Moved my first things in
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Posted:Oct 29, 2013 5:15 pm
Last Updated:Dec 14, 2013 3:24 am
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So its not a big deal but I have moved in a few things to "C", mostly bathroom stuff, shampoo, tooth brush and my own pillow... I have some boxes in my basement ready to go as well with cd's some books and my yearbooks in them....
"C" birthday is tomorrow - going out for dinner just the 2 of us and hopefully some adult fun afterwards.
I need to find a gf for one of his friends....we always hang out and he is a nice guy, but would be so much more fun with a date for him....
He is tall thin bulid
smart and funny
age 60
Has his own house
has a ( 16 years old)
and is divorce
he is employed
in the Racine area... looking for a LTR
I cant believe we are almost in November.... end of the year is in site.
Other wise not much to report....
Hope everyone is having a blast and keeping it safe.
xoxoxo
Molly
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Busted by my Mother
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Posted:Sep 28, 2013 6:50 pm
Last Updated:Jan 21, 2014 8:21 pm
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Yes... you read right...
First off I do not have a very good relationship with my mother, but I do my very best to keep the peace in the family.
One of her "rules" is that we talk on Sunday's... even if we have talked during the week, we still MUST speak on Friday via phone call. usually we take turns every other week calling one another . this is her way off keeping up with what is going on with her grandkids and life in general.
Yes I hate it, I have asked for it to stop in the past, but that just stated a huge fight and made my life hell... so again I just do it it is easier that way...
So last Sunday after church with the family I went over to "c" house to watch the packer game with his sons and a neighbor of his... so it was not like we were screwing on the couch or anything...
during the game my mother calls... I answered it ( if you don't answer the call that is a bad thing as well) .... the conversation stated out normal, until a call was made in the game and everyone around cheered.... she heard the cheering and asked where I was " I said I was watching the football game with friends" her voice changed and the conversation was ended with , I am sorry I caught you at a bad time, I knew she was mad...
when I told people at the party who it was and why she had called and the whole " I have to speak to her every sunday" they all stated picking on me.... I took it and laughed it off, but in side was so mad and embarrassed. I am 42 years old and should not have to check in with my mommy...
So when the game and party was done , I drove home and I called her back again being the bigger person and I knew she was mad so again going to smooth things over...
And she came right out and accused me of having an affair....
Now number 1 she is right, and I HATE that she is right, she is always fucking right.... Did I say I HATE it. But I didn't not let her know she was correct, she turned the situation into something about her, " she didn't want any surprises like my brother" ( ps my brother was divorced in 2012)
Number 2 she HATES my husband, she has not liked him since we started dating in Middle school, she didn't like when we got engaged, and she didn't like when we got married except that she got to be " the mother of the bride" so she was center of attention in her circle of family and friends.
So then I went on FB and posted a small rant... I never mentioned her, all I posted was I hated being treated like 12 year old and that I can choose my own friends at age 42.
NOTE: my mother has no computer or smart phone and is not online in anyway.
But my aunt who is on my page- called and told her what I wrote... with in 1 hour my mother called me back to yell at me for posting that, and that was not what she said....
OMG..I have been sick to my stomach all week, you know the feeling when you were a little and you did something wrong and you knew that when you got home you were in so much trouble...
I am not looking forward to the phone call I have to make on Sunday, I know what you are thinking, don't call her... if I don't call her, things will be 100 times worse... If I don't call I will be confirming her thoughts and if I don't call she will turn this around to be that I am mad at her and I don't care about her and I will be the worst ever which will turn into I am keeping information from her.... trust me It sounds so easy to just say fuck off I don't want to talk to you anymore.... but this is so much bigger that that, everyone bows to this women, she has this control over so many.
so my plan is to call on sunday , and act like nothing happened... give her the weeks highlights of the and if she says anything, I am going to simply say, I am not talking about my friends with her anymore.
wish me luck... I will still probably be on the shit list
xoxox
Molly
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The start of a new school year
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Posted:Sep 2, 2013 8:35 am
Last Updated:Oct 9, 2013 4:23 am
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Today is Labor Day , the last day of summer vacation before go back to school. Looking at my September calendar this morning, It is already filled with PTA meeting, Soccer Practice and games, one last Brewers Baseball game, Confirmation classes, open house at middle school, picture day and Sunday school starts up next week....
we are going to go from zero to 99 miles per hour in no time fast.
I am very nervous about my going to Middle school this year, don't get me wrong I am not one of those parents who doesn't want their to go up ... just the exact opposite, I cant wait for first dates and homecoming and prom and first jobs and graduation... I want my to live life like I never did.... but I am nervous that my night owl of a will never get up at 5:30 am to make it to the bus by 6:25 am. Coming from a school that didn't start until 9 to a school that start starts at 7, I totally expect me to get home from work to find him fast a sleep...lol
I have been walking ( for exercise) a lot this past week... feelin really good.
Well back pack are loaded up so I guess just going to sit back and enjoy the last day.
XOXOX
Molly
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Posted:Aug 29, 2013 4:47 am
Last Updated:May 20, 2024 11:22 pm
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I usually don't post this early in the morning, but have the time so why not... Getting ready to head into the Labor day weekend with lots planned, but let me back up to the beginning of the week.
On Sunday I went over to "C" house to return his key. I was House and cat sitting for him while he was on vacation with his boys. And I didn't have very much time just enough to say hi and go , but he missed me so much that it turned into the Best quickie I have ever had. He was instantly hard and it was so hot.
Then on Monday after work we spent the evening together, and again the love making was great, we had more time to take our time.
On Wednesday I took dinner over and was expecting a quite evening maybe watching TV or a movie, even though I was horney I didn't want to push him into another session as I know his back as been hurting him. But he is the one who started the kissing and rubbing so of course who am I to say no...LOL
He is going to take me out for lunch on Friday ( he doesn't have to work ) and we have date night on Sunday.... but with him having his boys in Sept, I know our Adult time will be much less this next month.
This weekend I have my cousins coming down for our Annual Brewer Game and tailgate and usually by now I have everything bought and ready to go... I don't have jack shit done, because this week has been wrapped up with "C". But also I cant get out of my head that "Mr. Big" stopped by my house on his motorcycle last Friday. He has Never BEEN to my house, ( or has he???) a girl never forgets her first affair and I got really lucky on that one.
So off to work in a few minutes and hopefully it goes fast.
XOXOXOX
Molly
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Where will I be in 5 years?
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Posted:Aug 23, 2013 12:11 pm
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2013 2:21 pm
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Did you ever get asked this question during an interview? Well I had a conversation with a friend of mine about a month ago and now at age 42 I think I might have an answer to that question....
My male friend "C" and I were coming home back from date at the state fair and we were having a deep conversation....
{ He is recently divorced (march 2013), he has been separated from his ex wife since 2012. He has 3 ( all boys 1 in college, 2 in high school) we have been having fun since about 2010. }
so the conversation went something like this:
ME: you know, now that you are divorced what do you see in your future?
Him: what do you mean?
Me: Well we have a great time together , but I am married and now you are not, so your options are wide open...just wondering what your plan is? Because if the past year or so you said you are NEVER getting married again, so are you really going to spend the rest of your life alone ( aka single)
Him: NO!!! first I am going to take care of my boys, get them all off to college or work or military and out of the house... then I will be interested in finding someone like you to spend the rest of my life with.
Me: someone like me, your going to keep having relationships with married women???
Him: No I am going to marry you...
Me: speechless for the first time in my life.
Back in 1996 I had a co-worker friend who said I always lived my life for the next big thing... I really never appreciated or slowed down enough to see what was happening right now....
Well talk about the Biggest Next thing EVER.
so in 5 years (201 the answer to the question is I be divorced and re-married.
I think I have a lot to think about in the next 5 years....
But guys will say anything to get laid... and he did get laid that night.
xoxox
Molly
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Cant think of a good title
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Posted:Aug 1, 2013 5:55 pm
Last Updated:Aug 26, 2013 7:33 pm
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Ok, just a little catch up on my last post....
The Saturday spa was great, but after that , it was a evening spent at Great America with the family.... so nice , but not quite what I had in mind...
The month of July was pretty low key for me as I had a few new meet and greets but so far no second dates.... both guys are pretty much just looking for sex without the friends part... which is the part I am looking for the most...
Daddy was out of town as well on business and non-business trip....
"C" had his boys for the month of July... so not much happening there either.
Hubby threw his back out helping the contractor moving the water heater so nothing happening there either....
Here is hoping for a better August... but not looking to promising... "C" has UTA this weekend, Next weekend is the Famous Family Reunion and then as surgery and then its 1 week until school starts...
getting very cozy with my toys...lol
Happy last bit of summer....
xoxox
Molly
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Weekend Fun
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Posted:Jul 19, 2013 4:21 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2024 11:22 pm
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The hope is HIGH...... On Saturday I have a total spa day planned for myself, New Hair.... I am going Bright Red, ( I hope) last time it turned out a Brown/Red... then its off to get finger and toes done.... only to wait... to see if anyone contacts me for an evening of fun on the town... or if I don't have a date planned very soon I will be forced to go to another "fun filled" day at Great America... These Season passes that I begged for are slowly becoming the death of me...LOL
This is my Only Free Saturday night all to myself for the rest of the Summer so I hopes its one I soon don't forget...
Cross your fingers for me.... I will surely report if I hit a home run 
xoxox
Molly
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it is going down hill fast
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Posted:Jul 5, 2013 11:12 am
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2013 12:48 pm
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My fwb is quickly tuning into a family friend.... "C" ( and his ) went to the fireworks with us ( my family and my gf family) on the 3rd and on the 4th. it is good, fine and everyone had a good time, but I think we saw each other in a different light over the 2 days... I was not turned on by him once. So I do believe the tide is changing into a friend relationship...
Tomorrow its off back home for the hubby's 25th class reunion... I will have a blast as I was more friends with his class than he was, plus its a small town and we ( were one of the few people who actually got out and stayed out. Lots of people left to go to school but from what I have heard over the years some returned to the small town....
July is here and summer has FINALLY arrived....
Got a very nice date over for later this month from my "Teacher" friend...if the email is true, it truly could be one of the best nights of my life ( 2nd only to prom and a trip out east) so we will see.
Mr. Big read my blog about him ( damm I forget that people read these sometimes) but very sweet of him to text and let me know he does like spending adult time with me)
On another subject, Am I behind the times or what , have you seen this great show called Naked and Afraid..... its my new vice....
Happy Summer
xoxox
Molly
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Summerfest
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Posted:Jun 27, 2013 6:36 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2024 11:22 pm
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I can t wait to go to Summerfest on Friday night.... I love to people watch... and there are always so many cute guys to watch and dream about.... going with a large group of friends , Any Local Adult Companion friends going???
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My first time
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Posted:Jun 27, 2013 6:34 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2024 11:22 pm
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I really hit the ball out of the park the first time I logged onto this web site, the very first guy I met face to face, anyone who follows this blog, will know I call him Mr. Big....because I had never date before I was married, this guy was the type of guy I NEVER get... he looked like the jock in high school and he had a personality too.... he was a great first meet, he was nice, carried on a conversation and treated me nice enough for this type of situation.... but of course being a girl, I feel in a very hard crush for this guy....
I knew he had other women including me, that was the type of guy he was.. a real player, lifetime bachelor....so now almost 8 years later we still chat via text message and I have it in my head that we are still friends ( secret friends) but anyway...he is getting married later this year and I am still shock about it, him of all people the world must be coming to an end kind of feeling, and there has always been talk ( between us) of his fantasy of a 3 some, I always volunteered my service...LOL LOL LOL......BUT TODAY... something out of the complete blue.....
he wants to hook up again ( so far just the 2 of us) when I read the text message, my heart starting beating faster and my hands were shaking....now that I have had a few hours to think about it, I am guessing he is just getting his last bit of fun before the bug day.... not that he wants "ME" but he wants to have sex with anyone who is available....
I hope I am available for one last go round with Mr. Big xoxo
Molly
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My face still hurts
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Posted:Jun 6, 2013 5:42 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2013 7:49 pm
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So Wednesday night brought a new meet and greet, one that I had built up in my mind that would be short and sweet, as his pic on line was super hot and if he really looked like that was way out of my league.
Well he did look somewhat like his pic, the baseball cap hid the really short hair, but other than that all was ok, we talked for a bit and he was really funny, I laughed all night long...I have not laughed so hard in a really long time, and VERY forward about sex, which at first was really nice as I like the guy to make the first move, but I quickly learned that he was looking for a women to be forward and make the first move and that is just not me, at least not until I am comfortable with a guy....
( side note, there has only been one guy that I feel comfortable talking to , but as soon as I see him , I totally freeze up....Mr. Big)
anyway we went for a drink as he was not comfortable at the place I choose to meet. again the talk was all sex ( not all but 90% for sure) which was ok but I did want to get to know him a bit.
Hint... Women ( me) want to have sex with a guy I am into even if its a fake relationship, I need my brain to say we have a connection.... its just how I work I guess.
so then he tried to get me to make moves on him but we were in very public places that I go on a weekly bases, I just couldn't get caught doing something like that, and honestly I wasn't turned on ( yet).
We headed to yet another place, where he realized he lost his cell phone, so while I waited he re-traced his steps to find it, about 1/2 hour later he re-returned empty handed. He was upset as it was a work phone and had found out that someone did find it, but they kept it....
the mood was over, and being the person I am I felt so bad for him.
I had VERY mixed feeling about him all night long.... he was good looking and funny, but very sexual driven in everything he did... a bit over the top for me in that department... not looking for the girlfriend experience I got the feeling, he just wanted to get laid. Nothing happened.
I was waiting to see if I would hear from him today, but nothing, so I guess that answers that, we weren't what each other was looking for... but very glad I got to meet him and I hope he didn't get in to much trouble about his phone.
I kept checking my phone for a message from my teacher friend, but nothing until I was in my driveway.
And a BIG thank you to my daddy for listening to me rant and rave in my crazy women head.....
well the weekend I almost here and sat should bring a ton of stuff, birthday party, then Great America, Than a great local band is playing in Franksville, The band is called weird science , look them up on Facebook for the details. I cant wait. hope you all have a great weekend- Please tell me summer weather will be here soon
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Meeting new people
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Posted:Jun 4, 2013 5:35 pm
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2013 5:12 pm
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So wed. I am meeting a new guy from this web site.... his pic on here is way to hot for me, but we will see if he even shows up.
lets see how it goes???
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