Truth is, I never wanted to do anything like this... I was with my partner for over 8 years and we both loved each other very much but that's unfortunately irrelevant. It took her a couple of years before the first time she told me about her bondage domination desires. I went along with it and I dare say that I even enjoyed and liked it because it's what she wanted. Fast forward a few years, and her unspoken and unresolved trauma led her to cheat on me and eventually have an affair. There's a lot to it and it's complicated but I'm not here to talk about my ex. Willing to answer anything about whatever. Had the same decent job for the last four years and beginning the planning phase for my transition to Columbia University for computer engineering in the Fall. I keep flip-flopping between engineering and science, I'm probably going to science. I mostly keep to myself and spend most of my time at home. I have a lot of time until summer session classes start, I should reorganize the apartment but I'll probably play video games if I'm not already building a computer. Going to probably discontinue, nothing happened but I appreciate and I'm flattered by the positive attention. A USCG vet using my education benefit to go to Columbia for Computer Science