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Succumbing to Curiousity
 
I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
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Posted:May 19, 2011 6:21 pm
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2013 4:46 am
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A smile on your face...cheery disposition...always one with a joke...the perpetual optimist. But when you're home alone....with nothing to do, no one around, find yourself trolling the internet, chatting online, posting on your blog....spirits aren't always as high, thoughts aren't always so positive.....but from your pictures...no one would ever guess.

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Mixed Message
Posted:May 15, 2011 7:34 pm
Last Updated:Dec 19, 2014 6:09 pm
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Do explicit pictures and videos on profiles negate the words expressed on profiles expressing that the individual is looking for more than just a hook up...more than just a sexual encounter? Do people see past them and read what is written?

Are people judged by their visual display - both men and women?



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What the heck
Posted:May 9, 2011 9:25 pm
Last Updated:Mar 22, 2015 9:52 pm
9143 Views
There are days you gotta

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Lonely Nights
Posted:Apr 25, 2011 9:31 pm
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2013 9:18 pm
8124 Views
Easy to find someone to have
sex with.....difficult finding someone I want to sleep with.

Sometimes I miss it...a lot.

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Dating Site Question
Posted:Apr 17, 2011 8:43 pm
Last Updated:Jul 25, 2013 9:24 pm
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I'm on quite a few different dating sites around the internet. As my profile says I'm exploring my options. One of the sites has 1000s of questions you can answer to help give you insight, and a better idea if that person is someone you'd be compatible with. A question that I thought was an easy "yes" I've discovered is often answered "no" by many of the men whose profiles I've read. I always thought compromise and willingness to do something to please your partner was something men would want women to think they're capable of. Apparently some men are honest enough to admit they don't think that way. I suppose it's good they warn us ahead of time. If they all did it would certainly eliminate disappoint we inevitably may encounter.

Here's the question I've seen answered "no" numerous times:

Are you willing to sit with your mate and watch their favorite TV show with them, even if it's one that you can't stand?



Couple other thoughts I've had about the male species.

Defending the Beast
Defended them in the pastbut


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Amuse Me
Posted:Apr 1, 2011 7:50 pm
Last Updated:Feb 17, 2018 4:28 pm
9125 Views
I've met a lot of men and I like them. I like them a lot. But there seems to be one thing missing. One thing that makes me reluctant to want to continue a relationship with them. They don't make me laugh. I've had a couple men in my life (they know who they are) who just a smile, a brief IM, one word......can make me chuckle. I need that....I want that....I won't be completely satisfied until I have that again. I don't want to settle for less.
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Rimming Question for Anyone to Answer
Posted:Mar 27, 2011 8:39 pm
Last Updated:May 10, 2019 12:47 pm
9253 Views
Once someone's tongue has been licking your ass how long do you wait to kiss them on their mouth....with or without tongue?

Just curious.

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I've Been Blocked????
Posted:Mar 22, 2011 6:44 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2016 7:56 pm
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Don't know why I'm letting it bother me. I don't really care if people say negative things about my lifestyle, moral fortitude or even my appearance. But I pride myself on being friendly and non-judgmental so when someone doesn't think I'm a nice person....that gets to me. I recently received an email from someone who I think I might have chatted with in a chatroom. I don't recall having any personal conversations with him or meeting him. I often don't even reply to emails if they're from someone I don't have any intention of pursuing a relationship of some type with and just rely on my auto-reply to answer for me, but since he seemed to be someone who I've conversed with I figured...what the heck, I'd respond.. I thought I did it in a pretty friendly way. And now he's blocked me. BTW the photo he's referring to is me with a cock in my mouth

Would like some opinions. Did I write anything wrong, rude, disrespectful? I usually consider correspondence here private and seldom share with anyone else. I would never name names either. But, here's the short exchange of emails.


Re: Great photo!!

Dearest Tresennui,

It is nice to see that your mouth can do something other than spew "wise cracks." Remember me? I hope you do!

My Reply:

Don't know what possessed me to put up the pic....guess I like to see what different reactions I get. So far all are favorable.


RE: RE: Great photo!!............recognize sarcasm??


Dearest Tresennui,

When I first joined this site, I tried to be sincere and realistic. You cured me of that and prepared me for all the game players I would encounter who were just here to "see what different reactions" they could elicit from other game players. Don't bother responding...you are blocked.
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A Face You'd Want to Fuck??
Posted:Mar 10, 2011 6:01 am
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2019 8:37 pm
9545 Views


I've written about profile pictures before What's With The Mug Shots, I'm curious. Why do men post or email pics of themselves frowning, scowling... with a facial expression anything but friendly looking. Why don't they smile? If you don't look happy I certainly don't want to chat with you, talk to you and most definitely not fuck you.
Wondering if men who don't smile think they look more macho?
5 Comments
Just thinking
Posted:Feb 22, 2011 5:50 am
Last Updated:Mar 10, 2019 10:45 am
8132 Views
About when that special someone walks in my door and I see that smile on his face, which makes me smile, and his arms go around me, and it feels so good, and we kiss, and as we kiss I feel his cock get hard as it’s pressed against me and I want to touch it, taste it, I want it inside me…....................
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That Kiss
Posted:Feb 5, 2011 8:33 am
Last Updated:Mar 28, 2017 8:32 pm
7998 Views
You know the one.........

Takes your breath away....

Makes you weak in the knees....

Causes a tingly sensation between your legs....

So Special....sigh.....

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Small Annoyance
Posted:Jan 28, 2011 11:18 am
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2014 2:28 pm
7946 Views


No, not talking about less than 6 inches...I often get emails or inquiries in the chat room from people who want to meet, saying they're located near me, but in actuality they are no where close by - close by to me being within a 30-45 minute drive. These inquires are often from men visiting from out-of-town. Haven't they heard of searching for maps online to figure these things out for themselves?

As I said....just a small annoyance.
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They asked
Posted:Jan 26, 2011 6:08 am
Last Updated:Nov 3, 2019 4:51 pm
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Not something I was looking for, but when a friend asked to join him & his wife at their home for some food and frolic...how could I refuse? I've experienced play with others at parties and clubs, but never just a private threesome and figured how can I pass up on something I've never done before. The evening started out a little weird for me...sat down with them in their kitchen for some food, wine, smoked a little pot, holding the usual conversations about work, , the mundane issues of everyday life, knowing the ultimate intent of the evening was all of us naked in bed. Then, as usual for me, as soon as clothes were removed, I was in my element....no qualms, no inhibitions.

Not something I intend to make a habit of; however, I didn't want to look back someday and think...I had the opportunity to do something I hadn't done before and didn't take advantage of it. Who wants to wonder, what if?


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