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Succumbing to Curiousity
 
I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
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Pizza & Soda Pop Included
Posted:Mar 6, 2010 3:54 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2019 8:59 pm
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I know of a group that has frequent hotel parties, admittance is free for woman, men are asked for a of $45. There are snack foods, pizza, soft drinks...no alcohol allowed...and did I mention women? This group is a social club (predominately on line) who's primary activity is the pursuit of sex. Some attending arrive as couples, a handful of single women, the vast majority are single men. The parties take place in adjoining hotel suites so there are usually 4 beds for activities.

The social activities at these functions are a limited number of friends who knew each other from previous parties, engaging in conversation as well as sex, and then a few of the women playing with single men they just met and talked with and found desirable. All men having arrived eager to partake in a night of debauchery. The vast majority are men left to linger on the sidelines observing idly or masturbating as they watch the action.

I'm wondering is this what a lot of the "social group" parties are like? Compared to going to legit "clubs" are these men "getting off" for cheap? Should the women at these parties be getting some of the that's being taken in?

Just one of the things I'm thinkin' about,
taking up space in my brain.



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And they thanked me?!?! She writes with a grin :)
Posted:Feb 14, 2010 12:07 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 10:35 pm
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I went with a friend to a house party last night and met a most delightful couple. They asked me if I'd like to experience the wonders of the Hitachi wand and its attachments. As I'm not one to refuse a polite offer, I said yes. We went up to a bedroom. The two of them began with a full body massage using nicely scented oil. While they did this, they introduced the Hitachi into play. Four hands all over my body, paying special attention to my breasts, vibrator on my clit, and inside me (on my g-spot), tongue also in play...I was in heaven. After reaching an incredibly intense orgasm and soaking the sheets, I lay there, flushed, with a smile on my face... .this sweet couple said to me, "Thank you for letting us do that for you. We really enjoyed it." They thanked me?!?!? Just another example of the nice people I've met since I've gotten into the "lifestyle". For the most part, it seems there is a lot of mutual respect, and the desire to give as well as receive pleasure, and enjoyment to be had by all.
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And it keeps getting better..........
Posted:Feb 3, 2010 9:42 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2015 10:18 pm
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(DIVINE GLADNESS) Aaahh...feels incredibly good together, so special...the intensity...the passion....the fun. Makes me smile (among other things.)

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Group Experience Etiquette Question
Posted:Jan 31, 2010 10:46 am
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2015 10:15 pm
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Does laying down blissfully enjoying 2, 3 possibly 4 men tend to your sexual needs at the same time, mean you necessarily have to either give each one a bj or fuck each one. You may want to, but then again, you may be already satisfied for the moment and just want to chill out for a little while. Is it selfish to maybe give one or two of them a hug, kiss and a thank you. Is that sufficient? On the spot it's hard to make that decision. Gotta go with what feels right at the time, but afterwards you wonder....was it the proper thing to do...what do the etiquette experts say?

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I'm a pretty friendly lady, but.....
Posted:Jan 25, 2010 6:20 pm
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2013 8:06 pm
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No, I haven't had sex with everyone in my friend's network. However, there definitely are some "friends" in there. I used to not accept all invites, but then figured, why not? Doesn't hurt and makes people happy. What the heck. There isn't any negative effect on me if I say yes. But, if I do accept it doesn't mean YES to every email request, IM, and most definitely not necessarily YES to requests for hook ups.


Helpful hint: Read profiles...read blogs...do your homework...not just for me, for others if you want to be considered.
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Blog - More Than I Thought It Would Be
Posted:Jan 17, 2010 9:17 am
Last Updated:Apr 28, 2021 4:58 pm
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Started out with the idea of writing just very random thoughts and inquires of other's opinions...never imagined blog entries would turn into a journal of sorts....re-read what I've written....hmmmm lots to ponder.
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Gonna Try It Again
Posted:Jan 1, 2010 12:28 am
Last Updated:Nov 27, 2014 10:06 am
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New Year



or at least try to have the
same attitude I
began last year with.
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Still trying to figure it out...........
Posted:Dec 24, 2009 6:57 pm
Last Updated:Jan 5, 2018 5:52 pm
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Maybe I need a break from men and sex. I just don't feel like I'm getting what I want out of it these days. Not sure what I want out of it.

But celibacy? Nah....got to figure something out
.


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Gotta Wonder..............
Posted:Dec 12, 2009 11:30 am
Last Updated:Jun 4, 2013 4:50 am
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.......about people who come into chat rooms, talk nasty and insult the other people there....people he/she may have never chatted with or met before. You have to wonder the reason. Is it a turn on...do they derive some pleasure out of being mean? Certainly isn't making them any friends or sex partners. I do feel a bit sorry for them. They must be incredibly unhappy people.
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Bittersweet Day
Posted:Dec 2, 2009 8:53 pm
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2012 1:21 pm
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Birth of another grandchild.........

Funeral of a dear friend............

Makes all sorts of thoughts go through my head.
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Unexpected Relationships on A F F
Posted:Nov 21, 2009 12:18 pm
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2019 11:02 am
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Most of us joined A F F with expectations and aspirations of.....dating, perving and SEX...but little did we know we'd develop friendships, not just with the opposite sex, but of our own. Friends we talk, meet, or just chat with. Friends we can discuss many different things going on in our lives....the good and not so good. Like minded people, we often find we relate in many ways.....being open about discussing sex is just the beginning.
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Gotta Make A Change........
Posted:Nov 19, 2009 5:07 pm
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2014 11:58 am
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.....Find myself in a situation that I'm not acting like the person I want to be,
or like very much.

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Perpetual Optimist?
Posted:Nov 15, 2009 5:31 pm
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2012 1:18 pm
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I generally have a good attitude and feel things will work out, even if there are obstacles I have no control over....but sometimes it's so difficult to stay optimistic.
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