Condom Use
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Posted:Mar 19, 2012 7:16 pm
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2022 7:12 pm
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Spontaneity is soooo nice, but you have to consider STDs. They are common, millions of people have them. They are just a result of being sexually active...even just a little. Many of us are exposed to them at some time in our lives if we've had more than one person we've been intimate with. Probably the only way you haven't been is if you are both virgins and have never even touched each others genitals or did more than a chaste kiss. In most cases they are not serious, completely curable, some you never know you have and your immune system works to fight off the virus on it's own.
It surprises me the number of men I'm with, who if I didn't say anything would readily fuck me without a condom. Admittedly, I'd much rather feel an unadorned cock slide into me, but have to be cautious and stop and think.....
SAFETY FIRST
This is not a public service announcement, just was thinking about some recent experiences and would like some HONEST feedback. How often do you forego safe sex and just plunge in (or let him plunge in) and say what the fuck?
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What's So Difficult About FWBs?
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Posted:Mar 4, 2012 10:26 pm
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2019 8:24 pm
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Movies, books even blogs talk about how difficult it is to sustain a basic Friends With Benefits relationship. I don't seem to have a problem with it at all. I have quite a few friends I enjoy conversing with, going out with and having sex with, but do not find ourselves getting involved emotionally. We are able to share our thoughts, feelings about a variety of subjects and personal information without expectations or commitment.
I don't understand why others find it difficult to do this. Could it be because I'm older now and not exactly looking for a serious, monogamous relationship? Or because I can have sex with someone because if feels good and we like each other without being "in love"? Or could it just be I haven't found someone I feel attached enough to that I want more from him or can give more to him?
As always, more questions to ponder.
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It's Time
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Posted:Feb 13, 2012 6:14 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2014 10:04 am
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Time to put all my whining behind me...end the complaining and move forward.
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Why Be Offended??
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Posted:Feb 5, 2012 3:00 pm
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2014 10:52 am
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I read blogs here complaining about this and other similar emails women get here. I just don't understand how anyone can be offended by anything on a site where there are thousands of pictures and videos depicting pretty much every variation of sex act imaginable, plus blogs, articles, groups, chat rooms, etc.
We are all here for different reasons. I am here to make friends...not just online friends, I use A F F as a social networking site. Others use it as a porn site. They're here to perv pictures, cams, videos and display themselves in ways they can't do anywhere else. Why be judgmental? Don't take it all so seriously If you're not interested ignore, block...do not reply.
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Just Trying to Be Nice
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Posted:Jan 16, 2012 4:33 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2016 8:19 pm
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I don't know about everyone on here, but I seriously feel bad that I can't reply to some emails. It's obvious the person who sent it read my profile or blog (or looked at my pics or video) and made an effort to write more than just "wanna fuck". But, from experience, I've found that even a "thanks, but I'm not interested" reply generally encourages additional emails, instead of accepting the fact that I am really not interested.
So.....I wrote an auto-reply with the intent of politely saying I"m not interested. I refrain from writing negative responses, even from the more, shall I say, suggestive email requests since I feel if the writer gets off writing things like that it's his/her/their prerogative. I can just ignore...and in most cases chuckle.
However, it seems some aren't very happy receiving my auto-reply. What do you prefer...not getting a reply from someone who is uninterested (you can't expect a response from all, can you?) or something like I've written?
Thanks for your interest. I do appreciate your positive response to what I've written, pics, video, etc. (I'd be lying if I didn't, or else why would I post them here.) However, as my profile states, I'm serious about the over 40, living nearby and not married criteria. If you don't fall into those categories or are someone I feel I wouldn't be compatible with after reading your profile or email, I will most likely not respond. Good luck and have fun.
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If A Nobel Prize Winner Says So.....
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Posted:Jan 10, 2012 10:11 pm
Last Updated:May 10, 2013 1:42 am
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Extra Fat Means More Happiness,
Better Sex
One of the world's most revered scientists has developed a theory that fat people are happier than thin ones.
James Watson, the Nobel prize-winning geneticist who was jointly responsible for discovering the structure of DNA, believes that plumper women are also likely to enjoy a better sex life than their thin counterparts.
Watson, who directed the successful human genome project, has moved into the controversial science of body image. He recently told an audience at University College London that his research suggested extra pounds had the biological effect of making a woman well-rounded in character and better in bed.
His study of chemicals in the body has led him to conclude that extra fat has the effect of boosting endorphins - the natural mood-enhancing chemical - and a hormone linked to sexual desire.
Watson's interest is purely scientific. He stumbled on what he calls his latest "obsession" while chatting to a taxi driver in New York who told him of an Arizona scientist who, trying to create a self-tanning drug, had injected himself with a hormone which gave him an 8-1/2-hour erection.
The hormone was MSH, linked to sexual desire and also to sunlight. "It was one hormone which had always bored me before," said Watson. His interest excited, he began to look at MSH and discovered it was closely linked to two other chemicals in the body - endorphins, the feel-good chemical, and leptin. Leptin is made in fat tissue; the more fat, the more leptin. MSH is affected by leptin and is connected to sexual desire.
"The heavier you are, the more leptin and possibly the more MSH," said Watson. "My guess is that your mood is controlled by endorphins and you make more of these when you are fat. Hence nobody has ever drawn Santa Claus thin - thin people are discontented."
Since MSH can also be affected by sun, happiness could depend on either being in the sun or being fat.
"The people who are the hottest sexually are fat white people who are burning in the sun," he said. (I just love this comment  )
"I now really look at fat couples in a totally different way," he said. "When you see two thin people together,you know they've got problems."
So Watson recommends that curvy women match
with larger-proportioned partners for the best sex life.
WHAT DO YOU THINK?
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In The News
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Posted:Jan 7, 2012 9:04 am
Last Updated:Dec 13, 2014 8:24 pm
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I read newspapers, both print and online....some articles catch my eye more than others, especially the ones that hit close to home. Must applaud these two headlines for making the public aware of the fact that us old folks are still well functioning (as well as a lot of fun).
Sex Gets Better With Age - Study revealed women's satisfaction in the bedroom increased with age. The study analyzed sexual activity, desire and satisfaction in a group of women, age 40 or older, with a median age of 67 years. The 806 women studied were part of a study, which has tracked the health of residents within a planned community in San Diego for 40 years.
Pot Smoking Middle-Agers Have Sharper Minds -British researchers studied the mental sharpness of thousands of 50-year-old subjects, and found that those who had used illicit drugs—mainly marijuana—actually performed better than others on tests of memory and other brain functions.
Of course, these are just excerpts from the articles. I am not vouching for the accuracy of the facts (my disclaimer) google them if you want more details...no study is that simple...as all studies, we can interpret however we want, can't we?
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Taking Up Space
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Posted:Jan 3, 2012 6:25 pm
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2015 8:13 pm
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Feel compelled to write something since it's a new year....can't quite come up with a stimulating topic...any suggestions?
In the meantime, lets just consider this a
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What's With Being Discreet?
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Posted:Dec 21, 2011 9:55 pm
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2017 6:51 pm
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I don't get it. Even on profiles of unattached people I see "interested in a discreet relationship".
Why be discreet if you have no reason to hide what you're doing?
Is that because they just want to have sex and not be seen with you in public?
Just wondering............
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Non-committal
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Posted:Dec 19, 2011 8:00 pm
Last Updated:Jan 26, 2013 9:44 pm
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Life would be so much easier for me if I could just let myself enjoy a relationship with one man...appreciate someone who cares about me and not be reluctant to care back. Others seem happy in a committed relationship. Why can't I? Wonder why I'm always looking for more? I've never been badly hurt in the past and generally have fun and friendship with anyone I see.....so what's stopping me?
Don't really expect any answers.....just wondering aloud.
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Scandalous Behavior - SEXTING?!?!?
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Posted:Nov 22, 2011 7:49 am
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2016 4:44 pm
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Currently in the news is a story about a local jr high principal who is being fired because he was "sexting" with a 22 year old former intern. Stupidly, he did it on his work phone. But nonetheless, is this a terrible offense? We had the big news story of Anthony Weiner and his "scandalous" IMs earlier in the year. I'm trying to figure out what is so wrong with adults flirting in a gratuitous way over the phone or on-line. I remember reading the transcripts of Weiner's IMs and they were almost word by word correspondence I've had with men I chat with (respectable men).
Should a person (even a school principal or politician) be deemed unable to perform their jobs well because of what they do in their personal lives? OMG if that was the case, by some people's standards, I would think many of us are unemployable!!
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To link to this blog (tresennui) use [blog tresennui] in your messages.
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