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Blogs > oneladybrijit > For What It's Worth!

When you feel worthless 1 . . .  

oneladybrijit 66F
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3/13/2012 6:46 pm
When you feel worthless 1 . . .

In this world, there are some people who don't feel terribly important. Ok, I have to rephrase that.

In this world, most people don't feel terribly important.

In fact, most people have a degree of worthlessness in their psyche. A lot of double dutch! Ok, many, many people that we meet every day, don't feel they are worth much at all. They do feel that it would be very easy just to brush them away like a fly, and then they'd be gone.

Only, they are people, with feelings, and because they don't feel worth much, or feel worthless, they struggle every day of their lives with this lack of self worth.

ONLY, what they don't realise is that most of the rest of the world feels exactly the same as they do. Only the rest of the world doesn't share that with them, as they also are struggling terribly with feelings of worthlessness every day of their lives.

Some are so badly damaged, that they never achieve, as they feel everything they will ever do will be destroyed.

Then there are others who achieve over and over and just never feel it's good enough, so they achieve again, and more each time.

Their common denominator is that both types, achiever and non-achiever, are driven by their feelings of worthlessness, and that is the real issue here, a state of mind.

I am going to make a point here, and if there is a professional who has a valid reason for disputing it, feel free, let me know.

I do not think that ant-depressants will change your state of mind. What will change your state of mind is your attitude to your life, and to change your attitude, you need to look at a few things. Yes, there are professionals who you can pay to help you.

A point needs to be made here, and that is that if a doctor has put you on anti-depressants, then you may not be able to live without them for reasons other than your attitude. If that is the case, as in you don't behave in acceptable ways when you are not on them, then you are someone who has to take them. However if you don't have to take them, then it's worth considering your attitude, and how you can help yourself.

If you want to, you can help yourself. You don't need to be locked into this world of "I am never going to be anything special" if you choose to drag yourself out of it, and believe me, just looking at those words as I typed them, I found myself sinking, as I am no longer young, no longer a productive person in society as such, and isn't that why I am here? Here, I have found an outlet that I can use, and it will help some, perhaps not all, and it's important for each of us to remember that:

"A doctor buries his mistakes"

Now you think about that! It says that a doctor's mistakes are hidden, buried. It also says he does make mistakes, and we (well sort of) see doctors as these wonderful knowledgeable people who never have to go without, never have to struggle, have money coming out of their ears, go on fantastic holidays . . . Hang on, that's deluded!

Doctors are humans, many struggle to get through their training, and some don't make it through, as they find they can't for this or that reason. Doctors have broken marriages much more than the rest of us, as they do things that most of us don't have to do, like working through the night when others are at home. Then when they finally get out and practise their craft, they accidentally cause someone to die. Ouch! How would you deal with that?! Ok, if they are clever, they know that we are all human, and we all make mistakes, and so they accept that. Not only that, because we are all different, the treatment that heals so many, didn't work on this person, so they died. So you see, it's not that simple!

The good news for us is that doctors can be our example. The do bury their mistakes, and get on with it, looking at all the people that they got it right with, and there are a lot more people that they get it right with, than the number they get it wrong with.

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