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Succumbing to Curiousity
I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
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How Women Think Men Think
Posted:Jun 29, 2015 8:48 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2016 8:23 pm

So repeatedly emailing or IMing saying you are serious, honest and sincere doesn't work. Because if you were as respectful as you say you are, you'd accept the fact that a no reply, an auto-reply or a reply of "not interested" means please don't continue to contact. You will not change our minds. You may be a perfectly nice person (or at least you think you are), but not what we are looking for. We are not obligated to explain why.

I'm not writing this because I'm pissed off...just annoyed by men who on a regular basis keep emailing me when I'm obviously not interested. It makes them seem pathetic....not more interesting.
Justifiable Paranoia?
Posted:Jun 28, 2015 6:17 pm
Last Updated:Sep 17, 2015 8:18 pm
Once again when I asked someone to email me a face picture here I was told he didn't like to send photos on this site...worried it wasn't secure enough.

I understand some people don't like to put their face on their profile. Even though if someone sees it are here, they are here too. Understandably some worry because this does appear to be a porn site unless you delve deeper into activities like chatrooms and blogs. Though some blogs are pretty much all pictures of sex acts and naked people and their various body parts.

Still, I feel if I am exchanging emails here it is as safe as sending on other email services. As we all know EVERYTHIING on the internet is vulnerable to hacking. Nothing is absolutely secure.
So should you be paranoid or take a chance if you are interested in making a connection with someone here?

Any ideas?
Posted:Jun 12, 2015 9:41 pm
Last Updated:Jun 21, 2015 6:36 pm
Can't think of anything to write about that I haven't written about before. I welcome suggestive suggestions and questions. happyf;
It Finally Happened
Posted:May 14, 2015 8:06 pm
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2016 2:11 pm
There has seldom been a day in over 9 years that I haven't signed into A F F. And during that time I almost always stopped into either a group chatroom or my local chatroom for a few minutes or many hours. Not only have I chatted online with these people, but met frequently for social gatherings and even dated and/or hooked up with quite a few. Hard for me to believe, but I've finally lost interest. It's not that I don't like the people...well, most of them... but lately they've changed and I feel I have very little in common with the ones that seem to frequent most often. I'm sure I'll pop back in occasionally, but it is certainly no longer a habit.

As obvious by the infrequency of my blogging, I'm finding very few new topics to blog about. I'm not leaving the site, as many declare they plan to do, because I still hope to meet men and A F F has been a great resource for me in that respect. However, I haven't been too success with that lately, but as I've written repeatedly, I'm still hopeful.
Just Go For It!
Posted:Apr 26, 2015 1:12 pm
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2018 7:05 pm
It's been a few years since after chatting online with someone from out of town who was coming here for business I actually agreed to meet. We went out for a nice dinner and then back to his hotel room (I really like a good hotel room!) It didn't take long for me to remember how exciting a casual, spontaneous encounter could be.

In case you question meeting a relative stranger...I did my due diligence and during our chats we talked about many personal aspects of our lives and I also googled him before agreeing to meet. Hooking up was not a done deal, until after we met.
Meet or Chat or ????
Posted:Apr 20, 2015 6:00 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2017 10:43 pm

I joined here as I would any other dating site, to meet men. I ended up doing more....I chat, blog, perv videos and cams....even cammed. But my goal here is to actually meet in person, which I have done since I joined and continue to do.

What about you? What is your primary reason for being here?
Watch Video's and/or Cams
Anything else? Please explain.
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What Are You Passionate About?
Posted:Apr 13, 2015 5:44 pm
Last Updated:Jun 10, 2015 8:36 pm
As I started off the week in kind of a funk, I thought about why. I came to the conclusion that at the moment I have nothing or anybody I feel truly passionate about. I love my family and they mean everything to me. I like my job and where I live. Things are not really that bad, but I am missing something...I have no intense feelings about anything in my life right now.

What about you?

You Read What?
Posted:Apr 4, 2015 12:39 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2016 8:46 pm

I have no problem that people do not comment on my blogs all the time. I read plenty and don't always do it either. Not because I didn't find the blog interesting, but I have nothing to add, or I feel I've giving my opinions on some subjects way too many times already.

However, I am curious what blogs of mine people read. Do you only read the most recent, or do you go through the list and read things I've written years ago? Unless someone does write a comment bloggers don't know what has been read unless they go through their blogs to see when they were last visited and I'm not so sure of the accuracy of that.

So if you all don't mind. Let me know what you're reading. It may inspire me to write more on certain topics.
Grab a Handful
Posted:Mar 28, 2015 6:57 am
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2015 12:12 pm
I have struggled with my weight...I should clarify...excessive weight...for quite a few years. My relationship with food is a constant battle for me. I know there are those out there who say it doesn't matter, be happy about yourself...you are a bbf. I struggle with that concept. I don't dislike myself, or my body to the extent I don't want to be seen naked or have sex. I don't get dressed and think I look terrible. I do not consider myself unattractive. I do Zumba two-three days a week. My knees are hurting and I know excess weight contributes to that. What it all comes down to is, I eat too much. I love food and have issues with portion control.

What is really bothering me now is my belly. It seems as I've gotten older the fat has redistributed, specifically I think after hitting menopause. I have a flabby belly. I might have had fat all over before, but never this. And I hate it.

I'm not trying to make any point with this blog. It is just my thought for the day. As the warmer weather is approaching (unfortunately, not quite here yet) I look in my closet and find the clothes I wore last summer don't fit me the same as they did last summer. So as of this week I once again am trying to change my eating habits and take my exercising up a notch...but it's just about April, I'm starting too late. I know when beach days are here I won't look the way I want. I do not have unrealistic expectations. I'm just hoping to go down maybe one or two sizes. As I said...just thinking and trying to keep a postive attitude.
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Does This Make Me Bi?
Posted:Mar 21, 2015 11:21 am
Last Updated:Dec 10, 2019 9:48 pm

I consider myself heterosexual; however, I have had sex with women at parties or in a three some. During those experiences it was all about the sex....for fun and pleasure. It didn't matter who I was having it with, male or female. I never look at a woman and have the desire to have sex I don't feel any physical attraction or curiosity toward women. I think as myself as someone who likes sex and will have it, when the situation arises, with either sex. I wouldn't label myself as bi. What do you think?

Here's links to a couple of my blogs with thoughts on 3 somes:

And they thanked me She writes with a grin and They asked
Happens When You're Not Looking
Posted:Mar 9, 2015 8:19 pm
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2015 12:08 pm

About two years ago I was all excited because I had reached100 blog watchers 98 And Counting. Stopped paying attention and just realized I have 175. Can I make it to 200? I'm thinking that may require some titillating and intriguing posts. I'm not so sure I have it in me anymore...but then again, one never knows.
Who Initiates Contact - Men or Women?
Posted:Mar 7, 2015 3:37 pm
Last Updated:Jun 1, 2018 8:42 pm

It seems that all too often women, myself included, seldom make the initial email (or IM) contact. I'm not sure why. Is it some engrained double standard that men should make the first move? Fear of rejection? Fear of disappointment that the profile reads better than the real thing?

When making the first move, especially here, a sexually oriented site, does it make a woman seem like a, for lack of better word ,"slut"? Given the "get laid tonight" message on A F F , will a man assume since she's contacting him that she wants to have sex with him?

Women complain they get emails from too many men who don't meet their stated criteria. Maybe they would do better if they emailed the men that appealed to them, instead of waiting for Mr Right to email first.

Looking back on the more successful relationships I've had from here, I have often contacted men whose blog intrigued me, amused me in a chatroom or profile caught my eye.

Curious to know what others think about this topic.
Why Do You Masturbate?
Posted:Mar 1, 2015 3:18 pm
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2015 3:41 pm

As I was spending a lazy day home alone on the couch, reading, watching tv, blogging, chatting, etc., I wasn't feeling particularly horny, but I had the urge to masturbate...so I did. It got me thinking, why?

I will do it because I'm bored or restless or need a little help falling asleep. I keep my Hitachi Wand plugged in next to my bed. In just a few minutes...a nice big O does the trick.

Other times I masturbate...well...just because I can, and it feels good.

What about you?

Here's a blog with links to some other posts on the subject:
Masturbation Month

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