I am single, live alone, and am looking to explore. As I get older, I'm realizing there is more to life and I want to live it. I would prefer chatting and getting to know someone as opposed to straight-out-of-the-gate hook-ups. I dislike the bar scene. I prefer not to party when I'm trying to meet someone. I would prefer dinner out, going for a stroll, very traditional ways to meet someone. I would like to know if there is some sort of chemistry and know that the person on the other end is not a "bot" or a fake account.

My Ideal Person I am straight and am looking for men, but I'm looking to experience the sensual touch of a woman in an FMF setting, should the right couple (or just a female) come along.

I am of average size, I carry a little bit in the middle and my ass does not look like it did 20 years ago, but I'm okay with it. If you are okay with a few battle scars that come with being in your mid/late 40's, let's chat. You do not have to be a super-fit jock, as long as you are clean, healthy, and D&D-free.

I prefer to listen to hard rock/heavy metal, but not blasting out of the speakers. I'm not one for romantic, sappy ballads, just some music to keep the energy up.