Morning thought
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Posted:Jan 25, 2014 7:33 am
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2014 11:23 pm
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Wouldn't it be nice to NOT wake up to the sound of a snow plow, snow blower and someone shoveling?
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Porn-Induced Sexual Disfunction
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Posted:Jan 20, 2014 5:02 pm
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2016 5:18 pm
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I have encountered men, often AFFers, who admit to watching quite a bit of porn that seem to show one or more of these signs to some degree. Anyone else? Men do you find anything of these things happening to you? Women do the men you've been with seem to be developing any of these problems?
Signs a Man May Be Suffering from Porn-Induced Sexual Disfunction
A man is able to achieve erections and orgasms with pornography, but he struggles with one or both when he’s with an in-person partner.
A man is able to have sex and achieve orgasm with partners, but reaching orgasm takes a long time.
A man is able to maintain an erection with real-world partners, but he can only achieve orgasm by replaying porn clips in his mind.
A man increasingly prefers porn to real-world sex, finding it more intense and more engaging.
A man keeps porn-related secrets from his real-life partners (time spent looking at porn, types of porn viewed, etc.)
A man’s real-life partners complain that they feel like "the other woman."
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Flaunting It
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Posted:Jan 18, 2014 3:43 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2016 12:46 pm
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Lately, in the chatroom I frequent, there are some couples who seem to flaunt their relationships. One half of some of these couples are married. I am not one to judge someone who cheats, but I certainly wouldn't flaunt it. I was always of the opinion that those type of relationships should be even more discreet than others.
It may seem so by my last few blogs, but flings with married men are not something I think about all the time. I really don't. The subject just seems to come up in various circumstances lately. For me, these relationships have been few, and I certainly don't let it be known who they are. Even if we were both regulars in our local chatroom, we have never bragged about or talked publicly about out times together. (I don't even talk publicly about who I have hooked up with regardless of their marital status).
Even though many others in the chatroom say they would never go out with someone married they are completely accepting of these couples and encourage their behavior. There are comments about what great couples they are, finding their talk of their latest liaisons sweet and amusing. I suspect many are envious too, since they are often feeling very lonely, horny and unloved.
I feel it's one thing to banter about your sex life in a off-hand kind of way and discuss the merits of oral sex vs penetration and opinions on pubic hair. It's another to make your private encounters public.
For those of you who frequent the chatrooms does it annoy you too? Do you, would you do it? You also have to take into consideration that if the relationship doesn't work out, it makes for awkward situations and unnecessary drama for others.
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Site Frustration - Technical...not Social
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Posted:Jan 16, 2014 9:28 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2015 7:57 pm
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I've been using an ipad here for quite a while. I always use the desktop version. Yesterday all of the sudden I have a banner on the top of most pages telling me to go to the mobile site. I can't open my email in desktop or type anything in a chatroom without being redirected to the Live Action page. I don't like the mobile site and there's not much you can do there.
The only thing I can still do in the desktop version is blog. So here I am.
Anyone else having problems?
BTW I'm old...but this is NOT a selfie.
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Compulsion
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Posted:Jan 13, 2014 8:51 pm
Last Updated:Jan 7, 2015 7:57 pm
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I find myself commenting on a lot of other people's blogs when I have
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You Ate What????
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Posted:Jan 2, 2014 7:40 pm
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2016 8:35 pm
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I've always been pretty adventuresome when it comes to trying new foods, but tonight was a first for me. If you are into dining out or are a food network fan, you are most likely aware of the trend, to instead of ordering large entrees, dinner companions share a variety of small plates. Farm to table restaurants are serving locally grown plants and animals in interesting and tasty ways, wasting as little as possible. Which brings me to some of what I ate...in addition to the fairly common foie gras and bone marrow, one plate also had duck's heart and pig's brains...and omg were they deliciously prepared!
So what do you think? What have you eaten that you thought you never would? Was it a delectable experience?
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Was It Good For You?
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Posted:Dec 30, 2013 7:44 pm
Last Updated:Jan 14, 2015 8:47 pm
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Another year comes to an end....another one is about to begin.....Thoughts??
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I've got a bad case of - updated
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Posted:Dec 21, 2013 12:17 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2014 9:52 am
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12/23/12. Extreme cold, but sunny... Feeling better already 
S A D - Seasonal Affective Disorder
It's going to be a long winter !!!
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Is this post for you?
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Posted:Dec 11, 2013 5:13 pm
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2015 3:49 pm
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Do you frequent chat rooms and write blogs complaining about how this site sucks, that no one is honest, or real? Does your profile contain negatives... more of what you don't want than what you are looking?
Would you want to meet someone who whines?
Something to think about.
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Is Cheating Ever Acceptable?
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Posted:Dec 6, 2013 7:58 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 10:38 pm
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Did it again!! Even though I tell myself I don't feel right about relationships with married men I seem to befriend them. And befriending pretty much always involves sex. As I wrote in an early blog, it seems the men on A F F in my area and close to my age are mostly married ones. I seem to end up chatting with them. We get to know each other, and realize we have a lot in common and relate well to each other...next thing you know we meet for lunch or dinner, sometimes once or twice...then because we like each other, become friends, and we both like sex...well then..the inevitable.
Yes, I am a party to adultery. As an accomplice to a cheater I do feel in someway I'm breaking some sort of girl code...don't covet someone else's man...and would hate for his family to be hurt by his, and my actions. Though isn't he the one making that choice, taking that risk, not me, the other woman?
In most circles cheating is considered very wrong, but sites like A F F cater to people in committed relationships looking for something they are not getting at home. In chatrooms we treat the married people as we do single. We enjoy blogs written by those who hide this aspect of their life from their spouse. Very seldom do the cheaters get judged here. Does this mean we condone cheating? Yet, who among us would accept being cheated on?
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Let's Talk About
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Posted:Dec 4, 2013 4:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2015 6:13 am
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I recently read a blog by [blog intendadiversion] about after sex communication. Funny how people can expose their bodies and have what many consider the most intimate moments with someone, yet when it comes to talking to each other afterwards they are reluctant to say what's on their minds. A women feels comfortable enough to get naked, have a man go down on her, enter her body, and then won't text or call to ask if he is interested in getting together again if she doesn't hear from him in the number of days she deems appropriate. Same goes for a man.
Somethings to ponder regarding this situation:
What did you two talk about when you were together before, during and especially after sex?
Did you discuss feelings for each other? The desire to see each other again?
Talk about things you'd like to do together in the future?
Did either of you give any indication that you wanted this encounter to be the beginning of something significant?
Did you part as just friends that happened to have sex?
I know with FWBs I will hook up one day and not talk for weeks or even months.
Even if its a first encounter, the tone has been set that the relationship is casual; therefore, no expectations or obligations.
There have been times I haven't heard from someone after we had an enjoyable time and found myself getting slighted pissed off...debating do I want to pursue or not, but them when I really think about it, I have to admit to myself I didn't like them that much and know that I wouldn't be upset if I never saw them again. I think it's often more an ego thing, being "rejected" then really caring about continuing a relationship.
Not contacting afterwards if you are not interested is not the nicest thing to do, but sometimes I even find myself doing it. I feel bad telling someone I'm not interested and silence does make an easy statement. I don't always want to answer why...when it's often just a personality thing or that I just wasn't feeling it, even if we did have good sex.
Man or woman, if you want someone you often have to take the initiative...even if you've already had each other.
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From Behind
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Posted:Nov 30, 2013 1:34 pm
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2016 4:01 pm
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On hands and knees, bent over the edge of the bed, a counter,
a chair...slide it in......thrust....
Feels good, doesn't it?
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To link to this blog (tresennui) use [blog tresennui] in your messages.
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