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My opinion may piss some people off....but
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Posted:Sep 7, 2013 1:58 pm
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2016 9:30 pm
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"Sign up or sign in here at Local Adult Companion to find worldwide sex dates, adult matches, hookups and fuck friends at our popular online sex site. Local Adult Companion.com is the largest adult dating Website in the world. Launched in 1996, Local Adult Companion has helped millions of horny members meet through online chat, chatrooms, sex cams, member blogs, groups and email. Get started today and hook up for sex with friends through our powerful Local Adult Companion Website!?
I've been here for many years and recently I am seeing more and more people complaining about other's behavior on A F F. I don't understand how someone who joins a site that says the above statement (and many similar statements] can be offended when someone writes a sexually explicit blog comment, email or IM. The assumption would be you are here because you read that and are here because you are one of the 'millions of horny members' interested in hooking up, isn't it? This applies to both men and women. The naked pictures, cams, erotica written,and videos make this similar to porn sites where the expectation is to proposition women (and men), in a way that may not be acceptable in places that don't promote sexual exploitation. I am not saying we need to agree to fuck just anyone, but finding a sex partner is implied to be the apparent goal of site members, not just to find someone to date or find a relationship like on other 'dating' sites where sex is not specified in the description.
I also don't understand how standard members, who pay nothing to use the services A F F offers, complain about how the site operates. Where else would someone be given something for nothing, and then ask for it to be changed more to their liking? If not happy with the blogs, chat or IM, why stay here? There are so many different sites offering similar opportunities (though many don't provide the same for free). I've heard it said people are here because their friends are here. The way I see it if they are friends they would chat with you, read your blogs, etc. wherever you are. However, I'm sure the naked pictures, cams, and videos may provide a larger following than elsewhere.
Then there's the complaints that the powers that be on this site just want our money. Of course it does. It's a business. Compared to other sites there is very little annoying advertising. We are not bombarded by pop up ads, as on so many other sites, and I'm not just referring to social networking sites.
If I give the impression I am a capitalist in favor of big businesses dominating the economic scene, or someone that approves of being disrespectful to others, I am not, I am very far from that. I am just of the belief that if you aren't doing something because of necessity, if you aren't happy with it....stop doing it. Whining, complaining and negativity about trivial things ( in the scheme of life issues, this is trivial) benefits no one and just makes you unhappy and brings everyone else down with you.
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Better than the alternative
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Posted:Aug 28, 2013 9:27 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2013 5:41 am
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There are some that may already consider me an old woman...and there are times I certainly feel like one. Most the time I forget how old I am. I'll catch my reflection in a window or see a picture and say to myself...omg I look like my grandmother. Not that it's a bad thing...but in my mind I'm still under 40.
I always vowed I'd never be the kind of person who would become conservative in their values when they got older. I feel I've succeeded in staying true to the same attitudes and morals, etc. I've had since my teens, despite the fact that I've raised my ...who are all in their 30s and now also nurturing grandchildren. I don't think I've ever lost the desire to be somewhat rebellious...edgy...experimental. As I approach my 59th birthday I feel I am....
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Are you a weiner too?
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Posted:Jul 24, 2013 9:48 pm
Last Updated:Sep 4, 2016 8:12 pm
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I've broached this subject before Scandalous Behavior SEXTING . Now that we've again been made aware that Anthony Weiner continued to sext and have phone sex after the news first came out and he now is saying his days of deceit are over and swears he is a changed man, it brings some questions to mind.
Do your friends, colleagues or significant others know what you do online? If confronted would you deny? How easy would it be for you to give up the "habit" of actively seeking out porn and no longer participate in blogging, and sexually related online conversations?
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Were You Mislead?
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Posted:Jul 16, 2013 8:59 pm
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2015 9:31 pm
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Sure it's disappointing, but it happens. You email, chat, send pictures, talk on the phone. You flirt, talk about sex, maybe even cyber with each other. You feel like you've made a real connection. You arrange to meet anticipating, hoping, that maybe you'll have sex or at least an indication that if not tonight, it will be inevitable.
Then you meet................no physical chemistry. Your "date" just isn't feeling it. The urge, the desire isn't there. You feel dejected, like you've been mislead, bs'd to, led on. But while you're pissed off you need to also consider that your date who wasn't feeling the attraction is also disappointed. Most likely he/she was looking forward to meeting someone they'd want to have sex with and often was hoping a relationship of some sort would result.
So before you pass judgment on someone who didn't have sex with you...who gave you the impression they would. Keep in mind it wasn't necessarily done intentionally and not everyone who doesn't follow through with what you thought would happen is a misleading lady....or man.
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Gratuitous Tits Pic
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Posted:Jul 15, 2013 9:03 pm
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2019 8:01 pm
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]Sometiimes you just gotta get upclose and personal
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The Naked Truth
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Posted:Jul 10, 2013 10:41 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2015 6:10 am
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If you are a person who is very comfortable being naked, someone who's idea of a dream vacation is lounging naked on a beach, and you are involved
with someone who prefers to have something on, even when sleeping, or after having sex, quickly dons, lets say underwear and a t-shirt, do you feel this is a fundamental difference that makes the relationship doomed?
BTW this picture is not me....I don't have gray hair.
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Bloggers - Same Problem?
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Posted:Jul 6, 2013 7:41 am
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2016 3:57 pm
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Over the years I have covered pretty much everything about sex that I have encountered or just happens to be on my mind. I find myself getting repetitive. When I read other people's blogs they seem to be topics I've already covered. Instead of writing the same things I've already written I tend to comment with links to my blogs on the same subject.
Short of just posting provocative pictures....Fellow bloggers...any suggestions??? What's left after cock size, anal, oral, positions, fetishes, masturbation, tits...etc...etc.
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Pressure to Perform
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Posted:Jun 19, 2013 8:34 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2019 5:37 pm
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Lux Alptraum, CEO of Fleshbot, stated, "The pairing of oral skill with manliness makes cunnilingus less about the woman receiving it than about the man performing it" and "the woman's pleasure more about validating the man's skill than about the woman herself having a good time."
I read that quote not too long ago and I had to say I understand and agree with it to some extent. You read it in profiles, emails and find it with men I am with. They profess that it brings them great pleasure to pleasure women, even more important then being on the receiving end. They are determined to make women cum through oral before they would even consider penetrating her or even letting her give a blow job (nothing wrong with 69, is there?)
I feel there is way to much pressure on men to satisfy women. A phenomenon instigated by porn, women's lib or their own egos...to prove their masculinity by their ability to make sure the woman they are with has an orgasm...and omg...if he can make her squirt!!
Not that it's something I'm complaining about that much. Just bringing up the topic for discussion. I can't really object to a man wanting to make sure I have an orgasm. But, sometimes they tend to go down before they've stimulated the rest of the body in pursuit of the ultimate goal. If it's only clitoral stimulation and maybe a finger or two inserted in my pussy to bring me to orgasm (which does work) I can do that myself a lot easier, faster and without the need to carry on a conversation before or after.
Read more... Advice from an Older Woman
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Lasting Affection
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Posted:Jun 9, 2013 12:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2015 9:41 pm
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Do you have someone in your life that you have an affection for that no matter how seldom you communicate or see each other, that when you do, the feeling is so comfortable and loving? Your lives take you in different directions, but when you do get together, the passion is still there...the desire...the enjoyment....the friendship.
I do.
I mostly am happy about it, and accept and appreciate it for what it is...it's rare to be able to sustain something like that.....but, sometimes, I wish it was more.
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Nice to Make Friends
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Posted:May 17, 2013 8:32 pm
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2014 11:27 am
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There are nights, like to night, when in my local chatroom I realized that over the years I've had sex with a good number of the men currently chatting Have managed to have sexual relations...sometimes once...sometimes multiple times...and still remain friendly. Done discreetly, never any gossip. Sex was had for fun and with mutual expections. No hard feelings if we didn't do it again......always a possibility we might.
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