I'm not trying to hurt anyone, especially my s or my wife. My wife has major self-esteem issues because she has gained a lot of weight and has no interest in sex. She's 5'4" and over 330lbs.. I've tried everythng that I can think of to help. Nothing has worked yet. She has to want to be helped first. I'm just looking for a safe, discreet way to keep my "desire" from dieing. I'm a firefighter/EMT for over 20 yrs. and I'm 6'3" and 280lbs. w/redish brown hair.

My Ideal Person Compation, No strings, semi- regularity, clean and very discreet.....!!!! I'm looking for someone that can be very discreet so this doesn't effect my career or home. I'm just looking to fullfil mutual needs without hurting anyone on either side of this endever.