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I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
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Pleasantly Surprised
Posted:Nov 29, 2019 10:36 am
Last Updated:Jan 11, 2020 7:21 pm
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As someone who seldom writes new blog posts or new pics (especially naked ones), I am always pleasantly surprised when an old post is read and commented on.


pic disappeared, let’s see how if re-posting it works
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Making the Effort
Posted:Sep 26, 2019 4:26 pm
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2020 5:32 pm
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Do you hold back from contacting people because you just don’t want make the effort? Do you hold back from contacting or responding someone instead of going for it? I used think wtf just go for it, but not so much anymore. Jaded, bored, being too cautious, avoiding disappointment? Why do you think so many of us become this way?
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Limited Freebies
Posted:Aug 7, 2019 5:25 pm
Last Updated:Aug 17, 2019 10:04 pm
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I understand the frustration, but how do people expect any website offering a service of any kind be free? Even online newspapers often require subscriptions full access. This is a business. If it was yours, you would want make a profit, wouldn’t you?
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Question for Bloggers
Posted:Jun 23, 2019 1:25 pm
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2020 1:09 pm
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Bloggers
If you are going to meet up with someone from AF F do you want them to read your blog before meeting, or least show interest in it?
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Pop Up Video
Posted:Jun 20, 2019 5:21 pm
Last Updated:Apr 12, 2020 3:02 pm
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What’s with the pop up video encouraging men to masturbate with fruits and veggies to increase penis size? Does anyone really think that will work? Does the video ad turn you on? Anyone try it?
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Semi Self Imposed Celibacy
Posted:May 13, 2019 6:51 pm
Last Updated:Feb 9, 2020 10:17 pm
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It’s now been the longest (@ 9 months) I have gone without sex in the last 15 years (post divorce)...sex with someone else, that is, I do masturbate frequently. It certainly isn’t because I am not horny or feeling the desire, but I just can’t get myself to make the effort, or more so, can’t find someone I want to make the effort of meeting for the possibility of having sex with.

I can imagine there is a least one man out there reading this raising his hand saying pick me. But, I most often am getting uninspiring emails and IM’s these days, on this site and other sites (vanilla ones that don’t necessarily say pick me for sex, though ultimately that’s what it comes down to, not complaining, I don’t deny I am looking for it too). Meeting someone online use to start with flirting by amusing banter, filled with innuendo, not necessarily for extended periods of time, but long enough that both of us looked forward to meeting and there was a sexual tension that had developed and we pretty much knew that in person there would be sparks flying. The art of cyber flirtation seems to have vanished. I can even remember not so long ago hours on the phone, and it wasn’t all phone sex.

Not denying that it is partly my fault. I suspect that an over-indulgence in recreational, indiscriminate, and somewhat adventuresome sex for quite a few consecutive years caused me to crave something more. It’s kinda the old “too much of a good thing, etc”. The easy fuck that used to be a mainstay just no longer does it for me. Sure I can orgasm, but once I’m done I’m ready to call it a night (or nooner, if apropos). And the whole encounter just doesn’t feel like it was worth it. No offense to any of the men, some were perfectly nice guys, I just didn’t feel a connection...other than a brief physical one. Hence, seldom a second date.

Not that I haven’t had relationships of any sort, just none monogamous and most recently for a few years a very good friend, a fellow foodie, who lived here, but travelled a lot and I saw on a fairly regular bases. We enjoyed restaurants, a couple vacations...we were friends who enjoyed each other’s company....FWBs. Sex was not extraordinary, but there was strong affection for each other. He recently relocated out of state, so that easy relationship ended.

So my current dilemma is, how do I find a man that amuses me so that I want to spend an inordinate amount of time talking to as well as having sex with. Of course, to make it more difficult for myself, I want someone no more than 12? years younger or 5 older and who lives close by. That’s an urban close by that in heavy traffic on congested surface streets (not highways, or as we call them in
Chicago expressways). I also have the added factor that I currently have an adult living with me in a 2 bedroom condo. We often work opposite hours; however, if I entertain a man at home, unless we are in an established relationship, no sleepovers at my place and well scheduled privacy.

Not even sure how much I miss sex on a regular basis. Even writing that shocks myself. It’s soooo not me!

So that’s my story at the moment. Care to share yours?
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He’s Still Here?!?!?
Posted:Mar 30, 2019 12:07 pm
Last Updated:Dec 31, 2019 10:46 pm
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That’s what I’m thinking when I see men on the site that I chatted with...or even had sex with years ago.

But, then, I am too!
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Been There, Done That, Wrote About It
Posted:Mar 10, 2019 10:39 am
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2019 6:23 pm
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I have been here for many years, chatted and posted in groups for a couple years before I started my blog way back in 2011. Though I am no longer actively chatting or meeting people as much as I used to I still check into blogs quite often. I seldom see a topic that I hadn’t addressed sometime in the past. Hard for me not to just put a link to my blog written about the topic as a comment. I always hope that the blogger doesn’t feel like I am just trying to promote my own blog. I know some bloggers are competitive 🤔and don’t want to offend them by doing so. I just feel why re-write what I had already written.

So fellow bloggers, what do you think? Is it okay to refer readers of others’ blogs to posts on your own?

What about re-posting blogs? There is always a new audience with untapped opinions who probably never explore old blog posts.
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Masturbation - Satisfying or Leave You Wanting ?
Posted:Mar 3, 2019 2:04 pm
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2019 5:40 pm
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When you masturbate, even if it’s to orgasm,
do you feel fully sated or not completely fulfilled?
Wanting more
Satisfied
74 Comments , 931 votes
Profile Pic - Handful of Cum
Posted:Dec 9, 2018 11:31 am
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2019 6:47 pm
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Just wonder if anyone finds pic of gooey, gloppy cum as the result of masturbating appealing.

Sometimes a video resulting in the discharge of cum (too clinical sounding?) can be stimulating. That is an actual sex act. But a still photo? Sometimes you just gotta say to yourself....ewww.
Yes, Appealing
No, Not Appealing
18 Comments , 135 votes
Do You Do It Too?
Posted:Dec 9, 2018 8:21 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2019 8:17 pm
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Had a leisurely breakfast and coffee watching Sunday morning news shows (not like i haven’t had enough news frustration this week), showered, now made my way to A F F. Do I have a multitude of other things I should be doing? Oh yes! So why do I procrastinate? I can wake in the morning and mentally plan out what I need to do and picture myself doing it. Do I? Well...eventually, if it is something that involves others. Though often feel rushed and somewhat stressed as I do it. If not, I may get to it eventually if it only effects me.

Procrastination does not seem to just apply to chores. It’s lifestyle changes too, exercise, improved diet, etc. It’s following up on emails here to actually meet people I might be interested in. Damn, it is even masturbation...get the urge...maybe do it later.

This only effects my personal life. At work, I am on top of things.

So what about you? Do you do it too? Chastise yourself? Vow to change? How do you self-motivate?
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What’s With the Cocks in Cars Pics?
Posted:Sep 24, 2018 2:44 pm
Last Updated:Nov 1, 2018 8:56 pm
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There are soooo many of them. Pictures men take of themselves sitting in their cars with erect cock in hand. Where are these men parked, or driving, that they feel it is the perfect opportunity to whip out their dick for a photo session?

If you have a pic posted, please let me know where it was taken...I’m curious.

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Not One To Criticize Dick Pics...but
Posted:Aug 21, 2018 8:45 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 10:23 pm
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This showed up on my home page. Seriously, does he thinks someone...anyone would look at it and think “Damn, I’ve go to have me some of that?!??”

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