We are an African American woman and caucasian man in our early 40's. Between us we have a slew of tattoos, college degrees, books, and 3 rescue dogs. We are as comfortable talking movies and comics as we are classic literature and music. Our vibe is silly and sweet, an after 13 years we are still ridiculously in love. Primarily we are looking for a third for an MFF threesome (who isn't looking for a unicorn?) We have had lots of fun playing with other couples so full swap swinging is an option. Our optimal scenario is a "friends with benefits" deal where we like to hang out as well as "play." We believe in informed, continuous enthusiastic consent (ICE) and practice it with all of our partners.