Try to be polite...but
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Posted:May 5, 2013 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2013 7:44 pm
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Why is it that when I tell some men that I am not interested in communicating or meeting them they keep asking over and over again? They don't know me as anything but a woman who is rejecting them so why would they want to be with me? I can't have much respect for a man who comes across as desperate. And he certainly doesn't become more appealing the more he asks.
Even though they claim it isn't, it's difficult not to think this is the answer
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Does Size Matter
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Posted:Apr 8, 2013 5:14 pm
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2013 8:36 pm
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Not thinking about the size of a penis....at the moment......but body size in general. As a "larger" woman I tend to feel extra large (well, fat) when I'm with a thin man. I prefer the feel of someone who I can snuggle with and be enveloped by him. I like to be the inside one when spooning. Not someone too large either. Positioning is limited if you both have big bellys. If a man is too wide (remember I'm not referring to penis size ), it's difficult to straddle him comfortably or wrap my legs around him.
We all have our preferences. What is your perfect fit.....and why?
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She's a Tease
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Posted:Apr 4, 2013 9:18 pm
Last Updated:Apr 30, 2013 7:55 pm
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I've noticed that quite few women get on cam and never get naked. Tried it myself the other night. Felt like such a tease. Men click on a cam and hope to get a "show" of some sort. Yes, they do resort to some pretty creative comments hoping to get a peek of an enticing female body part. But isn't that part of the fun of it?
Me...I couldn't do it....just can't tease men and leave them wanting more....had to a least show my tits.
What do you think? Are women who don't show their stuff just there for the attention or to actually turn on men?
As most my blogs recently, this isn't the first time I've broached this topic. Flirt or Tease
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Serial Dating
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Posted:Mar 13, 2013 9:38 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2019 6:18 pm
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Recently realized I'm been online dating for almost 10 years. Have had some significant relationships, made great friends, lovers, and met all kinds people I would never have been exposed to elsewhere. I either am able to judge character very well, or have just been lucky, because out of the multitude of men I've met, no one has been scary. The worse case scenario is meeting someone boring and I usually suspected that ahead of time, but figured they were nice guys I'd give them a chance. First impressions are usually correct.
Trolling the dating sites, checking out potential partners is hard to stop once it becomes a way of life. There are so many unexplored experiences out there for some of us it's hard not to think, even if you are with someone you like a lot, that maybe there is someone else.....and you keep looking. Will I know when to stop when the right one comes along? Will I be able to?
I made reference to a similar subject in my blog Triple Digits
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Bliss Point
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Posted:Feb 25, 2013 9:10 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2015 9:45 pm
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I was recently reading an article about the science of addictive junk food and a bliss point was mentioned. In junk food terms reference was made to foods that owe their success to complex formulas that pique the taste buds enough to be alluring but don't have a distinct, overriding single flavor that tells the brain to stop eating.
The article goes on to discuss sensory-specific satiety which is a sensory hedonic phenomenon that refers to the declining satisfaction generated by the consumption of a certain type of food, and the consequent renewal in appetite resulting from the exposure to a new flavor or food
Once again a reoccuring theme for me....finding relationships with food and with people have many similarities.
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98 And Counting
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Posted:Feb 13, 2013 3:46 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2015 2:28 pm
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Just noticed I have 98 watchers for my blog. Not that it matters to me, just making an observation. Though would be pretty cool to hit 100. So, if you are an occasional reader..... watch me.....or if you know anyone else who might be interested....pass me around. I realize some of my newer stuff may be somewhat uninspiring, but would like to see some comments on my older entries. I'm always interested in what other people think about the things I think about.
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Confession
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Posted:Jan 27, 2013 8:06 am
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2017 5:28 pm
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Sometimes when my partner brings me to orgasm before him through oral, digital and/or penile stimulation, even though I am a strong proponent of mutually satisying gratifcation I wish he would hurry up, blow his load ,and be done with it.
Do you ever feel that way?
I've broached this subject before in Group Experience Etiquette Question
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The Challenge Day 4
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Posted:Jan 25, 2013 5:04 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2014 9:54 am
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Resistance is at a low. Trying not to convince myself it's just a silly challenge I've made to myself and has no real consequence. If I don't make it a week....what''s the big deal????
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Challenge Day 1
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Posted:Jan 22, 2013 9:20 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2014 9:54 am
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What was I thinking? Home from work after minor surgery and just the other day declared I'm on a strict weight loss regime????? This is going to be harder than I thought.
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Hmmm my illustration keeps disappearing.
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Challenging Myself
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Posted:Jan 21, 2013 8:13 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2016 8:24 pm
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Not having fun chatting. No having much fun dating either. Used to meet some men I truly connected with here. Not to say I haven't gone out with interesting, intelligent and sexually accomplished men, but there just doesn't seem to be that spark, that initial chemistry.
As I've mentioned before I'm a chatroom addict here. Chatrooms were entertaining, playful banter, exchange of double entendres, Now it seems to be people putting each other down and whining that no one likes them. I cannot discuss the pros and cons of pubic hair or penis size one more time or explain to a 20 something that age makes a difference when he's closer to my grandson's age than mine. I've always prided myself on being friendly, even when annoyed, but my patience is wearing thin and the sarcasm becoming more sardonic.
Not going to make an idle threat like many here who give their good-byes and come back a month or so later. But, I am going to challenge myself to stay out of my local chatroom for a week. Can I do it? Hmmmm.....One more time tonight and that will be it.
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Oh No...am I becoming one of them?
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Posted:Dec 29, 2012 8:30 am
Last Updated:Jul 2, 2013 10:15 pm
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Not yet an uncaring, overly negative bitch, who has no sense of humor....but I'm beginning to show the tendencies of a woman who has lost patience with the men on this site whose emails and IMs open with the promise of great tongue lickings or superb cockmenship. It's all becoming redundant.
I know I have to consider where I am...and that my pictures, video...and my profile to some extent indicates that I am an overtly sexual creature, but it is beginning to annoy me.
Ahhh, but this too shall pass.
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