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Time . . . to have a drink???
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Time . . . to have a drink??? Ok, I don't share much about the inner me, only right now I am going to, in a way that some won't expect, as I love myself. I really do love myself, and right now it will show clearly to some of those who didn't realise it before. I choose, who I make love to, when I make love to him, and in what circumstances I make love to him. This all happens after he decides that he wants to either have sex or make love to me. Please explain???? I will. As a woman, sometimes I have to be very patient, more patient than I have patience for, if I like a man. Only I find that sometimes the man I wait for is not worth waiting for, because if he were worth waiting for, he'd be thinking of me, not just of his time out. Ouch! Really pushing things here. That's ok. I am worth it, and if he doesn't know it, then he is probably wrong for me. Lots of wrong men have pursued me in the past, and I do feel that the right man will also just know. He might not feel adequate. He might feel he doesn't deserve me, just he will know that he wants me in his life, and as more than just a friend. Now, to the issue here. Yes, I can drink too much if I am not careful. Yes, I could drink, lose control and end up with "him", only I don't, not these days. If that happens, I know that he has done something inappropriate, and has taken advantage of me, because I DO NOT MAKE LOVE UNDER THE INFLUENCE! Not anymore. The reason? I was married for several years before I realised that we had never made love sober, and I am determined never to let that happen again, so if you think that you can go there while I am not sober, then be prepared to definitely lose me, and then possibly face charges. Remember that if you get anywhere near me ever. So in case you didn't get that, I DO NOT MAKE LOVE UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF ANYTHING OTHER THAN THE DESIRE TO DO SO, BECAUSE I ACTUALLY GIVE A DAMN ABOUT THE MAN, AND HE ACTUALLY WANTS TO MAKE LOVE TO ME ALSO. I do not make love to a man who does not want to go there, as some men are just as damaged as some of us women, for similar reasons, or perhaps different ones. I need to respect the man as I want to be respected. Now that is why I never touched my precious friend, because I knew that he was terrified of being abused by a new woman. He had not dealt with the concept that some women are not like her, and are actually really precious. He had not worked that out, so even though I never did a thing wrong, other than tell him that he was emotionally immature, and I was not being nasty, only that was a really stupid thing to say to a man who is, so I did lose him permanently. Yes, it hurts. Yes, I do know that there is nothing I can do about it, which is why I am doing everything I can to move on. Only just like others, I do have to accept that it's just not going to happen as easily as when I was younger. It's just not going to happen that easily, and if it does, there is a strong possibility, it's not with the right man, as like me, the right man just won't rush into it. What I am not saying here, and need to say, is that I have found that I need time to move on, or to move forward. Somehow because I was there for him for seven years, I feel the need to take it ever so slowly with someone new, and just not rush in, and maybe take a similar time, and no, I don't want to wait that long for my next sexual experience, only I do really feel that I am convicted to this sentence, if you know what I mean. Perhaps you don't, only I do really feel it's not going to happen suddenly, or overnight. That I am sure of. I am not sure of anything else. I did leave something out. I have worked out a system, that I normally don't go there within the first three months of us getting close. I am not going to explain that, as I do not have to , so if you don't like that, go find another woman. I am not for you. 
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I think it is a sad indictment of human behaviour that one has to get to my age to properly appreciate how dysfunctional human attitudes to sex really are, by which time it is rather too late. Perhaps the same goes for alcohol too. I know that I put for too much time and energy into the pursuit of a shag in my youth which I am sure had to do more with peer pressure than physical need which I was much more capable of relieving with my own left hand than I am now. But at the same time for me seduction is something of a sport and I relish a challenge. But using alcohol as a means of getting into a woman's knickers is not very sporting. But at the end of the day nobody, male or female should ever need to feel pressured into having sex and by the same token there should be no issues of heavenly virtue preventing any couple from having the time of their lives if they are both in the mood for it, first date or not. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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At this point in time, the lady bites her tongue, and quietly says Thank you kind sir for your wonderful comment. I have published it as it does impress me. Then she disappears in case, oops, said too much! Do not tell him that! You might give him ideas! Lady, press the publish button before you say something naughty! 
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At this point in time, the lady bites her tongue, and quietly says Thank you kind sir for your wonderful comment. I have published it as it does impress me. Then she disappears in case, oops, said too much! Do not tell him that! You might give him ideas! Lady, press the publish button before you say something naughty! You always seem to have so much to say in your posts I get cross eyed trying to read them at times. But that's besides the point. Why would you be afraid to say anything to me or anyone else in here. After all, isn't that the whole point of this website? A place where you can hide behind a handle and say anything at all to anyone without fear or favour. Well that's what attracted me here anyhow. But anyway, your response amounts to teasing. So now that you have started, why not put me out of my misery and tell me the rest. I swear in my sword that I will not lay a finger on my sword bonny lass. Now you cant get better than that can you? Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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No, no no no no, the tongue stays firmly clamped this time, to ensure the topic is not lost. Now what was the topic again? Oh, making love under the influence. Hmm. I do have to write about something more useful right now, if I can just get my act together. There are these supermarkets . . . and . . .
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Now you have me really confused. What has supermarkets got to do with making love under the influence? Makes me wonder what driving a trolley under the influence can lead to. Sir Teezalot WAR IS ABSURD
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