned their opinion, I didn't write anything rude or disrespectfully. I even wrote that everyone is entitled to do things the way they want.

My original post was then followed by a comment from the blogger questioning my experience with the situation. So, I followed up, saying I was experienced and explained again why I felt the way I did.

Since I can't remember every blog I comment on, I rely on the most recent comments I've made feature here on Local Adult Companion. Well, apparently my comments have been deleted, because I can't find that particular one anywhere.

As I said, I don't think I wrote anything that could have been taken offensively. I just answered the question posed, and elaborated on my answer a bit. We all have the option to delete comments made on our blogs, but why ask them, if we don't want to see any answers that aren't in agreement with our own opinion?

BTW the topic was circumcision. Someday soon, I might write my own blog about it, citing opinions I read on another blog.
Gone, But Never Gone
Posted:Jun 20, 2014 9:25 pm
Last Updated:May 21, 2015 5:37 pm

I just recently heard about someone who was an acquaintance from Local Adult Companion who passed away. And yet, his profile keeps showing up on my home screen as someone near me. This is not the first person I know who died that I knew from the site. Sadly, since most people are here without the knowledge of their families, unlike other dating or social media sites they may be on, no one knows to delete their account.

As someone in the know, should I notify the powers that be at Local Adult Companion......what do you think?
1 comment
Blog Maintenance
Posted:Jun 8, 2014 6:40 am
Last Updated:Jun 16, 2014 5:39 pm

Indexing blog posts...finally got around to adding the last 6 months. Still haven't figured out a good way to organize them. I don't particularly like having to scroll down a long post or multiple entries to get to the most current, yet a list at the beginning of a blog makes it so much easier to see what a blogger has written in the past. Some sort by type/theme...I've considered that; however, not quite sure how I'd categorize them.

Any suggestions?
It's International Masturbation Month
Posted:May 23, 2014 4:46 pm
Last Updated:May 1, 2021 2:07 pm
Have You Done Your Part?

To link to this blog (tresennui) use [blog tresennui] in your messages.

  tresennui 67F
67 F
January 2022
Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat

Recent Visitors

Visitor Age Sex Date
Jackandjill6966  56/56C9/16
VBPaul  65M8/16
lookingforfu0428  54M7/31
ultrdwarrior  70M6/26
SoGood2Know  69M5/28
reallydon  70M3/13
agelesssexylegs  79F3/6