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Succumbing to Curiousity
 
I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
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Go For The Gold??????
Posted:Jul 15, 2009 11:01 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2012 1:08 pm
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My gold membership expires next week and I don't know what to do. Can I justify feeding my addiction to the entirety of this site for the astronomical amount of money the powers that be are now requiring? Will I be happy just viewing minimal profiles...not seeing all the pictures and not watching videos? Hmmm...pay the mortgage or be able to extensively perv....whatever am I to do?!?!?!
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Celebrating the 4th
Posted:Jul 2, 2009 5:44 am
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 10:28 pm
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True independence...a weekend naked outdoors - sunshine, swimming pool, food, drink and lots of sex....is there any better way to celebrate?
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Penetration ooh yeah
Posted:Jun 7, 2009 6:28 pm
Last Updated:Jan 30, 2020 3:03 pm
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Use to be very much a clitoral stimulation kind of girl, but lately....omg I've got to have penetration. I can't get enough of a hard cock inside me. Love to feel it as it slides in and out...thrusts deep inside me. There’s Nothing Like It !!!
<----Not me.
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Stood Up
Posted:May 29, 2009 5:34 am
Last Updated:May 6, 2016 9:19 pm
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As a perv, my first thought
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but after talking to A F Fers and reading posts and blogs it's the phenomenon of making a date and not showing up. I would never do it and fortunately it has never been done to me. But, it seems to be a common occurrence. I'd love to hear from those who have done it; however, I'm sure none would fess up. Do you have friends who are guilty? Have they told you their reasoning? Why commit to a meeting if you have no intention of following through or if you change your mind, why not be honest and let the person know before they're sitting in a restaurant or bar, alone...anticipating arrival?
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Who would have thunk?
Posted:May 12, 2009 6:19 pm
Last Updated:Mar 5, 2015 8:33 pm
6322 Views
I'm sometimes surprised how
easy it is for me to get naked with people I don't know and
have sex. I don't love my body. It has a lot of flaws, but I
seem to have no modesty or feel any intimidation when in a room with people in various stages of undress. I'm wondering when and how I got that inclination. I never would have imagined that it would be such a turn on when people are watching me as someone
goes down on me, fucks me, or I'm giving a blow job.

I still greatly relish an intimate experience with someone who's special to me, but the eroticism of voyeurs and group activity is certainly fun to participate in when the occasion arises.
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Oh My Gooooooooooood!!!!!
Posted:May 3, 2009 2:53 pm
Last Updated:Apr 3, 2015 10:25 pm
9355 Views
I know I don't believe in God...but for some reason when in the throes of ecstasy I find myself screaming..oh my God, oh my God...strange isn't it? How do you explain that?

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Politics Makes Strange Bedfellows
Posted:Apr 11, 2009 10:46 am
Last Updated:Oct 10, 2016 9:05 pm
8381 Views

I've come across some men who I find physically appealing and seem to be very nice people but have what I consider a major flaw. Their political views are very different than mine - issues that are very important to me like abortion, immigration, stem cell research, etc.....human rights related things. Knowing this about them makes me reluctant to even meet them. Is it just me, or does someone's political views influence you?
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Da plane, da plane
Posted:Apr 2, 2009 5:28 am
Last Updated:Dec 1, 2012 1:05 pm
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Subject: Tattoo

Many of us have them........one, two or multiples. Why did you do it and what is the significance of the ones you have? Any regrets? Please post a pic of yours if you can.
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Desensitized?????
Posted:Mar 23, 2009 8:36 pm
Last Updated:Jul 5, 2018 8:21 am
8436 Views


Has looking at the barrage of pictures online of naked peeps, genitals, boobs,
and the such, desensitized you?

Did you used to get turned on by most of them, and now only a select few?

What about videos/porn?
Admittedly, some are intriguing, but after routinely watching, do you still find them erotically arousing?
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A F F Addiction
Posted:Mar 18, 2009 4:44 pm
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2019 5:48 am
8720 Views
Do you ever feel you have no control over the time you spend on A F F? I often wonder why I feel compelled to sign in. Sure there's usually emails, invites or flirts anytime of day, but they're usually nothing I NEED to read and usually don't even respond. I check blogs, profiles, posts and generally end up carrying on inane conversations in a chat room. When I'm really bored or just feeling the need to do something stimulating, I perv videos or I get on cam (why masturbate alone when you can do it for an audience?).

I assume it's not just me. How many of you are A F F addicts?

Not putting down the site...I've made some REALLY good friends and met some very interesting people.

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Defending the Beast
Posted:Mar 8, 2009 2:57 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 10:33 pm
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I've got to do it....defend the male species. I read so many blogs and posts referring to inconsiderate, thoughtless, unfeeling men. Men who use women, treat them poorly and mislead them with their intentions.

I've been doing an extensive study in my few years at A F F (lost track of the numbers, but they're WAY up there I assure you) and I have not found this to be the case at all. Even if the encounter didn't pan out to be more then a drink, dinner or a one time sexual experience, I have never met anyone who treated me badly, led me to believe they were anything other than who they were and wanted more from me than we discussed prior to meeting. If anything I find men to be overly sensitive, easily hurt and more then willing to discuss their thoughts, feelings and expectations. Additionally, the majority are VERY willing to please.

I think we're all out there looking for something, someone and exploring the sexual side of ourselves. I personally don't know what my wants and needs are...I have a good idea, but hard to say definitively. Because of my own ambivalence, I understand quite well the inability of others to express themselves and what might seem like deception and being intentionally hurtful on their part, is actually caused by indecisiveness and self-confusion. How can you commit or tell someone what you truly want or feel, if you don't even know yourself?
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What's With The Mug Shots?
Posted:Mar 4, 2009 8:42 pm
Last Updated:Sep 6, 2019 4:18 pm
8886 Views
Have you ever noticed how many profile pics look like bad mug shots? Have to wonder why someone would post a pic of themselves not looking their best.....or IS it their best?
4 Comments
Wanna Meet Tonight?
Posted:Feb 22, 2009 8:01 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2016 7:09 pm
9289 Views
I get so many emails & IM's that ask to get together without additional correspondence, chat or phone conversations. They just don't work guys. Most women need a little more info before they decide to actually meet someone.
Almost have to liken it to plunging in with no foreplay
......It's not gonna happen!!
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