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Succumbing to Curiousity
I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
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What Inspires Your Blog Posts?
Posted:Jul 22, 2018 3:44 pm
Last Updated:Oct 7, 2018 12:30 pm
Many of my blogs are based on personal experiences. I often make my own situations or conversations into questions seeking opinions about what others would have done in the same circumstance.

There have also been times I have posted certain things knowing a particular person, or people were reading because I knew it was something they’d like to see (aaah...my days of exhibitionism).

There have been occasions that I wanted to blog about something, but refrained since I knew the person involved in the subject matter would be reading and I didn’t want to hurt his feelings or embarrass him since others knew we were seeing each other.

How do you come up with your subject matter?
Does It Make You Horny? Questions for All Genders
Posted:Jul 5, 2018 8:42 am
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2019 9:39 pm

As someone who uses an ipad I generally sign into the A F F mobile site. The home screen displays pics and videos, larger and more prominent than using the desktop version (which is unfortunately the only way to access blogs). Realizing that I barely pay attention to the dick pics and thinking that people who do not frequent sites like this on a regular basis would most likely be shocked, disgusted, curious, or very turned on, made me revisit a blog I posted years ago and thought it would make a good poll. So here goes...

Has looking at the barrage of pictures online of naked peeps, genitals, boobs,
and the such, desensitized you?

Did you used to get turned on by most of them, and now only a select few?

What about videos/porn?
Admittedly, some are intriguing, but after routinely watching, do you still find them erotically arousing?

Comments as well as poll response will be appreciated.

Pretty much ignore the graphically explicit pics.
Turned on even if I have seen them multiple times.
Need somethings specific in pics and videos to get me horny (please explain).
16 Comments , 126 votes
How Long Before You Meet?
Posted:Jun 5, 2018 7:08 pm
Last Updated:Jul 10, 2018 5:53 pm

You strike up a conversation emailing or text, or even talk on the phone. You feel like you are making a connection and talk about meeting. I'm one that likes to do it fairly quickly...week or two at the most. Even just to get together after work...sort of an undate...a one on one meet n' greet. If someone cannot find time for a casual get together it makes me think either they aren't that interested in meeting, they are scared to meet, getting together in the future will always be complicated even if you like each other, or they are just too busy to have anyone in their life.

Curious to find out what others, who are here (or anywhere) to actually meet prefer.
Less than a week.
One to two weeks
Three weeks to a month.
More than a month.
Completely spontaneous and meet immediately.
29 Comments , 184 votes
Guide to a Great Sexual Experience
Posted:Jun 1, 2018 9:02 pm
Last Updated:Nov 29, 2019 10:22 am
An older post worth repeating....

I hear it from younger men that they want to be with an older woman because of her experience so they can learn. As one who has no desire to teach during play, I still am willing to give some advice. First and foremost, SLOW DOWN and SAVOR. Men seem to put so much pressure on themselves to bring a woman to orgasm that they concentrate mainly on the genitals and they don''t take into account that there is a whole body filled with erogenous zones wanting to be stimulated. Not that having someone lick a clit and finger fuck simultaneously is bad, but there is so much more...more before you get to that point.

It all starts with foreplay. Verbal foreplay is the beginning, words, through chat or spoken....teasing conversation, playful innuendo, expression of desire, all gets things started. This leads into a good make out session - kisses, soft tender, then deep passionate and wet. Touching, stroking the entire body. Of course the breasts and nipples need attention, but exploring and discovering every inch is pleasantly erotic and extremely stimulating. Don't rush through this...take your time it will get a woman to the point where she wants you to go down on her and/or fuck her...her body is craving the ultimate intensity of feeling you tease her clit...enter her now very wet, wanting pussy...anxiously anticipating your hard cock deep inside, sliding in over and over again.

Moments like this are not just for your first encounter. In order for a sexual relationship to sustain, there needs to be continual passion, not just the mechanical, lets both have an orgasm and be done with it, sex. There will be times that a fast fuck is desired; however, that should be the exception, not the norm. By the way, if any women are reading this...the same should be reciprocated to the man. He may like a quick blow job to get things started, but once he's experienced someone appreciating and lusting over his entire body, taking a slow passionately erotic approach....he'll never forget it.
Pleasantly Surprised
Posted:May 20, 2018 8:17 am
Last Updated:Jun 1, 2018 6:49 pm
I have recently been receiving comments on some of my older blogs. Nice to know they are being read. Topics are still relevant and others' opinions are always appreciated.

How Not to Get a Women
Posted:Mar 8, 2018 7:09 pm
Last Updated:Apr 6, 2018 4:34 pm
Does he really want ? Got this email today accompanied by a variety of dick pics.

very thick dick in need of some serious fuck release...Paul...ph number...Eating pussy gets me horny.

I do not get offended, do not even take it seriously......he most likely get's turned on just writing that to me. It is nothing personal.

Posted:Feb 24, 2018 7:32 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2018 4:35 pm

Just hit the 12 year mark here and see quite a few people I've seen for the entire time I've been here...some I've met, chatted with, hooked up with or just notice they were here too. Wonder how they still find themselves on A FF after all these years and they probably wonder the same about me. Concerned about the married/attached ones who are stlll hiding from their significant others. Sad they still need to look for some type of relationship outside of their home life.
Is Everyone Into Kink Except Me?
Posted:Jan 23, 2018 7:37 pm
Last Updated:Jul 1, 2018 3:43 pm
i've been here a looong time and have never seen so many men's profiles who are looking for a kinky woman. They want to spank, play bondage games and of course, fuck analy (or is it anally?).

I am far from a prude. I'm very adventurous, open minded, and have had, and hope to have multiple adventures of a sexual nature, but I'm not into being dominated or have pain inflicted on me or inflict it on anyone else.

Have to wonder if all these men who want kink have actually exoerienced it and want more of it, or have seen it in porn and feel they are missing out on something if they are not doing it too.

Question for the older men. Before the barrage of porn sites showing women dominated by men became the norm is this something you longed for?

What worries me is there is a whole generation growing up thinking this is what everyone wants and if they aren't doing it they are not meeting their sexual potential.

With the recent outspokeness of women who feel they have been coerced by men how many succumb to sexual acts they do not feel comfortable with, but feel obligated.
Demise of A F F Chatrooms?
Posted:Nov 12, 2017 1:30 pm
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2018 8:54 pm
For many years (@10) I was an active chatter in local groups and chatrooms. I made close friends of all kinds. Some for romantic or sexual purposes, others just to share opinions and thoughts with and my everyday life. We had online relationships as well as saw each other in person on a regular basis. As the people closer to my age and location slowly moved on I frequented the rooms less and less. I now occasionally check in and no one is there. Where there used to be 20-50 people chatting anytime of day or night, there is barely a few.

I was wondering if this was the same elsewhere, in other locations. Has the membership changed so much that no one is here to communicate (including fun sexual banter)? Is the fact that now most are on their phones and not using a computer changed our online activities?

I never thought I'd get over the addiction of compulsive chatting here...many hours a day. Hours of fun. But, I did, and apparently most everyone else did too.
Damn, I Used to Have Fun
Posted:Jul 4, 2017 11:35 am
Last Updated:Jun 1, 2018 6:51 pm
Wrote the blog post Celebrating the 4th 8 years ago and it now seems like a distant memory.

One can never predict the changes that will take place in our lives. I have many things to be grateful for these days...but am sure missing the carefree excitement I had not that long ago.
31st Virtual Symposium - Screen Name
Posted:Jun 4, 2017 5:08 pm
Last Updated:Jun 5, 2017 8:21 pm
Thought I'd jump into the symposium with a blog post I wrote a while ago. Read... How'd you get yours

How many years on A F F?
Posted:Apr 21, 2017 4:47 pm
Last Updated:Jun 1, 2018 8:31 pm
As I wrote a few months ago, I've been here over 11 years. Unlike some, I've never even taken a break and then came back for more.

I know from faces (and other body parts) I've seen here on almost a daily basis, there are quite a few that have been here many years too.

So to satisfy my curiousity, how about telling me how long you've been here. This includes those of you who are here just lurking (profiles off). If you want to elaborate on your time here I'd be happy to read that too. But, no negativity please. I'm well aware there are a lot of deficiencies on this site. However, it obviously serves a purpose for each of us...and...well....nothing is perfect!

Lifts My Spirits
Posted:Apr 14, 2017 8:09 pm
Last Updated:Apr 22, 2017 7:49 pm

One of the mildest, virtually snow free winters we've ever had in this area, but the lack of sunshine tends to bring me down.

Now that we can surely say winter's behind us and spring has sprung, my spirits are lifted.

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