Car Sex
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Posted:Nov 11, 2011 9:01 pm
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2019 12:06 pm
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In a parked car on a dark street or during the day in a secluded alley....feels sort of silly to be doing at my age...but there's also something incredibly erotic about it.
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I Did It !!
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Posted:Oct 2, 2011 11:47 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2013 11:54 pm
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Got myself out of a rut last month and succumbed to curiosity - more than once...wasn't sure I still had it in me.....
Not that I've been leading a celibate lifestyle, but it's been a while since I've had the attitude of saying "what the fuck' and just went with what felt good at the moment, with little thought (can't say I'll make a habit of it...so don't start lining up).
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Cumming?
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Posted:Sep 13, 2011 5:09 pm
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2015 9:07 pm
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Does this ever happen to you? Having incredible sex….raging hard on…but just can’t cum? Sometimes it’s the second or third go-round, occasionally it’s the first attempt. As a women I try my hardest (well, his hardest), use every trick I know (and I know many) to make it happen, but to no avail. I wonder how terribly frustrating it feels for a man...almost there, but just can’t cross the line.
Not that I’m complaining…a perpetual hard on isn’t the worse thing for a girl to deal with. However, I hate the thought of the man who’s satisfied me so completely not fully satisfied himself.
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Give It To Me Good
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Posted:Sep 3, 2011 9:08 am
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2019 8:26 pm
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Banter, that is....
backchat - raillery, give-and-take
repartee - adroitness and cleverness in reply
badinage - humorous conversation
persiflage - light teasing
What a turn on!
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Just had to post this one
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Posted:Aug 20, 2011 10:11 am
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2019 6:49 pm
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This guys a CEO? Got an email invite for lunch from him. Here's how his profile reads. Just have to laugh...
Tag line:
"bissness man 9 to5 play the rest"
im a ceo and very privet no photos on web only do face to face meet i like to swing and play in the bedroom with athere it all about fun and no drama and will send pics to privet emaile only
My Ideal Person: 2 ladys or 1ladys or groups partys for fun and play no drama ladys that are looking for a man on the side i do not kiss and tell
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Irked At Work
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Posted:Aug 16, 2011 4:04 pm
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2013 5:30 am
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Doesn't it irk you when you are all set to to waste a substantial amount of time at work playing solitaire and you win the very first game. 
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Give It Another Try?
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Posted:Aug 14, 2011 9:00 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2014 10:05 am
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Once again I received an email from someone I went out with once. We had a fairly pleasant time out...coffee, conversation, but there was really no chemistry. We culminated the encounter with nothing more than a chaste kiss and didn't keep in contact afterwards.
He is now asking if I'd like to give it another go. It seems he's been in a relationship since we were together that didn't work out....and thought he'd try me again.
It seems to happen every now and then. Men I dated casually or men I'd had sex with once or twice and we agreeably parted ways because we realized it wasn't really what we were both interested in (or a think we agreed). At a later date, can be months to years, I get an email or a IM (often I no longer recognize the screen name). Suggesting we get together again. And as with today's email they had been involved with another woman and now were looking for companionship again.
There's two ways of looking at this I guess. Either I was someone they could never get me off their minds or they think even though we didn't really hit it off that I'm always available for a good time and stimulating conversation. Very occasionally I do go out with them again (and even may have sex) before I remember why we didn't continue seeing each other in the first place.
Should you give someone a second chance? Maybe your first impression wasn't the right one. Or are your first instincts always correct? Something to ponder.
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Do You Dabble?
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Posted:Aug 9, 2011 11:00 am
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2016 4:01 pm
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As usual while looking for something else found a newspaper column I couldn't help but share. I don't think too many reading this have a negative outlook on the subject. I certainly don't.
Masturbation, a term that holds more negative stigma than sex itself. Instead of recognizing that everyone dabbles in masturbation, it is feared and looked upon with disgust. People ignore the benefits of exploring the world of masturbation and letting themselves submit to their hormones. However, studies show undeniable health benefits of self-pleasure that should be recognized. In a national study, 95 percent of men and 89 percent of women said that they performed masturbation. There could be a “masturbator” sitting right next to you!
The psychological benefits are reason enough to start pleasuring yourself if you have yet to do so. Performing the act of masturbation regularly has been shown to relieve depression and even increase self-esteem. This brings a whole new light to “You have to love yourself before anyone else will love you.” Being aroused increases the levels of dopamine and epinephrine, both hormones that improve mood. Taking the time to masturbate can also relieve stress, as it forces you to create time to focus on yourself and reaching climax sends a wave of relaxation through your body. Frequent masturbation helps to improve one's sex-life, as it increases sexual health and confidence in the bedroom.
If the psychological benefits are not convincing enough, here are a few physical benefits that should be taken into account:
There are specific health benefits for women who masturbate:
• Masturbating during your menstrual cycle has been shown to help alleviate the pain from cramping
• It helps prevent cervical infections and eases urinary tract infections
• Having Orgasms frequently increases pelvic strength which increases sexual satisfaction
Mutual benefits of masturbation in men and women:
• Improves cardiovascular health
• Lowers the risk of type-2 diabetes
• Masturbation can improve your sex life with your partner
• Lowers blood pressure
• Helps fight off insomnia
• Stimulates your immune system
Benefits of masturbation for men:
• Lowers the risk of prostate cancer (especially in your 50's)
• Masturbation helps fight premature ejaculation
Now, for a bit of fun information: mutual masturbation has it's own benefits for a couple. Studies say that it may be even more intimate than sexual intercourse. When you allow your partner to watch you masturbate you are giving them a treasure map to the things that please you and the type of touches that drive you wild. Giving them this map to pleasing you sexually can lead to the most intense sexual intercourse you've ever experienced. Mutual masturbation isn't just restricted to only using your hands, there are now many toys to enhance this experience. Different sensations, for instance vibrations or hot and cold objects, stimulate your senses in various ways that could bring you to orgasm as quickly as your hands.
Previous posts on the topic Apparently monogamy's not for me......Masturbation Don't You Just Love It
And this led me to the purchase of my favorite...which is currently plugged in by my bed to be available at a moments notice And they thanked me She writes with a grin
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Do The "Boys" Really Think They Have a Chance?
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Posted:Aug 5, 2011 4:15 pm
Last Updated:Apr 23, 2015 9:40 pm
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I get numerous emails here and on other dating sites from men (boys) under the age of 30....as low as 18 or 19 years old. Do they really think they will get a positive response from a woman my age? I understand the attraction to older women. We are pretty amazing, generally less demanding, or whiny and lots of fun.  The cougar culture is highly exaggerated. We are definitely not all on the prowl for young studs. Most of us want experienced men, not just sexually...life experience. We do not want to teach, as often requested, and as I wrote about in Advice from an Older Woman. Admittedly, I've tried out a few young ones, but that's not what I'm attracted to. I personally think these young guys wouldn't even be after women 15-20-30 years older than them if they could get women closer to their own age.
Of course there are a few exceptions I may consider, but they've got to be pretty special in a multitude of ways...and not just body and sexual ability.
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Learned Something New
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Posted:Jul 21, 2011 6:04 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2012 1:46 pm
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Just let my gold membership run out and am here as a standard member. Always wondered why people posted new comments instead of responses to comments made on their blogs.....that's all you can do as a standard member.
I'm not sure if I'm renewing or not. I can still see and read profiles. Though limiting me to viewing one picture is a little frustrating (at least on some of the profiles). Haven't tried to initiate an email yet. But still can respond. I've been a paying member for more than 5 years. Time for some new experimentation....in membership status that is....
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NSA - No More??
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Posted:Jul 14, 2011 8:51 pm
Last Updated:Aug 16, 2019 6:35 pm
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I read so many profiles of people who want no strings attached and no drama. Is everyone so afraid of getting close to someone else? Afraid to commit..not necessarily long term, but even for an intense friendship? Have we all become selfish and reluctant to share ourselves in more than a physical sense with others?
Well...I am soooo ready for some attachment and a little drama in my life.
Bring on the strings (and not just a string of pearls Couple Things to Be Grateful For]. Let loose with the emotions. DIVINE GLADNESS. Done it before, I can do it again if only I can find the right person to do it with. I'm confident he's out there somewhere.
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Life's not always fun
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Posted:Jun 19, 2011 12:19 pm
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2020 9:54 pm
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Been sitting in a hospital room for a couple weeks with a 28 year old who has some serious medical issues.......after a couple surgeries they are hopefully being resolved.
WIFI but no access to A F F. No matter how stressed out and exhausted I am the urge to perv is still there...but only in small doses for the time being. Am going to need some major debauchery when this whole horrendous ordeal is over with.
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