life keeps me living
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Posted:Jul 5, 2011 12:48 pm
Last Updated:Feb 2, 2019 1:07 am
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i have to admit i was having a pretty disappointing day today then i got an email that shocked awed and surprised me cuz finally - Helen Keller 'water'- it clicked for someone:
hey, howz it goin? I thought I would write to you again, just because I think you are a good person. I have read your profile a few times, and it made me step back and look at myself and I began to think. What the hell am I doing? Why am I even on this site? Am I so desperate for attention that I have to seek out the sluttiest woman I can find? Am I so unwanted and ugly that I have to stoop to these levels to be close to someone? I am much better than that. No, I'm not the greatest looking guy, but I'm not the ugliest guy either. And I see that 90% of the women on this site are very overweight and will lay with anything for a little attention. I can't just lay with a woman and forget her. Of course I love sex, but I want it to mean something. If I sleep with 100 women I'm still lonely because I have no emotional connection. I thought I would give this site a try but it was only because of all the photos of vagina and tits being flashed in my face and it's been so long since I've been close to a woman. You have taught me an important lesson. I don't think I will find what I'm looking for here on this site. So from now on I will try to be a little more balanced and a little more humbled. I could go on and on but I just wanted to touch base with you and say thank you for helping a 42 year old man grow up a little bit more.
so thank you so much Miguel, thank you for restoring my faith in possibility and for the opportunity.
quantity is fine and dandy if you're competing with someone but quality is always best.
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what's really goin on?
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Posted:Mar 29, 2011 3:58 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2011 12:58 am
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Ok so I've been a member on this site for a good min now and it seems that each year more and more females are the leaving the site while more and more men join but this hidden bi-sexual nature abundance is getting a little out of hand. Don't get me twisted cuz I have no care of or problem with a persons sexual preference and sexual expression; do you by all means GD but dayum let me know what's really going on. If you're bi, be bi but please be honest abt it cuz that's how shyt spreads. There are soooo many of you (women too now) who seem a bit scared to be themselves. My parents always stated that if you don't feel comfortable doing what you love in the light you shouldn't do it in the dark cuz it's only a matter of time before someone finds that light switch.
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actual email exchange
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Posted:Mar 5, 2011 1:06 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2020 4:42 am
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you're right it is Local Adult Companion but guess what.. the sites "main purpose" is actually whatever the user uses it for. if you see it as strictly for sex well good luck finding another woMAN looking for the same cuz mostly only other men think that way. feel free to read the blog "why i'm here" i copied and pasted Local Adult Companion's mission statement.. i know who would think they'd have one if it's just for sex  and match and pof have the same agenda as Local Adult Companion in all honesty, less scams sure but it's all the same. SOCIALIZE. that requires using more of your brain than just the tip, ya dig. regardless if it's a site for sex, ppl are still ppl. you want them to pay you mind, return the favor, be respectful and you will be respected. otherwise find a dark alley way or lonely street corner and put up 50cents lol.. ciao
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To: unkumitd
Date: Feb 2011 PM CST
Very intelligent and well written response. You're right. My message was fire and forget. I typically don't do that but after 6 months of no legitimate responses and scams I'm a little disheartened. I did go back to your profile. My response is simple. This is Local Adult Companion. The guys here are after sex.
Thanks again.
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Sender: unkumitd
To: (removed for privacy)
Date: Feb 2011 PM CST
i'll decline and here's a hint to what you're doing wrong: you're not considering your audience. you OBVIOUSLY by passed my headline and the words in the profile/free-to-access-to-standard-member-blogs. it's great that you decided to be direct as misguided as your penis seems to be right now. pay attention. it's the main issue all men on this site lack the ability to do. use your eyes more and penis less and you'll achieve all you want. good luck cuz you still need it.
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To: unkumitd
Date: Feb 2011 PM CST
I've been on this thing for almost 6 months now with no success. I'm sure I'm doing something wrong but not sure what. So I'm changing my approach and I'm going to be very direct. I'm here for the weekend and returning to San Antonio Sunday. I'd like to meet and, if we hit it off, spend a few hours of intimate time with you. I'm typically not the one night stand kind of person, but if that's what you want I'm game. What do you say?
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that's right, plead the 5th
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Posted:Feb 25, 2011 11:43 pm
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2011 12:00 am
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This one goes out to you again Wacohearts, you're a sad repeat project it seems, but heaven willing this is the last thing dedicated to your existence. you like to think and act like you're strong and respected, restrict and dictate what ppl do on this site and daily life, restrict and bind access and when called on it and challenged you run and hide. you're so .. hmm what's the best adjective... sloppy? cowardice? fake?? You aren't a real black woman, you are the taboo you preach and whine abt, but like all things kar_mah you will get yours sweetie. Local Adult Companion is such a small community after all. No threats, no lies, just honesty and real talk. Keep messing with me and I'll serve it back 3 fold. Watch yourself, cuz someone(s) else is watching you too now 
I'm gonna pray for you Wacohearts, haven't decided on which of your many apparent flaws blemishes and insecurities but I will pray til they are all accounted for.
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meaning less sex
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Posted:Feb 3, 2011 10:01 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2013 10:36 pm
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yes.. meaningless sex. if you mean nothing to a person why should you get their sex? i mean if you're not getting anything out of it why bother. i'm down with giving sexual pleasure but in order for me to want to give that pleasure, you have to matter.. and you just don't. no connection, no affection meaning: less sex 
originally posted on my alt profile kar_mah_2010
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... and i continue, cuz i'm aware of why *I'M* here
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Posted:Nov 15, 2010 10:06 pm
Last Updated:May 9, 2011 11:16 am
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Quoting HRN4: post on community's page abt a polling of Local Adult Companion being a "Sex Site" or not..
My original account that I registered with is with A.F.F. Yet, I can also log into Passion.com with the same login details. Which is advertised as a dating and personals site, except it promises to be a bit more "hardcore". Yes, I beleive those that have experienced this site (A.F.F) are able to use it to their own ends but because of the nature of the current set up. The original identity of A.F.F has been lost or misconstrued. The very fact that such a question is even presented proves my point. I believe, is it, 15 other sites that are meshed together with this one?
In that context, Passion.com #39;s existence becomes far greater, yet causes unnescessary misunderstandings. For example, in the simplest of terms. A guy joins A.F.F looking specfically for sex (as was advertised). A girl joins Passion.com looking specifically for a date (as was advertised). They both find each other on the search engines. Big difference in mentality there... one side instantly thinking what a prude and the other thinking what a chauvinist pig. Ok, perhaps nothing new there but I hope you get the point I'm trying to make.
The amalgamation of all these sites rolled into one means that the overall entity of A.F.F now involves all these other sites. Which means YES it is a sex site. YES, it is a dating site. YES, it is a personals site. YES, it is a blogging site.
More importantly can we actually find love here then?
YES WE CAN!! lol
(got a bit carried away there)
moral of the post is.. USE THE SITE AS YOU PLEASE cuz it's a site for EVERYBODY
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this one is dedicated to you.....
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Posted:Nov 7, 2010 7:43 pm
Last Updated:Jul 31, 2014 10:31 pm
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to all my Local Adult Companion stalkers .. please stop stalking! thanx for all the admiration and what not, but you're getting a bit too close for comfort. you KNOW who you are.. i don't want to put you out on front street like that and post your names (screen name and real name alike) but if you don't back up off these size 6 jeans real soon i'm gonna have to, consider yourselves notified and/or warned.
update: because you were warned - randyland27 of galveston, tx. let it go.. i turned you down polietly the first time cuz you were scary clingy but you couldn't take no so now men. women. couples of Local Adult Companion do watch out for this individual. if he emails you just block him from your profile. he will flood your filter box and comment on every pic you post like a psycho.
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thought you had it like that..
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Posted:Oct 20, 2010 10:13 pm
Last Updated:May 16, 2011 9:00 pm
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it's funny how, when sex is involved, ppl get big headed abt them selves and think they just got it like that. the source of a sexual encounter i had back in the day popped up out of no where a few weeks ago and text to let me know they were in town for one night only. my reaction was minimal and i think they got butt-hurt cuz they thought they had it like that. they expected me to drop what i was doing along with my panties because once upon a lonely night i shimmied into warm sheets with them. if only they had taken my polite no then, i wouldn't have had to bring reality crashing down on them. "You sucked, like badly. I wouldn't repeat it if I was getting paid by the govt as a service to you!" just incase you happen to stumble upon this blog, you know who you are sweet cheeks. don't ever assume your sex is that great cuz we both know how to fake things, i just do it better. you don't have it like that and i told you i'd give it to you straight. so please get over it cuz i'm over you, like the dish ran away with the spoon.
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afraid of... SEX?
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Posted:Oct 10, 2010 9:08 am
Last Updated:Nov 23, 2019 7:18 pm
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what is the deal? why is it so hard to say sex? why is it always "let's play".. "wanna have to fun?".. shyt i don't even really mind when i get messaged "let's fuck!" cuz atleast it makes sense. maybe it's cuz i went to school and paid attention in english and grammar and grew up in the normal world learning that play is play and fun is fun and sex is sex.
i guess if you're too afraid to use the word 'sex' you shouldn't be seeking it. so if you want to 'have fun with me' i'm going ot interpret it as a game of H-O-R-S-E and nothing more and if you ask to 'play with me' i'm going to assume you mean Monoply or Uno.. use the right terms unless you're scared of what you're looking for, and if you're too scared to use it, stop looking for it! if i was looking for sex trust i'm not going to be receptive to a person afraid to say the word. be grown up already, use grown up words ok.. geez-us
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why am i here you ask?
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Posted:Sep 24, 2010 11:48 am
Last Updated:Jun 25, 2011 9:32 am
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well looks like i have the right concept of why i chose this site, even by Local Adult Companion standards.. who knew.. and i quote:
The purpose of the Local Adult Companion site is to make it as easy as possible for you to meet people, using the power of the internet. At Local Adult Companion, you'll find a community of people using the site as a tool to make connections and find partners for dating, romance, friendship, and a variety of encounters. To find your match, we offer several powerful features, that allow you to narrow your search so you can find exactly the kind of person you, are looking for. On various occasions, we also add new features to make your time at Local Adult Companion a successful and fun experience.
so you can all suck it!! hahahahaha
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i wish i'd never met me
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Posted:Jul 7, 2010 11:05 am
Last Updated:Sep 13, 2020 8:11 pm
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maybe you will too. i was too real for the real world, i thought to well to learn. i lived like life owed me, and now we all sit here to burn. i wish i never met me, and that you never knew so soon, that ppl could be so hateful and weave you into spool. you hated me so much to keep a lie so grand, and because i walked on water i never felt the sand but now the sand is everywhere underneath my skin the hate you bestowed upon me it's THEM who'll never win. i saw the bigger picture, now that i am so small, i wish i never met me cuz i'm the one who set this fall.
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new status ?
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Posted:Jun 20, 2010 3:47 pm
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2021 4:25 pm
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i wonder how things on this site will change once that don't ask/don't tell is lifted off the military.. hmmm.. this could be interesting and i know a few ppl i ran into have already started altering who they are looking for. LIBERATION is the idea i suppose. more power to them and for the rest of you, happy poking
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