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Succumbing to Curiousity
 
I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
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In Memory of the Condor
Posted:Nov 14, 2009 12:51 pm
Last Updated:Oct 17, 2015 4:11 pm
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The Voice of Dandelionvoice......Stan, a man of great, intellect, humor,
double entendre, and kindness.

Wingspan of a condor......I will think of him soaring above.....perving down on all below.


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Hurts So Bad
Posted:Nov 5, 2009 5:55 am
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2019 5:51 am
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I was chatting with a friend of mine who has been seeing someone for quite a while. Everything is great in their relationship, except for one thing........He's suddenly lost interest in her sexually. She's tried everything she knows to keep him well stimulated (not sure of all the details, but I can imagine it's quite a plethora of sexual enticement). She's emailed him compromising pictures which he doesn't even comment about and in one last effort she emailed him some very intimate videos of herself, even telling him, these have never been shared with anyone else. A couple days passed with no reply, so she finally asked him if he received them....his response was yes, he did, but he "forgot" about them.

Is that not the ultimate insult?!?

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Advice from an "Older" Woman
Posted:Oct 20, 2009 11:08 am
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 10:35 pm
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I hear it from younger men all the time...they say they want to be with an older woman because of her experience so they can learn. As one who has no desire to teach during play, I still am willing to give some advice. First and foremost, slow down and savor. Men seem to put so much pressure on themselves to bring a woman to orgasm that they concentrate mainly on the genitals and they don''t take into account that there is a whole body filled with erogenous zones wanting to be stimulated. Not that having someone lick a clit and finger fuck simultaneously is bad, but there is so much more...more before you get to that point.

It all starts with foreplay. Verbal foreplay is the beginning, words, through chat or spoken....teasing conversation, playful innuendo, expression of desire, all gets things started. This leads into a good make out session - kisses, soft tender, then deep passionate and wet. Touching, stroking the entire body. Of course the breasts and nipples need attention, but exploring and discovering every inch is pleasantly erotic and extremely stimulating. Don't rush through this...take your time it will get a woman to the point where she wants you to go down on her and/or fuck her...her body is craving the ultimate intensity of feeling you tease her clit...enter her now very wet, wanting pussy...anxiously anticipating your hard cock deep inside, sliding in over and over again.

Moments like this are not just for your first encounter. In order for a sexual relationship to sustain, there needs to be continual passion, not just the mechanical, lets both have an orgasm and be done with it, sex. There will be times that a fast fuck is desired; however, that should be the exception, not the norm. By the way, if any women are reading this...the same should be reciprocated to the man. He may like a quick blow job to get things started, but once he's experienced someone appreciating and lusting over his entire body, taking a slow passionately erotic approach....he'll never forget it.

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Guaranteed to Get Laid
Posted:Oct 18, 2009 8:11 pm
Last Updated:Jun 15, 2017 9:02 pm
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Added a new profile here tonight (couples) and this image popped up. The 3 rules were pretty simple. They were similar to the ones required for the extra month with a paid membership. 1. Maintain a gold or silver account for 3 months. 2. Log in at least once each month. 3. Send at least 3 emails a month. 4. Create at least one blog or group post a month. I can't seem to get it up again (something I seldom have an issue getting done) when I try to log into a sign up page.

Wonder how they honor this guarantee?!?!? Also, wonder how you need to prove it.

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The Tongue
Posted:Oct 4, 2009 5:18 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 10:35 pm
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Isn't it amazing how good a tongue can feel?
There's the kiss when your tongues touch and you get that
tingly sensation surging through your body.
And then there's the feeling of a
tongue on your nipple, your clit or cock......wet.........warm........mmmmmmmmmm.


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Apparently monogamy's not for me
Posted:Sep 21, 2009 5:17 am
Last Updated:Jun 24, 2019 5:10 pm
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Came to that conclusion as I awoke to the three different dildos and a vibe on my nightstand that I had used last night.

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Defended them in the past...........but............
Posted:Sep 20, 2009 6:16 am
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2017 5:34 am
6927 Views
I really try to believe otherwise, but men are basically selfish individuals....even the supposedly good ones. I don't feel most men are that way intentionally, or maliciously, they just don't have a clue.
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Money for Sex
Posted:Sep 18, 2009 2:12 pm
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2017 4:23 pm
7301 Views
Is there really anything wrong with it? If so, what? Why can we accept payment for other things we do with/for people, yet being paid for sex is considered morally wrong? If you enjoy sex and can make money doing something you enjoy, how can it be bad? If someone offered to pay you, would you do it?
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Bizarre Email
Posted:Sep 17, 2009 10:26 am
Last Updated:Jun 26, 2014 1:54 pm
7103 Views
I find them amusing. And this one is one of the best. Just had to share it. Not from A F F, but a "vanilla" dating site.

Hi (My name)! This may sound very strange, but my name is Linda and I am writing this to you for my ex-husband, Michael. We have been divorced for 28 years, but we are still friends. I am in Oregon and he is in Chicago. It is Michael's profile and picture that you will see here. I read your profile to him, and he liked what you had to say very much. Michael is a very intelligent, handsome Christian man. He is 50 years old and lives in Chicago, and has been pretty lonely lately. Michael does not have a computer, so I told him I would do the online e-mailing for him. He is a one-woman kind of guy who just wants someone to love and share life with.

He asked me to e-mail you and give you his phone number. If you are at all interested, he would love to hear from you. You can either e-mail me at this e-mail address and I will get the message to him, or you can call him at (phone number). I hope this doesn't sound too weird for you. It really isn't. It's just a Christian woman who cares about her ex-husband and would love to see him happy again - even for someone to talk to and have as a friend would be nice. Take care!

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Me too.....And Proud
Posted:Sep 15, 2009 5:47 am
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2019 5:52 am
7279 Views
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If you've got it..........Use it!
Posted:Sep 7, 2009 4:44 pm
Last Updated:May 30, 2016 1:58 pm
7094 Views
SPELL CHECK It absolutely astounds me as to the number of profiles I've read and emails I've received with numerous misspelled words.

Profiles can be read, re-read and corrected before posting. Emails are a little more understandable and forgivable...there are times we all hit "send" before proofing. But, I have to wonder if someone is so lax in their spelling skills, what other skills don't they take the time to perform well?


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Something Missing?
Posted:Sep 1, 2009 4:32 pm
Last Updated:Oct 22, 2013 11:29 am
6117 Views
Fun casual encounters, caring, affectionate fwbs....I am grateful and appreciative of what I have..........
I am never reluctant to indulge and get great pleasure from random sexual situations,but.........
there's this nagging, persistent desire for more....
passion, romance....
dare I say love?

Sometimes wonder - can I be truly and totally, happy without it?

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...............For Your Age
Posted:Aug 11, 2009 11:12 am
Last Updated:Feb 17, 2020 7:18 pm
7875 Views
Get that all the time...I'm sexy, hot, beautiful, etc, etc.......... for your age. Well, what the heck do they expect me to look like?
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