My marriage is OPEN. If you are married or attached and your relationship isn't, move on! I don't want drama from some woman thinking I'm trying to take what's hers. I'm not a thief! I've been married 29 years. Hubby and I do not play together. If you're uncomfortable with him knowing where I am and with whom, move on. My safety is important to us both. I do NOT host and do NOT give second chances. Absolutely NO drug users or cigarette smokers! Why do the bi or bi-curious women on here never respond to messages? At least say I'm not interested! I have a dominant personality. Many people don't believe it because I'm sweet and soft spoken. Don't let that fool you! I've been in the BDSM lifestyle for a long time. That isn't required. I'm just stating a fact. I've had FWBs and submissives. Now that's out of the way, if you want to get to know an intelligent, funny and sensual woman, let's have a civil conversation.

My Ideal Person A male or female who is open, sane, down to earth and can hold a conversation not all about sex. Be in and around the Charlotte area or willing to travel to me. I do not think I'm God's gift, but I do not have time to play stupid games. My time is valuable and I think yours is too. I have no nude pics on my profile because I choose not to, but I don't judge those who do. It's a personal choice. Don't ask for any pics because they will NOT be sent. Don't ask me to watch you on cam. I won't.