(Us) Married over 25 years with and a grandchild. (He) Youthful middle aged straight male. Average sized below the belt. A bit of extra padding but muscular and losing weight due to lifestyle changes. Laid back/chill vibe, ,sweet, quiet, gentle, kind hearted, funny, and madly in love with his wife. Ladies, he is a gentleman and will not assume you are into him until you let him know. He wants a lady to give him the green light before he will flirt with you or take charge. (Her) Youthful projecting, petite build with very light skin tone. Self and other respecting, easy going and accepting, and smitten with her husband. (Us) We are authentic people who have no time for drama or flakiness. We get along with most anyone who respects boundaries and is polite. We value discretion and patience. We will especially get along if you get our Arrested Development, Parks & Rec, The Office, or Grand Tour/Top Gear show references, or our otherwise irreverent and slightly tasteless humor. We are wanting to explore a shared experience and adventure together, with others. We've been a part of a full swap, MFM and a FMF. What we are looking for is Couple swaps (full) and FMF, or MFM. We are NOT into Anal, BDSM, cuckhold, or rough stuff, nor are we bedpost notchers. We are mainly looking for friendships with benefits. The Mrs. is Bi-Comfortable. She is not necessarily attracted to women and wouldn't seek a female out for herself, but she will play with another lady in a couple swap situation because she likes to put on a show for the men. Single men, please do not contact us. We will find you.