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Succumbing to Curiousity
  
I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
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No New Year Resolutions for Me
Posted:Jan 3, 2016 1:12 pm
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2016 4:57 pm
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I'm not one to make resolutions at the start of the calendar year. If anything, I do them on my birthday since it is the start of my new year. Even those I do half-heartedly since I know it's nothing I can keep. I pretty much resolve to improve me self physically and mentally each day...and have trouble following through with even that....new diet..new attitude, etc.

While doing a random search for resolution pictures to illustrate this blog, I came across this blog quote (not from A F F) and agreed with the sentiment.
. What about you...preferable topic, don't you agree?
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Too Damn Lazy
Posted:Dec 13, 2015 6:35 pm
Last Updated:Apr 11, 2016 4:57 pm
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Reading a blog about some new sex toys and another about how many sex partners this year, made me think about that not only haven't I made an effort to meet many new men. I also seldom make the effort to use any toy other than my Wand.

WTF...how have I become so complacent?!?!
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Reminiscing
Posted:Dec 9, 2015 7:47 pm
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2015 1:05 pm
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A reader just commented on my blog post from 7 years ago. DIVINE GLADNESS. So many life changes since then. Look back on that time of my life and sigh....
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Ads on Local Adult Companion
Posted:Dec 8, 2015 8:20 pm
Last Updated:Dec 9, 2015 7:26 pm
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I was recently thinking about the fact that there are so many ads on A F F depicting outlandishly enhanced porn type videos, either live action or cartoons. Then today...look what appeared on my sign in page!!! Unless it's a fetish I've never heard about, not much of a turn on, is it?
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Standard Members - How Do You Decide?
Posted:Nov 28, 2015 1:45 pm
Last Updated:Nov 30, 2015 6:30 pm
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If you can't see pictures (many main profile pictures are pretty obscure) and you can't read what people have written in their profiles, how do you decide who to IM, approach in a chatroom and communicate with whatever way is still available to you on A F F?

As a woman, when I'm approached here by a man. especially the one's who say they want to meet me, who has no clue what I look like, and doesn't know anything about me, I sort of make the assumption he's just hitting on any and every women he can, and just hopes to get lucky.
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How important is oral sex?
Posted:Nov 5, 2015 8:56 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2017 10:42 pm
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A recent blog I commented on explored the topic of swallowing which brought on discussions about oral sex in general.

As someone who couldn't imagine sexual encounters that don't involve some type of oral stimulation, I wouldn't be in a relationship with anyone who didn't feel the same as me. I always thought that the desire to give and receive should be mutual. It should be a turn on to both to give it and get it. Sure there are times we are not in the mood to give it our all, but those times should be the exception

It seems the complaint of many married or attached men who are here who are unhappy with their sexual relationship with their significant others say their significant others either never engaged in oral sex or used to but stopped doing it.

Women complain that men don't want to go down on them. Or they feel weird letting men do it.

So my question is can you be full satisfied sexually if oral stimulation was not part of sex play?

And another question. Do you think you can be faithful to someone who does not fulfill you sexually?
Yes, I could be satisfied
No, I wouldn't be satisfied
I may not be faithful
I would remain faithful
One more thing...Do you know why A F F Xs out photos in polls?
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Question for All Bloggers - Help Please!
Posted:Oct 17, 2015 2:12 pm
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2015 7:52 pm
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As the changes keep happening on this site, I worry about it's demise or at least our access to all the blogs we have written. Anyone have any suggestion as to how to save our blogs elsewhere, short of copying and pasting each one? For some of us that would be an enormous undertaking.

I hate to see all my thoughts and anecdotes disappear in cyberspace or still be there floating around somewhere and me not being able to retrieve them.
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New Site Rules
Posted:Oct 12, 2015 8:50 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2015 4:09 pm
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It seems A F F is following suit of the other dating/hook up sites by only allowing paying members to send and reply to emails....unless of course, the paying members want to pay extra so standard members members can read and reply to their emails and read their profiles.

As someone who used to frequent multiple sites, I stopped paying years ago because you never knew who could respond or who couldn't and it became a total waste ot time and money to continue paying for memberships.

Supposedly standard members can still blog and I think still IM here, which you can't do elsewhere, but I hate to assume, but it seems probable that those privelages may soon disappear soon.

Considering I get free gold membership because of my long term and constant activity here I probably shouldn't be one to complain. However, if I can't communicate with most of the other people here, what good is my membership, even if it's free?
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Would you rather be ignored?
Posted:Oct 11, 2015 1:28 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2017 10:44 pm
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Once again,I was told I was rude to have an auto-reply. For those of you that haven't received it, it just reiterates what I say in my profile about that I'm serious about not being interested in married men or men a lot younger than me. Of course, the comment that I was rude came from someone who is married. The way I figure it, if he respected what I wrote in my profile he wouldn't have emailed me in the first place to receive my auto-reply.

I was under the impression that it is better to give some response explaining why I wasn't emailing back than just ignoring.

Got me wondering...would you rather your email be ignored, or receive an auto-reply?
Ignore
Autoreply
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Did Ya Ever?
Posted:Sep 7, 2015 7:46 pm
Last Updated:Sep 12, 2015 9:25 pm
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Did you ever have to click on a profile picture to figure out what it is?
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An Apt Blogger Quote
Posted:Aug 31, 2015 9:12 pm
Last Updated:Sep 2, 2015 7:03 pm
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I came across this quote and it most definitely applies to me.


I am not going to threaten to stop blogging. But, I truly feel I have nothing of interest going on in my life, or my mind at this time worth writing about.

Will continue to check in...occasionally comment on others' blogs and peek in my local chatroom because I don't want to risk losing my free gold membership. And as always, I want to keep my options open. One never can tell when someone out there might tweak my interest.
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Bad Timing
Posted:Jul 30, 2015 8:57 pm
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2015 7:05 am
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I've been trying to make plans to meet a couple men who seem to have potentional to be the type I could be quite attractive too, but I've had this sinus congestion, cough thing going on for weeks and unfortunately feeling like this makes me feel very unsexy
. I certainly hope I start feeling better soon.
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Trending Blogs - A New Trend?
Posted:Jul 14, 2015 7:53 pm
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2016 3:58 pm
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