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Succumbing to Curiousity
 
I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
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Wishin' I Was a Little Bit Geekier
Posted:Jan 2, 2011 11:47 pm
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2012 1:35 pm
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I feel so technically incompetent as I read the many wonderfully fascinating blogs on A F F.
I'm lucky I know how to change color, font size and post a single image.


I've got a bad case of
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Self Pity
Posted:Dec 23, 2010 7:33 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2015 10:22 pm
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You ever have one of those days?...............
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Labia Origami
Posted:Nov 14, 2010 8:50 pm
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2019 6:06 pm
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Oh...The things I find while looking for other things......

Have you seen that people can create art from all sorts of things, well women who stretch their vaginal lips to great lengths have the ability to create art with them. Women can shape them into figures and tie them into knots, its all about the origami of labia.




Labia Origami:

Fold it, shape it, a world of art hidden between the legs.
CREATING SHAPES AND ART FROM LONG VAGINAL LIPS.

What does origami mean? Origami from ori meaning, "folding", and kami meaning "paper" is the ancient Japanese art of paper folding. "Origami" nowadays refers to all types of folding, even those of non-paper origin such as the inner vaginal lips. Origami only uses a small number of different folds, but they can be combined in a variety of ways to make intricate designs using the labia minora.

The labia minora can be easily used to create various shapes and forms when it has been properly elongated to its maximum length potential. Just think of it as labial origami, when you have long labia minora, you can create diverse forms or shapes that mimic insects, animals, structures, botanicals, etc.

Origami of the female genitals can be quite an attraction for spectators. Women have been creating shapes and forms with their labia throughout centuries. What girl has not tried to mimic a flower with her labia or the wings of a butterfly? Whether in the past or present, women have always put on shows to their personal and private audience (intimate partner) using their inner vaginal lips.

It is not farfetched to believe or not to believe the amazing and fantastic things women can accomplish with their genitalia. Vaginal lips can be used to create incredible eye opening figures mimicking common things we all have come to know through the passage of our lifetime.

Female genitalia are by no means dull or boring as some people would have you believe. A little thought and imagination is all that is needed when performing labial origami. With experience women can easily shape their vaginal lips into butterflies, knots, flowers, bats, dragons, you name it, it can be done and you will never look at labia the same way again.
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Am I Becoming A Picky Chick?
Posted:Oct 11, 2010 3:56 pm
Last Updated:May 2, 2016 7:08 pm
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I think I used to be more open to meeting people than I am now. I read through profiles and emails with more scrutiny than I used. I don't know what I'm looking for exactly, but I know what I'm not looking for. I'm not as concerned about physical looks, but little things like where/how a picture was taken (i.e. posed by a motorcycle, car, or holding a fish), and what apparel was worn, to grammar, spelling, specific words used like "gal" and "my lady", and bragging about sexual expertise in detail, all make me think, he's not one for me. Sounds petty, but those type of things are indicators to me of what I would have in common with that person and the kind of chemistry that is possible...or not. I don't feel I'm being judgmental. They might be perfectly good men...but not men for me. I have become reluctant to meet....hell...I've become more reluctant to even give out my IM. Wondering after all these years if I've become too negative....or just turned into a picky chick?

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Triple Digits
Posted:Sep 28, 2010 9:09 pm
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2020 11:59 am
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Seems like a lot of “encounters” but as I conversed with a friend the other night we realized it just happens. It has nothing to do with counting notches on a bed post, or proclamation of sluttiness. It's just that if you’re not in monogamous relationships and are friendly and like to meet new people, the numbers add up. If at a minimum you met two or even one man (or woman) a month…that’s maybe 24 a year. And if you’re into the lifestyle – clubs and parties, there can be 3…4 a night. Of course, it doesn’t happen every month, every year, but a few go by, and then a few more…. and there you go.....
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No wonder it’s hard to remember them all.
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Couple Things to Be Grateful For
Posted:Jul 29, 2010 5:18 am
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 10:37 pm
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I do always try to look for the positive things and not dwell on the negatives in my life. Reading my blogs lately you'd think I'm a terribly pessimistic person. Someone I know even complained I'm not much fun anymore because all I do is complain about work and other things upsetting me. Well, here's a thought...for a woman well into her middle aged years... after breastfeeding 3 babies, numerous diets when my weight has fluctuated many pounds....I am grateful that my breasts still are holding up and not sagging down to my waist.

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Reciprocating
Posted:Jul 28, 2010 8:16 pm
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2012 1:31 pm
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Oh you're probably thinking I'm talking about oral sex my usual preoccupation. You go down on me....I go down on you. But, for a change I'm going to write about what's been on my mind a lot more lately. Expressing your feelings to someone and having them tell you what they're feeling in return....even if they aren't identical. And if you do care a lot and if you do miss someone and if someone means a lot to you and you've missed them.....say so. We all need to hear it. Especially if the other person has gotten up the courage to say it....it's not easy putting ourselves out there...making ourselves vulnerable....it's important that the effort is reciprocated.
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EASY????
Posted:Jul 19, 2010 5:36 am
Last Updated:Nov 17, 2018 9:54 pm
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I could not believe my eyes when in a chat room conversation regarding sex on a first date a woman referred to women who have sex on the first date as "easy" and others agreed. WTF.....is it the 1950s??? Are we on eharmony??? Even if we weren't on A F F, a website that in reality is a porn site disguised as a dating site, or is it a dating site disguised as a porn site, woman should be able to have sex whenever they want, with whoever they want, because they want to, without being labeled.

Though I do have to pose this question....if women who have sex on the first date are easy.....does that mean men on the first date are hard?......one would hope so.

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Luckier Than Many......But Still.......
Posted:Jun 28, 2010 7:55 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2015 10:22 pm
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I've had the opportunity to meet so many great people. Talking to anyone about my "social life", it sounds like I'm having a pretty darn good time. I've dated quite a few, hooked up, play, become friendly with many people in various ways, but in the last year I've had disappointments, not major tragedies (a couple more upsetting than others), little things that are all adding up.

It's difficult not to get depressed and wonder if it's not time to take a break from this "exploring my options" thing....looking for a "relationship". I know I've explored this question in other blogs...This is a thought I keep coming back to.

Sure, I can find someone to have sex with it...but that alone isn't truly fulfilling for me anymore (at least all the time). I don't think I'm alone wondering if at some point in the life of a single person out there searching for a partner of some sort we become jaded, frustrated and question if it's worth the effort to put ourselves out there and persevere.
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Tried it, but soooo not me
Posted:May 22, 2010 10:23 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 10:40 pm
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Yes, it's an interesting look, but I wasn't comfortable with a leather collar (even with a soft fur lining) for a photo shoot, can't imagine wearing one during a sexual encounter. I'm adventuresome; however, I don't like to be confined in anyway. I want to be free to move....... when, where and how I please.
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69 And Can't Concentrate? Hmmm?
Posted:Apr 25, 2010 1:32 pm
Last Updated:Jul 29, 2018 12:14 pm
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I read group posts & blogs from people saying that can't concentrate while in the 69 position...I just don't get it.

It makes me think about a recent experience...no lack of concentration there, in fact, we were focused solely on the task at hand, mouth, tongue....laying side by side, he licked and sucked my clit while I simultaneously deep-throated his cock, sucking rhythmically. Both of us incredibly involved in what we were doing and feeling, until we lost all control and had incredibly amazing orgasms, so intense we begged each other to stop.



It was as if we were in a "zone", a trance..for the moment there was nothing else on our minds, nothing else existed except our genitals, his, mine....how we felt, how we made each other feel, the overwhelming sensations....OMG...if that's not concentration, I can't imagine what is!!
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Did you read the one about?.....................
Posted:Mar 27, 2010 11:04 am
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2014 1:01 pm
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Was wondering.........yes, again, an affliction I have......

I do it all the time... but do others out there in A F F land read only current blogs posted or go into the writer's past blogs to find out more about them? I know it can be quite a challenge since some of us have been rambling and pontificating for quite a while. Tackling a random sampling of what we've written is a good start. It can give some really good insight into the writer, especially if it's someone you're interested in getting to know better. If not that, then it can amuse you, excite you, or possibly piss you off.


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Not What I Hoped For
Posted:Mar 20, 2010 7:23 am
Last Updated:Sep 21, 2018 8:18 pm
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First day of Spring....wishing for sunshine and blue skies...instead....gray skies, snow flurries, not predicating accumulation (we hope)....know it's only temporary....but still
....Gotta keep a positive attitude......I know there are good days to come - and, no matter what the weather - good days to cum .
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