Preference to choke me from the front, not so much from doggie
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Posted:Sep 3, 2015 4:00 pm
Last Updated:May 27, 2024 3:38 pm
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If I'm on my back, and hes on his knees inside of me, in this position I get the full effect of that because I can see his arm extended and the look he gives when he's doing it. I can give him a look back "I dare you to squeeze harder" eye contact is the best silent communicator because I don't talk, I just look. And of course when he leans back to go fast I can see those abs working, his pecs are flared up because he's forcing me back to him every time he pushes in, even the sweat dripping down his forehead down his neck, further down his chest is soo hot. Oh yeah I am very visual! Steve says his abs are always soar the next day after he works me haha. He gonna be a buff guy here soon. You get none of this effect with being choked from behind or having my face shoved in a pillow, which dont get me wrong, has its moments  . But I do much prefer the intimacy of a front choke hold. Not till I pass out, but just enough
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A common fetish I encountered for the first time
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Posted:Feb 17, 2015 8:42 pm
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I went back to Cincinnati to work this past weekend and went out to the same bar I made that one "drunken note" blog post about. I was in a bit higher spirits this time seeing the old acquaintances and all of a sudden my lady friend got up from her stool on my right side to go to the dance floor and this unnaturally great looking guy was sitting one over resting his face in his hand with his elbow propped up on the bar staring right at me smiling. I had to double take that one and I couldn't help but smile, "WHAT in the world are you looking at??" I say. "He replies, "we'll as soon as I seen you in here I couldn't take my eyes off you". I was a bit in shock because no joke this dude is the status of a young Brad Pitt. I Say yeah sure and start talking to the bartender about whats been going on since I been gone. I hear him ask me what Im drinking, I say it's a June Bug, so he orders me an extra one. Now I'm straight confused, honestly I don't go out like this to get hit on, I just got off a 16 hour hectic ass serving shift this was Valentine's night and I was just baffled as to what in the world he was even looking at me for? I was a hott mess!
So he and I talked some, he's tossing me compliments about my smile and my eyes and eventually he says he doesnt normally go out to bars at all but his grandma is in hospice, and she's dying so he didnt want to be alone tonight. I think yeah, You're asking me if I wanna go home with you? LOL. I still play it cool, I say yeah well I'll take you home and hang out for a bit but Im not promising anything is going to happen. He said no problem at all.
Fast forward we're back at his place hes obviously a bachelor hes got free weights on the ground like he works out often, and just seeing him in the bar I could tell that. He's not buff, but just my type, slim frame athletic built.
I sit on his bed after I take off my shoes he sits down right besides me and immediately props my legs up on his lap. He says, "Now, I have to say I have a weird fetish I hope it doesnt freak you out at all". I smile I say let me guess, since you just put my legs up on you I assume its a foot fetish?" He said, yes, do you mind? I said well, I just got off a 16 hour job where I was running around like a mad woman non-stop, but if THAT doesnt bother you, then have at it! He smiles and pulls my socks off "no actually I love that you worked all day" with a naughty little smile on his face.
So we'll stop here to describe him. He's probably about 5'10, curly blond hair thats cut short on the sides but just long enough on top and slicked back so you can see that it is definitely curly. Beautiful blue eyes. He obviously shaved his chest but there would not have been a whole lot of hair on there if he didnt shave it, I honestly am not bothered by some hair on the chest. His beard had about 2 days of growth on it so it was a bit stubbly like he was obviously not planning on bringing anyone home tonight (I like it rugged like that . He had a gorgeous 6 pack going on on his abs almost an 8 pack and a few Japanese words tattooed on his arms. Nice full lips for a guy, and hes 24 years old. I will say his name is Jake (His real name is not Jake). He just so happens to honestly be a t-shirt model.
So, after he pulls off my socks he starts petting my feet then massaging them. He kept making comments, "Wow, do you get manicures?" No, uhm, its been about a year and a half since Ive had the only one I've ever had. "you have perfect feet, I love them!". He puts my feet down for a second and inches closer to me and comes in for a kiss, I kiss back and it started out so soft and gentle then gradually added tongue and became a bit more intense. We kissed for about 10 minutes, where then he sat back again to where my feet were and put them back on his lap.
Hes testing the waters seeing how far I'd let him go; he looks up at me, "Do you mind if I smell them?" I said hey, like I said, I'm beat, so long as you're not hurting them, you do what you please this feels great  . So he gets off the bed starts taking off his cloths where I see his beautiful body, hes fully naked and totally hard, gets back on the bed and sits down facing towards me with his legs stretched out to my sides he picks up both my feet and puts them in his face and takes a deep breath. "oh they smell so good!". Im just smiling. he asks if I've ever had anyone suck my toes before, I say yeah, me and my 1st fiance were experimenting different things and tried it, it was fun but nothing we ever did again. He asked if I mind if he sucks on my toes, I say nope, have at it with a smile. So he does. It feels great, I'd have to say it didnt turn me on at all, it was just like an amazing massage, me looking at his hott body is what turned me on, but I wasn't about to rush him, I just laid back. I showed him this little wave thing I can do with one of my toes and he seemed in love with it. It was so sweet. He said hes never met a girl who was totally OK with this fetish and he was really loving every moment. Since his feet were resting up along my arms I started to massage his feet, he said that it felt great, then he sort of inadvertently asked me to try sucking his toes as he says, "No one has ever done this to my feet before", I say oh really? Are you curious what it feels like? He said yes, so I start to suck on his toes too (Again, it wasnt turning me on except for the fact that he was soooo so into it). He said that he loved it. I sucked on his for about 10 minutes then stopped because I couldnt focus anymore with how into it he was getting with what he was doing with mine.
I'd just try to respond accordingly to what he was doing, he loved for me to spread my toes open so he could slide his tongue between and I clench them closed and lightly pinch his tongue, seemed to drive him a good kinda crazy. Also, I'd lift my foot up so he can put his tongue on my heel and drag the whole bottom from the heel to my toes following my arch, kept dragging my toes down his chin lightly down his neck and further down from his chest to his penis where I cradled his shaft with the arch of my foot, pushed up slightly then dragged back down to his balls. He really loved that too, like I was participating and controlling it in a sense.
I had made time in there where I had him lay next to me so I can give him one of my lovely blowjobs , he was very into that too.
I was tired and I knew I had to get back to work by 10am so when 4am rolled around (we started this at about 1:30am) he was still on my feet and I'd fallen asleep till about 7am. I woke up and he was still down there playing with my feet like he just started! LOL! I wasnt mad I just started back up with responding to him. Hed scooted back enough so I could fold my legs up towards my chest and get a grip of his still hard penis with my feet and play with it that way, of couse he loved this, and about 8am he got up and finally pulled off my cloths. I am still on my back on the bed, hes on his knees and slides himself inside me, he was only about 6" but it was still the anticipation and build up it was perfect. so hes inside me now and he drops on top of me and starts kissing me (Yeah, for so much work I did honestly my feet didnt smell too bad at all lol), He hesitated before he started kissing me like I'd have a problem with the fact hes been making out with my feet for the past 5 hours haha, but I didnt care hes so damn sexy. So its just passion and making out, he pushes himself back up on his knees while still inside me and I fold my legs so I can put the arch of my right foot on his neck and the other foot on the side of his face so my toes can lightly grab his ear and give him a little choke (Because I love being choked), he seemed to like it too.
No grand finally, we were having sex till 9:30am when I told him we have to hurry that I have to get going back to work. He pulled himself out of me and laid on his back beside me and finished himself off.
All-in-all I'd say it was an amazing experience. Still my feet in someone's face doesnt particularly turn me on, but the fact that he was so into it motivated me. That and the fact that he was just soooooo good looking.
He managed to get a good 15 minute video of us together for his records. I asked him how big his collection was jokingly he said he never has made a video with anyone else ever, he even felt the urge to turn his phone screen towards me and show me that Im the only (personal) sexual video he had in there. I told him he had no obligation to me that Im not a jealous person. He sort of implied that if I was still living in Cincinnati that he would actually love to have an obligation to me. I am honored. he seemed like a really genuine nice fella. And, next time I'm in Cincinnati I'll definitely be giving him another go, if he's not already taken. Odds are he wont be single long, because... damn lol.
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Just moved from Cincinnati, OH to Ft Wayne, IN.
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Posted:Jan 28, 2015 10:58 am
Last Updated:Apr 24, 2015 4:33 pm
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Hey guys!
I finally moved from Cincinnati to Fort Wayne, Indiana. If by some off chance someone in the Fort Wayne area reads this, let me know if there is anything fun to do in this little town! Haha, So far I seen a large pool hall, and Wrigley's Bar seems popular. I know about the Comedy Club, and Pierr's.
I managed to bring my with me so I have him for riding in decent weather.
I'm planning on going to a skating rink down the street and get used to my roller blades. If you wanna do something let me know.
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Horseback riding today!
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Posted:Sep 11, 2014 5:56 am
Last Updated:Aug 4, 2015 11:35 pm
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Yeah, after last night's post haha, figured I'd jump on my high today! provided it's not too soggy out. He's my buddy! Everything looks better when you're up on a , Excited!
The brown is mine, (Tanner). Tennessee Walking , 13 year old gelding. I've had him 2 years now
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A Drunkin Note
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Posted:Sep 10, 2014 10:53 pm
Last Updated:Jun 3, 2015 3:51 pm
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Isn't alcohol supposed to make you feel better? By the end of the night, after a 10 hour work day I go to drink mind you, I never used to, this is a recent habit, as in within the past 2 months recent.
After work I go there to relax and by the 3rd Bloody Mary I'm just reminded how lonely I am. I wish I had someone to cuddle up to, to touch, to kiss. I had it for 10 years, I thought I'd be loving being single since I ended it, though I don't want it with either of my Exes, I still look on and wish I had it.
There is someone I'd known years ago as a customer at a place I used to work, I'd just ran into him maybe 2 weeks ago for the first time in maybe 3 years and it was cool. But he seems to always come to the bar with his female friend, who is in a rocky relationship with someone else. I can see it in his eyes, how he wishes he could have her, but she is blind to it. I love the love he shows her that she passes off as, "just friendship". All these years I've been in Ohio nd I havent been out at all till 2 months ago. It will take a while to build up that kind of friendship, I want it though. I want to be loved for being me.
I found myself playing on the jukebox SR-71's "Tomorrow", and Nine Inch Nails' "Every Day is Exactly the Same", Middle Class Rut's "New Low"... I find the songs I play reflect my mood, and it turns out that way unintentionally.
I would have loved to think I am discovering myself being single now, but I still feel like I'm missing a piece of me, I'm still looking for it...
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First blog; a clue as to why I act the way I do when we meet
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Posted:Aug 28, 2014 1:26 pm
Last Updated:Sep 30, 2021 11:55 pm
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So, I don't believe I've seen anyone else post a Blog, but I like to type up a storm so I think I'll take advantage of it, who's going to read it right?
I do believe I've been on here for perhaps 3 or 4 months now, I'd left the site not long after I signed up for about 2 months then came back.
WEBCAMS
I go on cam here and there, I don't particularly enjoy masturbating myself, so when I go on cam it is not to "get off", there is a certain attention and reassurance I get from the comments I recieve from being on cam that I don't get in real life. I also get a free extension on my Gold membership pretty easily for being on cam occasionally.
I don't enjoy cam2cam unless we have communicated somewhat previously and I find you extremely attractive. I am a Gemini, I lose interest/get distracted very quickly. Once I get on cam myself and get bombarded with messages I may lose my focus on you because the viewers questions do entertain me more than watching any guy jack-off. Sorry, I don't care how attractive you are, I will never get-off on cam not even a little bit, this site and the use of webcams is purely entertaining, not pleasurable in the least for me.
IRL
I am very reserved and pretty quiet and standoffish in person when I'm in public or in groups. This will be the key to understanding how my mind works if I ever meet you and it's just us;
Normally these days I don't act nervous, I figure there is no reason to be I don't know you and you don't know me. It'll work if it's meant to work. I smile a lot, but I get complimented on it so I guess its a good thing. If I don't smile or am not easy to make laugh or smile through a joke then I'm probably really not into you at all. I am usually super nice, but if I'm trying to drive a point home I can be quite short and rude just to make myself less attractive to you in hopes I'll never hear from you again.
If I do act shy or nervous it is because of 1 of 2 reasons; the main reason is if you're coming on too strong/flirty it makes me feel uncomfortable and not know how to react. The 2nd reason would be (and don't count on it), that I'm super infatuated with you.
I am very observant, I am listening to everything you say, (unless I've lost interest in you, and the above mentioned no smiling/laughing is a sign of loss of interest).
As far as sex goes
If we had agreed to have a sexual encounter know my likes and dislikes;
likes : include;
Petting - Run your fingers over or through my hair or skin it feels amazing I love it! I'll be in love if you do it till I fall asleep
Kissing - I love a good kisser, but if you can't kiss well (in my opinion) then I'd rather avoid it all together. I don't like peckers or too much tongue. I also don't like loud kissing noises to be made.
Touchy feely - I love a thin to in-shape male figure, and I love to touch all over. My favorite spot on a guy is his waist area right where the belt line is, I love broad shoulders as well, and rough hands that let me know you work with them, super turn on!
BJs - If Im attracted to you I do enjoy giving BJs, sometimes it's difficult for me to quit actually. But then again I can also give a BJ if I'm not so attracted to you either and just am trying to give you something so I don't completely reject you, it's a way-out of having sex with you. I do prefer to have FULL control of the BJs I give, I dont like to be forced at all on this, and this is about the only thing I like full-control of sexually. BUT this can really be one way or the other. My ability to do a good job, or desire to make a BJ last depends entirely on you. If you're just laying there like a limp noodle, no reaction no movements or sounds that let me know you're enjoying it then I really won't be doing it for a very long time. Your response to what I'm doing will determine everything.
Hairpulling - Unless I'm giving a BJ, yeah I like my hair to be pulled during doggie style
Mild dominance - As in, no I don't want to go full out wearing a collar and calling you master but I do love it rough and to have a strong hand force himself in and on me. Note that the only thing I prefer to dominate is BJ time.
Passion - If you know how to be passionate that's a HUGE turn on for me. I don't believe this is natural for everyone, either you have it in you or you don't. Yeah, you can be dominant and passionate at the same time.
Choking - I do like rough sex, mild choking is a turn-on for me as long as I get kisses of reassurance here and there so it's not like a total dominate scene lol.
Anal - I do love anal, not every time, but when we do do it, ease it in slowly, once its in rough and hard anal is the only way with me, I want to know I'm getting fucked in the ass not feel like I'm letting out a slow deuce, honestly.
Cream Pies - I LOVE to feel you cum inside me, love love it, but unless we're exclusive or I know I can trust you we will not be having sex without a condom. Just saying, yeah I'm into it
Use Your Hands! - Not all men know how to use their hands, so this is for those that do know how to use them. This is the only way the two men who did give me orgasms accomplished it. I don't expect anyone to be patient enough to find the spot because honestly, I don't know where it is either! But I know the general vicinity, and I can tell you if you're getting close. There is currently no one in Ohio, Indiana or Kentucky who can successfuly give me an orgasm. Just know if it's not working, I don't want it to become a mission, too much effort will only start to turn me off. I can enjoy sex very much without the orgasm, I promise.
Dislikes include;
Questions and/or Dirty Talk - When were having sex or I'm giving a BJ, don't ask questions that require an answer! Wow it's amazing how many guys love to say, "do you like that?.... Do you?? Tell me that you like it!" Holy shit-fuck when you make me have to stop what I'm doing to answer your stupid ass questions that is a huge turn-off. I will not be seeing you again if you ask ANY questions, except ones that are telling me what to do or just checking if I am into something before you try it.
Also, I don't like to be degraded or called names, and really I'm not too verbal myself so I really don't like to degrade or call you names either.
Sex Position; Riding - Now a lot of women I talk to prefer this position, on a very very very rare person I may slightly enjoy it, depending on the length, width and curve of your dick, but generally I really get absolutely nothing out of being on top except tired. If you are turned on by it I suppose I may be able to do it for a short period of time, but I'll be dry as a desert after a couple minutes.
Sex Position; 69 - I really dont like having to focus on anything but the task at hand. I pretty much would rather just suck your dick, you messing with my vaj will only distract me, and that is not hott at all, not for me anyway.
Ear touching - Just stay away from my ears in general, I don't like them nibbled on, licked, breathed on or touched in any way if you can help it. Accidental brushing against is nothing to worry about, mainly have an issue with intentional touching/breathing on/hovering over.
Role Playing - I will not call you any name but your own, NO I will not call you daddy! I would prefer you don't even call me baby or babe, I really don't like using any names or terms-of-endearment other than our own names. I don't want to play games or pretend I'm something I'm not.
Marks - I like a little pain but if it leaves any marks (including a hickey) I will not be happy!
Clit play or being eaten out - Nope, I don't like to be eaten out! It's more of a relaxing thing to me, I feel like falling asleep. I suppose if you MUST go down there it's not out of the question, but no, I don't particularly find it a turn-on, you cuddling me and/or rubbing/scratching my back turns me on a million times more than eating me out, honestly it does. My clit is also extremely sensitive in a bad way. Any pressure on it feels like you're poking the worst black and blue bruise. If you're gentle.. Yeah that's fine but I really would rather you just forget my clit all together.
Other woman - Sorry ladies, you're awesome as friends, but I can not bring myself to touch another woman below her waist. On the very rare instance I might agree to a 3sum, I can never return the favor, but I don't mind what you do to me. I can kiss you and touch your boobs but that's about it, there would be no passion about it.
3sums or orgies - I don't particularly like being distracted, so this includes adding another man, I just like to have my focus on one person. I am not interested in 3sums or orgies of any kind.
NOTE: That only 2 men have ever been able to give me an orgasm, I cant even give myself an orgasm. I don't masturbate on my own time, my touch does nothing for me. Yes I've had all sorts of toys in the past, they just do nothing for me, I prefer the real thing! If I choose to meet someone in-person this is why I am very picky on appearance, I MUST be very very attracted to you or I wont meet you at all, because odds are I'm not going to orgasm, visuals and touch turn me on, please don't make it a mission! And don't ask if I've had one either! Trust me if I had one I will tell you! Just because I don't orgasm does not mean I don't thoroughly enjoy sex anyway, I do get very wet and turned on
So I guess that's the basics to me, a lot I know. I'm sure no one will read through it all anyway so Its mostly for me to reference in the future and see if I ever change at all.
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