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Succumbing to Curiousity
 
I use every other aspect of this site and figured it was about time I started a blog. Not quite sure what I'm going to write. But as most people who know me know...I have a very over-active brain that doesn't stop...filled with thoughts of all kinds.
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Accepting Friend Requests
Posted:Feb 25, 2015 10:06 pm
Last Updated:Feb 28, 2017 4:50 pm
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Unless someone seems really creepy or annoys me.
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Didn't Mean to Tease
Posted:Feb 23, 2015 5:19 pm
Last Updated:Feb 3, 2022 10:39 pm
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Thought I'd stimulate some conversation by changing my main profile picture to a picture of me I used in my blog Tried it, but soooo not me since the topic of BDSM is something everyone is talking about these days. Apparently, the picture stimulated a little more than just conversation. So I'll leave it up for just a little while to see what kind of reactions and comments I get.

As I wrote in that blog and another BDSM anyone everyone, it is not something I am into. I feel like a bit of of tease posting that picture on my profile, giving the impression, that's what I like...but it's all in fun!

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A Day for Skeptics
Posted:Feb 14, 2015 8:36 pm
Last Updated:Mar 1, 2015 12:13 pm
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Valentine's Day seems to bring out the skepticism in a lot of people, especially those who have failed in relationships at one time or another in their lives.

Even though at the moment I don't seem to have any prospect of someone to be in love with...not just like a lot, I still feel that there must be a man out there that I will meet one day, who I will feel passionately about, and want to share my life with.

Unrealistically optimistic? I hope not.
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More Horny?
Posted:Feb 7, 2015 9:44 am
Last Updated:Feb 12, 2015 7:59 pm
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Seems to me that the more sex I have, the hornier I am. What about you?
I am hornier when I have frequent sex.
Frequent sex makes me less horny.
4 Comments , 47 votes
Taste Test
Posted:Jan 16, 2015 4:56 pm
Last Updated:Oct 20, 2018 7:04 pm
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Have you tasted your cum? I'm not talking about a big gulp necessarily, could have been just a small taste. A few men in a chatroom discussion said they never had. I find that hard to believe. BTW no women denied they have done it.
I'm a man, yes I have tasted myself
I'm a man, no I have never tasted myself
I'm a woman, yes I have tasted myself
I'm a woman, no I have never tasted myself
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Hey Artmvr - What's Up?
Posted:Jan 14, 2015 6:33 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2016 10:20 pm
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Profile's turned off, but you check out my blog occasionally, which makes me curious....wondering what's going on in your life....omg...you used to make me laugh!
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Where'd They Go?
Posted:Jan 10, 2015 7:42 am
Last Updated:May 21, 2015 5:28 pm
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While perusing my blog for one I had written quite a few years ago, I noticed some blogs were missing the pictures I use to illustrate them. These are not new, clip art, or anything copywrited (that I was aware of). Occasionally, a picture is rejected on submittal, but I've never had old ones removed before.

I generally google a topic and find an image I feel goes well with what I had written, or sometimes I start with the picture and write with that in mind.

One of life's small frustrations...

The picture on this blog post disappeared!!!

Trying again....let's see if it stays put this time.

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Ghosting - Is it a new dating trend?
Posted:Jan 1, 2015 2:17 pm
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2015 1:11 pm
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When a man or woman completely stops talking to someone they met online, texted with, has gone on a date or dates with, slept with This is done in hopes that the ghostee will just “get the hint” and leave the ghoster alone, as opposed to the ghoster simply telling them they are no longer interested. Many feel ghosting is a way to cease dating the ghostee without hurting feelings.

Would this even be an issue if when someone hasn't heard from a person they think they care about, they take the initiative and just go for it.... give a call...text...email.. use whatever is the preferred means of communication. (I think making this move is especially an issue for some women).
Have you been a ghost?
Have you been a ghostee?
Have you been both?
5 Comments , 32 votes
Adult Chat Rooms
Posted:Dec 27, 2014 10:59 am
Last Updated:Jun 15, 2018 9:03 pm
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Made me chuckle....I've only clicked on "adult chat rooms' hundreds (in actuality thousands) of times and today thought, are there any other kind here?



To add to my amusement, when googling pictures of "woman laughing" to illustrate this post, the option came up "woman laughing with salad". Now wondering, is that a common search? At least it wasn't "tossed salad"


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I agree. Let's Meet!
Posted:Dec 13, 2014 11:53 am
Last Updated:Jun 1, 2018 8:40 pm
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A recent conversation with a chatroom acquaintance brought up the discussion about reluctance to give out information before meeting. Because the woman he was planning to meet wouldn't give him personal contact info and he was unable to let her know he was running late (for a very legitimate reason). She was then under the assumption she was being stood up, and left before he arrived, 40 minutes late.

I told him I would never agree to meet someone who I hadn't had a conversation with off of A F F, on a personal email/IM, text or phone call. I also insist on receiving a face picture (current). If someone refuses, I will not agree to meet. With the ability to IM and email on cell phones I don't always find it necessary to give a phone number, but I always make sure that we can get a hold of each other if anything happens on the way to meet and usually discuss that when making plans to meet.

Agreeing to meet should mean you already like the person and have some level of trust. We all have to take precautions to meet safely, a public venue is always the best choice, make sure you are in a situation you can easily get out of, even it it's just because you misjudged and are extremely bored. But, if you are that worried about their character, so much that you can't even give an email address, why agree to meet in the first place? Presumably, you are hoping to establish a friendship and ultimately a sexual relationship....yes, people do hope to have sex (not necessarily on the first meet).

I've been doing the online dating scene many years on A F F and other sites and have no bad stories to report. Not all resulted in a second date or more, but no regrets...some sweet, some sexy and some I look back, nod my head and just have to consider amusing.

Here's a few other blogs I've written relating to this subject:

Serial Dating
Were You Mislead
You Expect What
Stood Up
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Accepting Gifts
Posted:Dec 6, 2014 7:33 am
Last Updated:Sep 3, 2018 9:33 pm
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I have been seeing someone for almost two years. It is not a serious, committed, monogamous relationship. How often we get together varies....could be every other week, but then also a month can go by before we get together again. We enjoy a lot of the same things... we are both foodies, like to travel, movies, etc. We are good friends who happen to also have sex. Not a great romance, but a very nice relationship. A great example of FWBs that actually works.

He travels a lot on business and often buys me gifts, mainly jewelry. I am appreciative, but I don't wear jewelry very often and already have a few favorite items that I have collected over the years, some with sentimental value. I feel a little guilty that I seldom wear what he buys me. I have said numerous times, please don't get me anything else, but he says he likes getting me things. BTW money is not an issue for him. So I accept graciously. I never buy him anything, he buys himself anything he can possible want. And I'm struggling financially. Which is another issue for me. Not that I would ever accept money to help pay my bills, but when he gives me something or takes me out to a dinner that would pay off some of my debts I can't help but think of the pointless extravagance. (Not that it stops me from enjoying a nice night out )

I know others have way worse dilemmas than this. OMG, I have way worse dilemmas than this! But as the holiday and gift giving season is upon us, it's something I can't help but think about.


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What do you wear to sleep?
Posted:Nov 15, 2014 10:52 am
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2015 8:49 pm
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I recently spent a few nights taking care of my grandkids. Due to the fact they little ones tend to crawl into bed with me in the middle of the night I couldn't sleep naked. I just wore a sleeveless nightshirt and panties, but was terribly uncomfortable and greatly relieved when I returned home and climbed in between the sheets feeling unencumbered - completely naked.

Do you wear anything when you sleep, or are you naked?
Naked
Pajamas
Nightgown/Nightshirt
Bottoms Only
Top Only
Underwear
33 Comments , 429 votes
In Defense of Dick Pics
Posted:Oct 10, 2014 4:30 pm
Last Updated:Jan 23, 2020 5:40 pm
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They do get to be annoying at times, but then every once in a while you come across one that looks so friendly you want to get to know it better.
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